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Mrs. Snail (formerly Miss Snail), New York/New Jersey Age and Occupation: 26, Make-up artist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Making me happy~ Engagement Date: May 7, 2006 Wedding Date: December 2006 Venue: Rockleigh Country Club, New Jersey About Me: I feel like I've waited so long to officially start the wedding planning process and now I'm all sorts of emotions - overwhelmed, excited, stressed, confused. But I'm a trooper and I have the support of the best friends and family. I hope I'm able to plan an amazing wedding in 6 months that will be talked about years from now.
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Lucky Years

June 1st, 2006 @ 8:09 pm by Mrs. Snail

After my recent engagement, my parents informed me that I HAD TO marry either this year or in 2008, because 2007 is supposedly an unlucky year. I was thinking 2008. My mom has been talking to me nonstop about getting married this year since the engagement (2 weeks ago); telling me why having a long engagement would not be good for me, having children after 30, blah blah blah and ending it with “I’m not going to talk about it anymore, it’s up to you guys…”

Uhhhhh yea riiiiiiiiight.

After waiting almost 3 and a half years for my fiance to propose, I should be jumping the gun right? But with the start of new jobs for both of us and me REALLY wanting to take the time to plan my “dream” wedding, I was looking forward to a later wedding. That would give me time to drop some weight too.

But after much nagging and the advice of two friends telling me that getting married this year would be great too, I decided to listen to mom. Now she’s happy and no more headaches for me. I haven’t even started planning and I’m already stressed. I’m overwhelmed I guess, with not really being able to plan with my schedule and such. But I’m lucky to have such awesome friends and family around willing to lend a hand.

There’s no way it’s possible for me to turn into a bridezilla in 6 months right? If I do~ somebody please slap me back to reality.

I’m not even sure what I really need to do or where to begin. This is my “right-now” list:

* The wedding date

I’m hoping the date will be set sometime before the end of this week.

* My wedding dress-to-be

Which means I need to lose weight as fast as I can without passing out or starving. Not that starvation is even a possibility with the love I have for food.

Let the craziness begin~!

13 Responses to “Lucky Years”

1.
J says:

Really? 2007 is a bad year? My fiance & I were just talking last night about when we shoud have our wedding. We got engaged last Wed :-). At first I said maybe april/may of 2008. But then I started wondering maybe 2 years is too long a wait from now. So then we said we should consider Sept/Oct of next year. But now you say it’s a bad year :0(. I got to ask my mom about that. I’m usually not very superstitious.. but still…

2.
J says:

Oh Miss Snail.. I love your ring! It’s gorgeous! Looks like we got engaged around the same time :-). Congrats again. I read that you clean your ring frequently. How do you clean it? I’m trying to find the best way to clean my ring without having to go to the jeweler all the time.

3.
Christen says:

My boyfriend almost fiance asked me how quickly I could plan a wedding… we came up with two months! Wow!! I’m so ready to be married… my mind is already spinning with things that will need to get done in two months, not to mention finishing school and work…man I’m crazy… crazy in love!! hehe ~C

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Miss Caterpillar says:

Miss Snail, you’re going through the initial stages of wedding madness. It happens to everyone. The minute you get engaged all the craziness comes out of the woodwork. The first month I was engaged I lost 5 lbs because of all the stress.

The minute you learn how to navigate around all the family/guest list/budget obstacles, the process becomes really fun. Trust me, it gets better! Soon you’ll be telling us all how you put your wedding together in 2 months and only spent $100!

5.
miss snail says:

lost weight from the stress?? bring it on then~!!@ hahah actually, the stress is kinda driving me crazy. i can’t wait till it gets easier and till’ i start the little projects~!!

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miss snail says:

miss j~

i don’t want to jinx your year. it’s when you are ready. if my parents weren’t pushing for a 2006 wedding (they been wanting to get me hitched since i was 18) 2007 fall would’ve been my choice regardless the bad buzz. and ring cleaning.. i use hot water with a drop of dishwashing soap. put it in a metal teabag thingy and dip. i read it in some household book i bought at b &n. it says to add drops of ammonia too.. but i’m afraid too. i think i’m going to get a ultrasonic machine thingamajiggy at brookstone.

7.
J says:

True. And yes, my relationship is based on our love and commitment to each other, shouldn’t be on some superstition :-). Thanks for the advice. And thanks for sharing your “ring cleaning” tip w/me :-).

8.
Tabitha says:

Miss Snail…my family said the same thing to me that your mom said to you. My fiance had proposed to me in May of 2005 but our “official” engagement ceremony was not til the fall of that year. At the time of the engagement, we were informed that we can only get married in ‘06 or ‘08; otherwise, our marriage would be doomed (bad luck, blaaah) if we marry in an odd-number year (specifically, 2007). We’re not getting married til ‘08 but it has nothing to do with their superstitions. But even then, they’re arguing that our engagement shouldn’t be that long either as it’s not a good thing. *roll eyes* Lol

9.
miss snail says:

tabitha,

i think it’s a total asian thing. my parents were told that by a fortune teller.

10.
bluang3lbby says:

i dont know about the supersition with the years. but with what tabitha is saying. like for us, we aren’t allowed to be engage for more then a year or it is considered bad luck.

11.
toad says:

Thank goodness my parents, aunts and grandmas (the usual suspects) have not been talking to any fortune tellers. Regardless, I’m sticking with 2007.

Ring cleaning rumors: I hear oxident (sp? — fizzy denture cleaners) works wonders and is cheap. 1 tablet in warmish water + ring. I have yet to try it as I’m too scattered to remember to get the tablets at the drugstore.

12.
J says:

In regards to ring cleaning… (sorry i know we’re off topic from the original post here), my fiance just talked to someone at the Michael B jewelry line and he said if you have small diamonds covering/on your band, you don’t want to use an ultrasonic cleaner because the ultrasound can vibrate those small diamonds loose. Just wanted to share….

13.
Elizabeth says:

I have heard this superstition too. Which is why we can’t get married until 2008! Its nice to know that I am not the only one in this predicament.


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Mrs. Snail Mrs. Snail (formerly Miss Snail), New York/New Jersey Age and Occupation: 26, Make-up artist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Making me happy~ Engagement Date: May 7, 2006 Wedding Date: December 2006 Venue: Rockleigh Country Club, New Jersey About Me: I feel like I've waited so long to officially start the wedding planning process and now I'm all sorts of emotions - overwhelmed, excited, stressed, confused. But I'm a trooper and I have the support of the best friends and family. I hope I'm able to plan an amazing wedding in 6 months that will be talked about years from now.