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Mrs. Daisy, New York Age and Occupation: 32, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Finance Engagement Date: December 10, 2005 Wedding Date: November 11, 2006 Blogging Since: June 7, 2006 Venue: Metropolitan Club About Me: My favorite activities used to include knitting, cooking, doing the crossword puzzle and about a million other relaxing pursuits. Since my engagement, well, not so much. Wedding planning has become my primary hobby. So much so that I am downgrading my work schedule to part-time in order to more fully dedicate myself to my wedding (and reality tv, as well, if I'm being honest).
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China Girl

June 16th, 2006 @ 10:40 am by Mrs. Daisy

Ok, as I alluded to in a prior post, my china pattern has returned from the dead.

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Orsay Powder Blue by Philippe Deshoulieres.

“But, how ever could a china pattern be so swiftly resurrected?” one might ask. The answer is, it’s fairly easy when the pattern was, apparently, never discontinued in the first place.

Flashback to April 28, 2006. On that day, my mom’s friend went to Bloomingdale’s, 59th Street, to purchase some china off my registry. An unidentified registry sales associate informed her that the pattern had been discontinued. Upon hearing this tragic news (trust me, it *was* bad news–it took us-for-freaking-ever to pick a pattern), my mother also contacted Bloomingdale’s, whereupon the discontinuance was confirmed. Reluctantly, my mom called me to break the news. I wasn’t looking forward to choosing another pattern, but I was definitely far more consolable than Mr. Daisy who highly dreaded another scorched earth china search mission.

Unwilling, to take Bloomingdale’s word for it, I contacted the china manufacturer, Philippe Deshoulieres. In my very poor French, I asked them if this were true. When I didn’t receive any answer, my mom–being ridiculously helpful–went to Bloomingdale’s and switched our registry over to Bernardaud’s Elysニ朝e, which we had previously seen and quite liked:

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The fact that the cost of an Elysニ朝e place-setting is roughly 2x the cost of an Orsay setting stuck in my craw, but only for a bit. I came to love my Elysニ朝e even more than the Orsay that came before. But then, I received the following email in my inbox:

From: [Bloomingdale's Registry Guy]
To: Miss Daisy
CC: [Philippe Deshoulieres Lady]
Date: Friday - June 9, 2006 2:41 PM
Subject: Fw:
Requニ潮te envoyニ朝e depuis le site internet Philippe DESHOULIERES

Dear Ms. Daisy,
I’m not sure why you were told that Philippe Deshoulieres “Orsay Powder Blue” is no longer made. It’s our best selling china pattern from Philippe Deshoulieres. It is still manufactured, we still carry it, and we would be happy to register you for that pattern.
Most sincerely,
[Bloomingdale's Registry Guy]

Below his email was my original email, which had been forwarded to him by the Philippe Deshoulieres’ national sales manager. She had written the following note:

Hello,
Sorry for not sending this email to both of you sooner but I am still cleaning up from my maternity leave. I will translate and summarize this email from a Bloomingdales bride: She emailed the factory to find out if the factory was still making Orsay Powder blue, the pattern she is registered for because she had been told by the store that the factory had stopped the production of this pattern.
Best regards,
[Philippe Deshoulieres lady]

So, now, what do I do??? Do I stick with the pricier Elysニ朝e, or do I take back my poor, beleaguered Orsay? (wasn’t Helen Hunt faced with a similar choice in that movie Cast Away?)
I need guidance*!
~~~

* And, as Mr. Daisy knows by now, despite my own request for such guidance, I reserve the right to ignore any and all guidance with a “Whatever! I do what I want!” It’s kind of my life motto, modeled after the great Eric Cartman.

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8 Responses to “China Girl”

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Personally I like your second choice but for you, well it was a second choice! So I will suggest you to go for the first choice you made, Orsay Powder Blue by Philippe Deshoulieres, you loved it at first and you’ll probably get it all since is cheaper and your guests will be happier about that too :) !

 
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Mary

I like the second choice! Timeless.

 
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Miss Grasshopper

I love the Elysニ朝e!

 
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Miss Spider

I say switch back to the first one and when guests tell you they love it, you can say “omg, let me tell you the wonderful story of undying love and fate behind this china pattern.”

 
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Twistie

They look very similar, but if one is much less expensive, you’d be likely to receive more as gifts and have an easier time filling out the set on your own afterwards if you don’t get it all as wedding gifts. Besides, as Miss Spider says, it’s a hell of a great story to tell!

Ultimately, though, pick the one you think will make you happier on your table. The price tag and the story are good reasons to pick one over the other if you don’t really have a strong preference, but if you prefer what’s behind door #2 that’s what you should pick.

How’s that for equivocating? LOL!

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,235 posts, Sugar bee

they’re both beautiful, but I like the Elysee a bit more.

 
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Ashley

Ooooh…I prefer the Orsay, but like Cartman says: “I do what I want!”

 
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Miss Daisy

oh, thank you, guys!! i’m still so torn. i think i might stick with the Elysニ朝e and give myself the weekend to think on it.

Twistie, you are so right about the price incentive. i am not looking forward to filling in at Elysニ朝e rates. but still– it’s so purty!

 

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Mrs. Daisy, New York Age and Occupation: 32, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Finance Engagement Date: December 10, 2005 Wedding Date: November 11, 2006 Blogging Since: June 7, 2006 Venue: Metropolitan Club About Me: My favorite activities used to include knitting, cooking, doing the crossword puzzle and about a million other relaxing pursuits. Since my engagement, well, not so much. Wedding planning has become my primary hobby. So much so that I am downgrading my work schedule to part-time in order to more fully dedicate myself to my wedding (and reality tv, as well, if I'm being honest).

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