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Open Question: Superstitious?

July 20th, 2006 @ 11:33 am by Mrs. Bee

We’re getting married in the evening during sunset. Lovely idea, but hate the idea of him and her pictures at night. Reception ok but wedding photos- blah.

We’re not superstitous, in fact we’re getting married on Friday October 13th (it was the only date left!!), but I would like the pictures done before the wedding in daylight before he sees me walk down the aisle.

Are those two combined just asking for the Big Day disaster?

Thanks- Tristan

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10 Responses to “Open Question: Superstitious?”

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ncmz

Most brides see the groom before they walk down the aisle, I will not do it, but if you don’t mind this is an option you may want to consider (take pics during the day of.. with FI).
Another option is to take pics during day time. Personally I am getting married in the afternoon but the photographer is coming at 1 at my house, so it will be really bright. No, it shouldn’t be a disaster just the passing time of the day.

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,235 posts, Sugar bee

My maid of honor’s birthday is October 13th and Mr. Bee and I took pictures before the wedding. I’m not really superstitious though, so if it were me I wouldn’t worry. =)

 
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JG

We took our formal wedding pictures 2 months before our wedding. My husband actually helped pick out my dress. As you can tell, we are totally not superstitious and we are also still madly in love after 4 years. That’s not a lifetime by any means (except maybe among celebrity couples), but I would just encourage all the brides out there not to believe in superstitions on their wedding day. It takes a lot more than that to ruin a marriage.

 
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Allison

He’s seen you before, right? This is not an arranged marriage? Because that’s what the tradition of the groom not seeing the bride stemmed from - it was a little safeguard that if she wasn’t very attractive, he would be less likely to back out if he saw her for the first time during the ceremony. I think you’d be fine!

 
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Lynn

Mrs. Bee…have you ever considered writing a wedding book?

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,235 posts, Sugar bee

Haha Lynn, maybe one day. A weddingbee magazine is probably more likely.

 
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Ha! We’re actually getting married the same day And we are running into the same problem! The only think you have to consider is that you may be taking that *moment* away from the groom. That moment, when he’s up there, nervous that you’re about the get married and he sees you for the first time walking down the isle. I know it sounds cheesy, but i’ve been to plenty of weddings where the bride and groom didn’t see each other beforehand, and that expression was priceless! In leiu of all that, we just decided that we were going to take pictures before the wedding. We decided that although that moment would be precious, we want fall foliage pictures, since our wedding is a fall themed.

 
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Amanda

I prefer to do our pics before the wedding. We can have a nice, quiet, intimate first look & a relaxing few mintues before the big show. We’re actually doing pics on the beach alone & then with our WP, then we’re doing some around town shots in Puerto Vallarta (I love the idea from the NYC gals!) and then going to do as many ‘formal’ pics at the ceremony/reception site before the guests arrive. I’d rather party with them during the cocktail hour & look my best for the pics up front. Good luck!

 
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kanipark

as a photographer, i can tell you that taking your pictures after sunset is NOT a good idea. i would definitely say take pictures before hand. but if you REALLY don’t want to see each other before the ceremony, take as many pictures before hand then take the family shots inside a lit area :)

 
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Tristan

Thank you everyone for the great advice!!!!!!
g- I think it would be great to still capture a photo of his “first glipse” since we’re both deciding to do pics before wedding.

Maybe it will help us not be so nervous during the ceremony also!

Thanks again!!!

 

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