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Mrs. Violet, New York Age and Occupation: 27, Executive Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: May 13, 2006 Wedding Date: September 2007 Venue: Westbury Manor About Me: We've been dating since college. In our spare time we enjoy the city life, playing with our dog "Sam", eating our hearts out, and traveling. I also love to DIY. Check out my crafty creations at http://www.waisze.etsy.com.
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A Little Stressed…

August 12th, 2006 @ 1:04 am by Mrs. Violet

What a day! I finally had dinner with my bridesmaids at “Why Curry?” tonight. It was Thai and the food was “ehh.” It was very interesting getting my girls together because they are all so very different from each other. It makes me wonder how I managed to gain 3 best friends that are so different? Not in a bad way, just different personalities that are pretty obvious - at least to me. But, the dinner went well and I’m happy they all met. I was told at dinner not to stress myself out, but these were some of the questions asked tonight..

What color do you want for the bridesmaid dresses?

What kind of bachelorette party do you want?

What kind of favors do you want to give out at the bachelorette party?

Are you sure you don’t want strippers (bachelorette party question)?

When are you going to take your wedding pictures on the day?

(The girls & I might be staying at a hotel the night before the wedding) so the question was, How are we getting to the hotel? How are we getting to the venue?

Are you wearing a qipao? (Chinese wedding gown)

What is your mom going to wear?

How could I not be stressed after this? I think I said “I don’t know” to most of these questions. Do you have BM’s that are very different in personalities, and has there ever been any conflict?

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4 Responses to “A Little Stressed…”

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milka

YES. Imagine my party-crazy BM and my BM who is married to a minister trying to coordinate on a party for me. I hate being in the middle. Both complain to me about the other. It sucks. I don’t know what to do. Telling them what I want feels like taking sides and most of all, I want them to be happy BMs. Can’t we all just get along? Why must pecker pasta drive us all apart?

 
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miss violet

Wow, that’s a big difference. How do you take neutral? Luckily one of the BM’s are pretty neutral and have been married so she’ll be my stability. I have faith that everything will work out..

 
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snot

heh. i’m like you. i don’t think about those details. and when people ask me… i’m like huh?

 
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kanipark

i have 3 bestfriends as well… and they are all very different :)

one is a party animal… loves clubbing
one hates clubbing, but loves to drink…
and the last is a tough girl, who is very protective… one thing we do have in common is that we like to drink :)

i have had moments were one girl isn’t very happy with the other & vice-versa… we have learned to communicate… 2 of the girls i’ve known since middle school & the 3rd, my sister-in-law…

 

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Mrs. Violet
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Mrs. Violet, New York Age and Occupation: 27, Executive Assistant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Computer Engineer Engagement Date: May 13, 2006 Wedding Date: September 2007 Venue: Westbury Manor About Me: We've been dating since college. In our spare time we enjoy the city life, playing with our dog "Sam", eating our hearts out, and traveling. I also love to DIY. Check out my crafty creations at http://www.waisze.etsy.com.

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