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Mrs. Spider, New York Age and Occupation: 27, Paralegal Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Advisor Research Engagement Date: December 30, 2005 Wedding Date: October 2006 Venue: Jericho Terrace - Long Island, NY About Me: My favorite parts of wedding planning are DIY projects and figuring out ways to incorporate old traditions into a modern affair.
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Is This a Joke?

October 3rd, 2006 @ 1:19 pm by Mrs. Spider

I have been too upset to blog about this but disaster struck yesterday.

5 days from my wedding, the Sheraton hotel calls to say they have a “little problem.”

Apparently renovations caused extensive flooding and they can no longer honor any of our group’s rooms.

OMG~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The makeup artists, hair stylists, flowers and limos have all been arranged to arrive at the hotel the morning of. The rehearsal dinner is at a restaurant steps away for the night before.

They are suggesting that I move everyone to the motel down the road. They want me to stay at a motel on the wedding night.

NO OTHER COMPENSATION.

OMG.

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Miss Lily

I can’t tell you how sad I am for you. I know nothing about the legality of what they are doing to you, but perhaps you can bring your contract to a lawyer (or a friend that’s a lawyer) to see about compensation. It seems very wrong that they can back out like that. If there is anything any of us can do to help, let us know!!!

 
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Miss Blueberry

Oh my gosh Miss Spider! I’m so sorry ::hugs:: I wish I had a solution for you :-( Hopefully some of our other wonderful Bees and readers can help you figure this out.

 
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Amber

Miss Spider, this is ridiculous. No other compensation?? Are they joking?? You definitely need to see a lawyer to go over your contract (unfortunately, contracts are usually biased toward the hotel…) still, it can’t hurt. This is so sad, I’m so sorry!!

 
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Miss Bluebell

OHMYGOD!!!! I am soooo sorry Miss Spider!!!!! I agree that you should have a lawyer take a look at that contract b/c “the motel down the road” does NOT sound like an acceptable replacement to me!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!

 
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YuMMie

No compensation?! Motel?! They got to be joking right? I’m so sorry about this Miss Spider but I wouldn’t just let this go so easily, I would definitely hire a lawyer… but 5 days to your wedding date, I would drop this for the time being and look for a hotel nearby ASAP. Btw, are you talking about the Flushing Sheraton?

 
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Katydid

OMG! That is BS!

First, you need another fabulous place to stay. Do you have any ideas? If you need help calling/finding places, I’d be happy to help you, as I’m sure many others would too. Email me.

Second, do you have a contract with them? My guess is that if you do they’ve adequately covered themselves in it. Nonetheless, you should carefully read it over to see if they will, at the very least, make up for the price difference if there is one.

This is very upsetting, I’m so sorry you have to contend with this, but don’t worry … it will all work out. Hang in there.

 
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J

oh no thats terrible! good luck miss spider!

 
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Thao

How horrible!! I hope you can get everything worked out. Good luck! =(

 
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Jayme

oh no. that’s horrible. i hope you find a way to make it all work out. sadness

 
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jen

That’s horrible!!! I’m so sorry you have to deal w/ all that stress. You should try talking to the event coordinator’s manager. Its not right that they didn’t find another solution for you!

 
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Jane

that’s horrible! i agree with everyone who said you should consult a lawyer. you might also want to try contacting the main corporate office for sheraton hotels and the corporate office for their parent company, starwood. (starwood also owns hotels like westin and meridien so maybe you can work something out! ;) )

 
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turtle

During one of our family vacations, we stayed at a Sheraton. We had some issues, so they really helped us out and offered us other places to stay, etc. Sheraton is a large hotel chain, so like Jane said above, they should be able to accomodate somehow. They have to!

 
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kp

I agree with Jane - although I know it would be a pain to find a hotel at another location(there aren’t many within Flushing) as well as rebooking the drop-off/pick-up location for he florist, limo, and etc…I think you should contact mgmt. and clarify their duty to compensate you - the least they could do it re-book rooms at a sister location possibly near LGA? - but a BIG NONO to the motel down the street. sigh. I hope it all works out Miss Spider!!!

 
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creme_de_violet

I agree with the others in contacting corporate office. Threaten publicity with the stunt that they pulled! I can’t believe they referred you to the motel down the street. Ridiculous!

 
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weddingwishes

that’s awful!!!!!!

 
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snowbride

Ok, I used to work for a hotel company-this is a huge no no!
First off, did you have any sort of contract or negotiated rate for the rooms? If so, read it again-there may be a blurb in there about cancellation-if so, they are resposible for making you other arrangements. They are cancelling on you 5 DAYS (!) before!?!?
If not, you must call there corporate office and let them know and demand some sort of compensation or at least a better option.
I am assuming these plans/reservations were made quite a while ago, right?
Definitely push the issue-it isn’t fair and they have inconvenienced not only you but guests and other vendors with almost no notice! That is a disgrace! I am so sorry!

 
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lauren

miss spider, so sorry to hear this!! that’s unbelievably unprofessional of them. nonetheless, i think your wedding will still be beautiful, with or without the Sheraton.

 
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Gin

I’m so sorry to hear this Miss Spider. My cousin recently went to see them about doing her wedding there and the manager was 20 mins late for their initial appointment!! She was told that the person in charge was nowhere to be found and she would have to wait. Of course my cuz left after waiting around for 20 mins. The lady then called her 10 mins after she left (30 mins total!) and my cuz didn’t bother to pick up her call. Of course, my cuz decided to pass on the venue before she even saw the place because that kind of professionalism plays a large factor on such an important event of a lifetime. Good luck Miss Spider!

 
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kanipark

oh no!!! i really hope everything works out :(

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,235 posts, Sugar bee

i’m sooooooo sorry you have to go thru this so close to your wedding. please let me know if there is anything I or weddingbee can do! We’ll rally behind you!

 
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Mrs. Spider, New York Age and Occupation: 27, Paralegal Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Advisor Research Engagement Date: December 30, 2005 Wedding Date: October 2006 Venue: Jericho Terrace - Long Island, NY About Me: My favorite parts of wedding planning are DIY projects and figuring out ways to incorporate old traditions into a modern affair.

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