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Mrs. Bee here.
Sometimes I’ll have a nightmare where Mr. Bee cheats on me, and I wake up mad at him. Mr. Bee doesn’t see how this is fair. But I have the most vivid dreams of anyone I know - I swear it just seems so real!
Have you ever had a dream that your significant other cheated on you, and woke up angry at him?
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I don’t, but my boyfriends does, and he wakes up extremely angry with me, and he also vows to remember the names of the guys he dreams about! Haha
There was one time I was dreaming that my husband cheated on me and I was crying and beating him up and yelling at him in my sleep.
My fiance and I were long distance for 3 years but I didn’t have a dream about him cheating on me until we moved in together.
Yes I woke up PISSED!
Thankfully that has only happened once - it was an awful feeling.
I haven’t, but my fiance has had those about me, and also wakes up angry. I think that’s totally unfair, seeing as how he only has those thoughts because of the crazy women he dated before me…he should keep his feelings on that to himself!
hehehe - i dream about these things so often that when i wake up angry and punch mr. butterfly in the arm (half asleep of course), he automatically says (in his sleep) “it wasnt me!”
yes, I’ve had that dream! though I woke up bawling and I felt extremely sad and disappointed rather than pissed.
funny you say that - im the most vivid dreamer of anyone in my circle as well… and ive never, to this date, had a good dream about my bf. he’s never really cheating on me - in my dreams he’s siding with a girl I dislike (in reality) in an argument, or asking a girl on a date and then asking me “this is ok with you right?” or - the one time i dreamt that we actually got married, he sat in front of the computer watching korean dramas when I was frantically packing bc we were late for our honeymoon flight…
im also pretty abusive - ive cursed loudly enough for him to wake up, ive punched him square in the chest, but its all been in my sleep and my excuse is that i have no control over what i do then! funny thing is, i cant really wake up mad or sad bc i feel so bad i cursed at him or hit him..
I dream about it all the time! But I also dream that I cheat on him. That’s when I wake up and feel soooo guilty I’m crying. Whenever I have one of those dreams, Mr. Blueberry is always right there when I wake up, *NOT* cheating on me and *NOT* mad at me. But then I have a horrible feeling all day…ugh.
I have those dreams too! My Mr tells me I am repressing some serious jealousy issues. I was so angry because he was rubbing another womans shoe in my dream.
yup, once i woke up fuming and punched him really hard in the arm. lol. another time, he wasn’t around, i was angry w/ him for a whole day.
do u think the dreams are worries hidden in your subconscience, that came alive at night when our mind are more relaxed, and turn into our crazy personal dvd player.
I have had those dreams too! And after I have those dreams, I wake up and punch him in the arm really hard and go back to sleep… but it’s ok, because he laughs about it afterwards when I tell him why I punched him the next morning.
i think everyone has those dreams! Mr Plum thinks its funny, but then I am pissed at him all day for something he never even did! :-p
i had one where my fiance left me for a really ugly girl and i was really pissed. when i told him about it, all he could say was, “you couldn’t have dreamt it was a swedish bikini model??” *sigh*
I have super realistic dreams!! One time, I had a dream that he left me alone at the altar!! 
:( I woke up so sad.
I had a dream once that the wedding was in a cruise ship and Mr. Orange could not be found for hours and hours. It was worse than cheating —
yes- i’ve dreamt about him cheating but also various other wrongdoings- not defending me, leaving me, basically betraying my trust in any way. i wake up angry and tell him about the dream as if it were really happening at that moment. he just laughs and says he’s sorry, next time he’ll try to do better.
Yeah, I hate those. They throw your whole day off.
i do this alllllll the time! and I always dream that the FI has cheated with the SAME GIRL who turns out to be his last ex, right before he met me. Whats this mean?!
Holy moley……And I thought I was the only one.
i once dreamt that i cheated on my bf with an ex and i felt bad about it in the dream and then even guiltier when i woke up. thankfully it’s only happened once.
I have those dreams too, but instead I wake up feeling sad and insecure. I wake him up and tell him I had a bad dream, and he knows what that means. All I need is a hug, and tons of reassurance that he would never do that. :oP
omg these comments are so funny! I’ve dreamt that my bf cheated on me with Mary-Kate Olsen and boy was I pissed. I yelled at him the next day and he got a beating for sure. haha But he gets mad at me when he has these dreams too.
Like ck, I have never had a good dream about my bf either. Does that mean I’m insecure? It’s weird how my bad dreams about my bf are always the most vivid ones too! I always feel so incredibly hurt in the dreams and I wake up really disappointed. I try not to be mad because I know it’s unfair.
wow… i’m so glad to see i’m not the only one….
omg.. i had a dream two nights ago that i fooled around with my friend, only he looked like Logan from veronica mars (i have a bit of a crush). i woke up feeling soo guilty, but he said “well hopefully soon it’ll be my face on logan’s body” (we’re both trying to lose weight and tone up).
A had a dream that I cheated on him…and then the next night or so, I had a dream that I cheated on him! We are both adament towards people that cheat, so it was so weird. But we didn’t wake up pissed…more sad than anything.
i have the same nightmares. they happen maybe once a month. and it’s completely random as well. i usually wake up thinking he’s left me. but there he is, sleeping right next to me.
i think i have abandonment issues. heh.
haha yes! i’ve had those dreams before too! i’ve even woken him up in the middle of the night and made him apologize!
Yes. I’ve punched him in his sleep (while I’m still dreaming). I’ve waken up yelling at him. lol. And poor FI, just like yours, says “It’s not fair! Your dreams are IMPOSSIBLE!” LOL.
Haha… yup! It happened to me once, and I punched him in the back and woke him up, I even asked for his confession… He was so clueless, but still gave me a warm hug and put me back to sleep.
WOW!!! I just woke up from that SAME horrible dream! my heart is still racing and I am still shaking. and I feel so many crazy emotions! The dream was so REAL! I also feel mad at him! LOL! I to dream very vivid. my husband is at work right now or I would have punched him too! But I DID call him and chew him out!!! LOL
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