Mrs. Bee here.
Our last reader buzz was about cheating nightmares - I guess everyone has them! Now I don’t feel like such a freak!
So yesterday I was reading my friend’s astrology advice blog ElsaElsa, and she had a great post about a cheating spouse. It was about a woman who was happily married for twelve years with two children. She recently discovered that her frequently travelling husband had had numerous affairs. His defense was that all men do it, it’s natural, it meant nothing, and that it was just sex. She doesn’t think he’s going to stop and the worst part is, she’s trying to figure out what she did wrong.
Now I’m not going to deny that I’ve imagined myself in this type of scenario a million times - even long before I met Mr. Bee. Could I forgive a cheating spouse? I know the answer is not so black and white when you’ve been together so long and especially when children are involved. But I really don’t think I could.
I read somewhere that when you dream of a cheating spouse/bf, it means that, in reality, you are feeling the most love possible from them. So, whenever I have those dreams, I consider it a good thing!