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Mrs. Orchid, New York Age and Occupation in 07: 28, Database Programmer/Analyst Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Physician Engagement Date: November 19, 2005 Wedding Date: September 29, 2007 Venue: Ocean Jewels Restaurant in Flushing About Me: Asian woman of Thai/Chinese/Japanese decent, although I am raised Thai. Born and raised in NY. I graduated from The City College of New York with a Graphic Design degree, however I'm doing database programming. (I know go figure!) I'll be marring my college sweetheart of 6 years next September. I have 2 furbabies ages 1yr and 8 months. I'm born on the cusp of Capricorn & Aquarius, I guess that accounts for my diligence and streak of creativity!
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I Love You Just The Way You Are…

November 1st, 2006 @ 6:35 pm by Mrs. Orchid

Hubby and I have been officially married for one month. heart2.gif Wherever we go the hot question seems to be “So how does married life feel?” And our answer as always is that nothing has changed. We feel the same as we did 1 month ago, 2 months ago, 3 months ago… you get the idea.

Most people’s reaction to this is a little bit of disappointment I suppose. I guess they are expecting some exciting and wonderful response. I actually think that it’s wonderful that everything is the same. We are the best of friends, we share and tell one another everything, we do just about everything together, we’ve had our share of rough patches (what relationship doesn’t) and we know that together we can weather just about any storm. The last thing I’d ever want is our extraordinary relationship to be different than what it already is. We are still as much in love as we were 6.5 years ago. Heck I hope things will never change!

Perhaps it might have been different if we had just moved in together. No, that wouldn’t be it either. When we moved in together earlier this year, everything was just as I expected it to be. Maybe it’s due to the fact that we were always straight forward with one another from the start. What you see is what you get. (And I must say I think he’s getting the better end of the deal.. har har har!!~ :P)

I’m sure as time passes and we grow older, have children, and are in a different stage of life than we are now, things will change. But as long as we grow together as we have been doing for the past 6.5 years, our love will remain the same. heart2.gif

-For those of you that are married, do you feel that things have changed?

-And if you’re yet to be married, would you want anything to change?

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5 Responses to “I Love You Just The Way You Are…”

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wsukarebear

My cousin said she loved being married because it was like their love was MORE intense being man and wife.

I don’t think I would want anything to change, but I think the idea of your love automatically growing through your vows is a nice sentiment and I wouldn’t mind it! :O)

 
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tristan

I’ve been having the same question asked to me (married 19 days)! mostly by his commitment-phobia friends. I tell them, “it’s no different than what we’ve been doing the past 3 years!”

But I do have to admit, the only thing that changed, well for a short period of time, was we had that mushy feeling again between us. Like, “awwwe we’re married and shit.”

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,261 posts, Sugar bee

To tell you the truth, I felt different. Mr. Bee probably not as much. Perhaps it was because our relationship was relatively new (we were together a year and a half before tying the knot). But psychologically, I felt different. People treated me differently. I felt like I was a wife. :)

 
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jjrames

The FI already considers us “married,” and I agree with him there. We act and respect each other as a team.

But, I’m still looking forward to the change married life will bring! After two years we will be living in the same state, I will be able to let my car take a well deserved breather, and I will have my FI at home with me every night…not just the weekends.

 
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r

I feel exactly the same (and I really wish ppl would stop asking me, expecting a different answer)!

 


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