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Today’s open question about engagement rings provided some interesting responses in the comments, so I thought we should definitely do a reader buzz on it!

How did your fiance choose your engagement ring?


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Would you prefer to have more input on the selection of the ring or would you prefer to be surprised?

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31 Responses to “Reader Buzz: Choosing Engagement Rings”

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Maggie

The ring wasn’t one I would have picked out myself, but I ended up loving it so much and kept finding things to love about it. I’m glad I was surprised with it.

 
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felicity

FI proposed with his grandmother’s ring and then we put the stones into a new setting. Considering how many times what I’ve wanted has changed, I don’t think I would have wanted him to pick out a final ring on his own.

 
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milka

I had my heart set on princess cut - b/c it’s a beautiful and practical shape, it won’t get caught on everything, the wedding band can fit right next to it. We went shopping together and I was always loudly admiring the princess cut rings.

He proposed with a brilliant cut stone in a cathedral setting - not what I was expecting! I fell in love with its sparkly sparkle. And we found the perfect wedding band - it’s a wrap so there are two bands of diamonds setting off the large stone. It’s gorgeous and perfect and I love it more than if I got what I requested. :)

 
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katerose

Two of our good mutual friends went with him (one guy, one girl) to help him pick. Personally, I think they were just there for moral support. I was really proud of him that he picked out a ring that I absolutely love. I would have picked out the exact same ring if I had gone myself! Yay him!

 
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Kathleen

We went shopping together. We were on a mini vaca in Phili and went to there diamond district. We didn’t end up with a ring from there, but got tons of ideas.

His philosophy was that I had to wear it for the rest of my life, so I should pick it. We had so much fun with ring shopping. I think the shop people thought we were nuts with how much laughing and joking we were doing.

I was very glad we did it together, as we will always have that memory. Plus I ended up with a ring neither of us expected. A diamond princess cut with princess cut saphires on each side and next to them are tapered baguette diamonds.

 
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Christina

I chose the setting and he surprised me with the rock!

 
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Erika

Same as Christina - I chose the setting and he chose the stone

 
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Miss Kiwi

I chose the setting, the stone and wired HIS money. :) I’m a modern gal. ;) Actually, I just know what I want. To the last detail. :)

 
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CS

My grandma supplied the rock (I wanted an old diamond). FI tried for a couple months to pick out setting on his own but came home one day saying I was way too picky about details for him to do the choosing. I thought he was wrong, but perhaps proved him right when I couldn’t find any settings that were right and ended up custom designing it.

I love it! And although I’m confident I would have loved what he picked because he picked it, my custom ring is just perfect.

 
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Jill

He picked out the stone and he picked out the setting. He completely surprised me with it. He really wanted me to have a solitaire. And while I didn’t really want a solitaire, I love it b/c he put a lot of thought into the ring. And I love my ring even more once I found the perfect band for it! ;)

 
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Kgirl

I picked out 3 while shopping with a friend and had the jeweler write them on the back of his card, then presented it to mythen boyfriend. It worked great, because I couldn’t really decide between the 3 anyway. I liked them all.

 
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lindsay

we went to try on rings and he bought the first that i tried on. i don’t know if it was a good or a bad thing. ;)

 
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AM

My fiance chose the diamond (round cut, humble-sized diamond, but exceptional color) and a temporary ring.

Then we picked out the ring together.

For my wedding band, he is planning on moving this stone to a new ring and adding others to it. I made him promise to have a pearl or my birthstone to fill the void in this ring. I think I would go crazy without some sort of ring on my finger for the last few weeks before our wedding.

 
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K

Well, we aren’t engaged as of yet…but when we went and got my promise ring, he had me pick it out, because he wanted to make sure I was completely happy.

He’s already told me that when we go to get “officially” engaged, that he’ll be wanting my help. I’ve pretty much figured out what I want, and it’s definately not a diamond, which is probably what he would have gotten, because he’s a guy. Love him, but he’s never had to buy jewelry for a girl before…heh. I’ve showed him the ring I want, and I think he might either have me shop with him, or surprise me with the ring I’ve already picked out.
http://www.faycullen.com/antique_engagement_rings/800/d512r8rd.html

Pretty fantastic, eh?

 
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Laura

We had talked about getting married for so long, so there was never an official proposal. As far as the ring, my mom had held onto her ring that she had from when she was married to my dad. They divorced when I was maybe 19 or 20 (I’m 34 now). My mom gave us her old ring (even though she’s afraid it might be cursed ;)). Her ring was in yellow gold and was broken from when it was enlarged, so we had a jeweler make a mold of the ring and recreate it in white gold. I never cared for my mom’s ring, solely becase it was in yellow gold, but I absolutely love it in white gold! Plus, the sentimental girl that I am loves that I’m pretty much wearing my mom’s ring. Assuming we ever have a daughter, I hope it is something I can one day pass on to her.

 
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WeezerMonkey

Surprise is overrated. And potentially a disastrous expense.

I gave him a picture and said, “This one, please. Thanks.”

 
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Tea

i’m like k. i had once mentioned the kind of ring i had wanted. he started looking for suitable rings and he selected three or four and asked me which one i liked the most, which ended up as my promise ring.

i don’t think picking out the ring [i ended up picking the one his first choice!] took anything away from the moment. it was what he said when he gave me the ring that touched me the most.

he already knows what kind of engagement ring i want too.

 
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Kelli

My fiance proposed to me without a ring and secured my mom’s engagement ring for me to wear as a “loaner” until mine came in.

Surprise is nice but for me my fiance didn’t even want to chance it. My father was a jewler for a period of time and because I spent a lot of time goofing around with his suppliers and friends in the industry I had specific ideas of what I like and what I didn’t - and he knew that. Weeks after the fact he built me the ring he would have chosen online and it was miles apart from what I picked out for myself. The best part was that a family friend’s contact put together my entire ring - stone & all - for a bare bones minimal price because he remembers when I used to bounce around his shop with his dogs when I was a toddler. :)

 
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lisa

we’ve discussed what kind of rings i liked before. as of a week ago he spilled the beans and has the ring in his safe… in our house! he said he still wants to surprise me when he asks but he had to tell me because he was excited. i was excited too but now its grown into impatience and irritation because he hasn’t asked it! i feel like a hobbit waiting for my precious - sickening! i totally wish he surprised me but i love him all the same.

 
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Nony Mouse

He was looking by himself, then finally gave in and asked. He was looking for Way Too Much diamond, and didn’t have a clue about quality. So I educated him about the Cs, conflict diamonds, and said that I absolutely did not want anything over half a carat.
I also grabbed about a dozen pictures of rings I liked off the ‘net.
Having been coached, he went out and customed designed a setting that had everything I liked structure-wise, and a few styling details all his own.
I’ve been told it’s “unique and beautiful” by the people who don’t know me, and “So You” by those who do.

 
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