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Mrs. Butterfly, New York Age and Occupation in 06: 27, Bridezilla in training Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Making me happy by saying "yes dear" to everything related to wedding planning. Engagement Date: February 3, 2006 Wedding Date: November 18, 2006 Venue: Twenty-Four Fifth About Me: Our wedding will be small but fun. I want a whole range of music including cheesy 80's music! But we'll see how that works out��‚��
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Things I Would Have Done Differently….

December 13th, 2006 @ 5:41 pm by Mrs. Butterfly

I was thinking about my wedding the other day….who am I kidding. I think about my wedding every day. :D Why? Because I can’t wait to get my pictures, and when I start thinking about all the beautiful shots, I start playing the wedding over and over in my mind. Also I went to Mrs. Snail’s wedding this past Sunday, so I’ve been surrounded by weddings.

Anyway, I was thinking the things I would do differently if I could do it all over again. I have definitely learned more about wedding planning and as stressful as it was, I had a lot of fun. But there are things I would change.

1. Favors - As much as I loved the idea of candles and matches, I think the favors could have come out a bit better. I would have ordered several candles from different companies to see which one I liked best. Also, I would have spent more time designing the images for each item. I think I just ordered them way too early in the planning process, because I didn’t have a full vision of what my wedding would look like.

2. Out of Town Bags - I liked how these turned out, but I definitely could have made them more personal. We didn’t provide any water bottles because in the end, we only had 4 bags to give out (2 of them being my parents who stayed in the hotel for only 1 night).

3. Hot Chocolate Bar - Hot chocolate was supposed to be poured for the guests as they were leaving, but I don’t think anyone saw them. I kinda regret spending money on this, only because no one took advantage of it. If I did it again, I would make it more prominent and I would have written about it on the menu.

4. Save The Dates - I liked the way mine turned out, but I think I could have done more research. The magnets were glued on to a piece of cardstock, but it could have been more creative and personal. Plus, when you accidentally scratched the magnet, the picture scraped off and it left a big white mark.

5. DJ - I definitely should have shelled out more money for a better DJ. Again, I attribute this to lack of research. I would be on those message boards day and night for recommendations. I think it’s very important to get recommendations of the vendors within your price range. I personally spent 3 times more on flowers than I did on a DJ, and I’m sorely regretting that now. I would have cut a few things out of my flowers and spent a few more hundred bucks on a better DJ instead.

I think that’s it for now. Now, what would I change if I had an unlimited budget? Hmmmmm…….

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connie

in regards to your #5, i agree. my fiance said the same thing to me. it’s amazing that the DJ is so vital to your wedding (in some ways more than the flowers are) and yet we skimp on that area. what you pay the DJ is just a fraction of your wedding but it can make or break your wedding reception! I don’ t want to pay more for my DJ but it’s a bit scary knowing that your DJ can possibly worsen or make better your wedding.

 
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Miss Blueberry

#1–ordering stuff too early b/c you didn’t have a full vision: I know just what you’re talking about! I’m looking back on some of the stuff I’ve already bought, and I don’t really love it anymore; it doesn’t quite seem to fit with what my wedding has become. But it’s too late to do anything about it now. Ah well. It’s all about what guests will see, now what guests could have seen.

 
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Mrs Ant

I’m with Miss Blueberry.. There’s a whole slew of things I ordered (aqua tumblers, boxes for invitations, seashells for the boxed invitations, that lace parasol) that didn’t work out. When I wanted them, I had tunnel vision and was obsessed with them, but they didn’t fit with the vision and turned out to be a waste of money (and time)

 


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