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Opinion: BM Dresses

February 8th, 2007 @ 12:43 pm by Mrs. Plum

Is this dress too slutty? I don’t think it is, but my FI apparently has a problem with it.

Backstory: One of my BM in particular is very chesty and like to um… let it all hang out, so he’s concerned that it’ll be really tacky-looking and people will “talk” silly013

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Please help! It’s the right color! confuse05

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SueW

I would have her try it on and see what it looks like. If she’s super chesty, it might be a little much.

But, the dresses are pretty!

 
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Kristina

I like it. It’s classic, not stuffy. As for the big-chested BM, work with her to find the right bra for the dress. Something that covers well and fits her perfectly should prevent her from looking like she’s falling out of the dress.

 
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Miss Peach

Wow, it’s beautiful!! But yeahhh I dunno if I’d want one of my BMs busting it out… It kinda draws attention to her and her bosom I think. But yeah, I love that dress! Where’s it from? Does it come in different colors? I’m still looking for a dress to wear to rehearsal/ rehearsal dinner. =P

 
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jj

that is beautiful!
where did you get it from? who is the designer?

 
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Miss Strawberry

Pretty dress! You can’t help it if you have big boobs! :)

 
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miss violet

gorgeous dress, but i already see cleavage on the model, so if your BM is very busty, it might be a problem.

 
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SarainSeattle

I really like it. A little cleave is ok, but if she’s popping out maybe you could have a seamstress sew in a piece of matching lace or fabric (to make it slightly less low cut).

I have some busty ladies on my crew too!

 
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teetee

wow! that’s a beautiful BM dress! I love the color. I might have to use it for my wedding. Where did you find it? My sister in law found a similar style on david’s bridal, but they didn’t offer that color: http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridesmaids_detail.jsp?stid=2679&prodgroup=110&sid=10059 (in red)

 
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tracy

Oh wow…gorgeous dress! Where is it from?

 
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lauren

i actually bought that dress, but then returned it. the picture is deceiving, because the beading on the bottom half of the dress is REALLY gaudy (in my opinion). i personally thought it was just too loud.

 
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Leslie

If possible, have all your BMs try it on before ordering so you can see what each looks like in it. If the busty BM is “busting out,” then you’ll know to look for something else. But I hope this dress works out for your situation….it’s beautiful! The detailing on the bottom half is very neat!

 
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ddalgi

love the dress! i dont think it’s slutty at all and if your BM gets the proper size, i dont think it would be a problem!

 
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g

gorgeous! really really like it! i’m not busty so this would be fine for me. but i wouldn’t ask my bustier girls to wear this if it shows too much cleavage or skin since i know i would feel uncomfortable if someone asked me to wear, say, a miniskirt. i’m tall so a minskirt makes me feel way exposed. same goes for busty girls and cleavage i’m sure.

 
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ps. i often find that if a guy thinks something is “slutty” it usually is. (not that i think this dress is at all slutty on its own, but then again, i’m a girl) i always used to ask my brother if i thought something was slutty. i figure he knows how “they” think.

 
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kristine

Nice dress! but i can see the problem of “hanging out.” :o(

 
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kp

i agree..you should have her try it on..
but i can see it being an issue with visibility of the bustiness.

 
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kp

where is that dress from?

 
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katerose

Really pretty. But probably not so great for a busty girl. I agree that if a guy is calling it slutty then it probably is.

 
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Miss Bluebear

I’m a bit on the busty side myself so I can understand his concern. Maybe you can find a matching coverup that she can wear during the reception so it won’t be as obvious, and you can still have the dress that you want for the ceremony. It’s difficult to judge though as I’ve tried on some dresses that are similar and depending on the cut, it can provide relatively good coverage and support, so your FI may be surprised. Let her at least try it…you’ll never know otherwise! =)

 
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Cheapo Bride

The dress is really nice! Just ask your bm to wear a nice control bra!

 
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Mrs. Plum, Dallas Age and Occupation in 06: 22, Accountant by day/Floral and Event Designer by night and weekends Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Security Admin Engagement Date: December 31, 2004 Wedding Date: June 29, 2007 Venue: Marie Gabrielle Restaurant and Gardens About Me: I have been engaged for about two years now - yes, a long engagement, because my fiance and I wanted to wait until I graduated college, which I did this past summer! He proposed after dating just two months - crazy, I know, but 2 years later, here we are, still crazy in love :-). We are having not one, but TWO weddings and TWO receptions in one weekend - American-style and Vietnamese-style - in Dallas, Texas, where I was born and raised!

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