Okay guys, I have a dilemma. I bought a necklace weeks after getting engaged with the hopes to wear it on my wedding day. I loved this necklace the moment I saw it (a few months before), and had to get it. This was a little over a year ago.
Since then, I have built our wedding around this necklace. It being an acorn with oak leaves, the “fall splendor” theme fell into my lap. So, things evolved and our wedding began to take its shape.
Now that I’ve bought my dress, my shoes (more about that later), my tiara and earrings and the heirloom bracelet from my cousin Karen- my necklace doesn’t match. My accessories are gold tones with ivory accents. My necklace is a burnished gold/copper with the acorn made of a small brown pearl.
As much as I want to wear it, I really think it may not be right with the rest of the items I have. Not to mention the acorn is hard to attain in southern California! So, slowly the acorn has been phased out, and the fallen leaves have taken it’s place. I’m fine with the theme “changing” in a way, as I do love the colors of leaves in Autumn.
Anyway, what do you think? Just wear the necklace with the rest of the things even though it really clashes? Or just wear it now, and get something else.
For your reference, here is my necklace. In real life it’s a lot closer to copper in color, and the pearl is almost a purpley color.

And here is my tiara. In real life, the gold is a lot more of a rosy color. The pearl studs I bought are the exact color as the pearls in the tiara.

Honest opinions, please!
You could wear it for the rehearsal dinner.