Bachelor Party
March 14th, 2007 @ 12:32 pm by Mrs. Snow Pea
One of Mr. Snow Pea’s groomsmen just emailed me.
Subject: Bachelor Party
Hey Miss Snow Pea,
We are currently doing some party planning and need a bunch of information. Could you give us a list of guys you think Mr. Snow Pea would like to be there? We need their name, phone number and email address. That would be awesome!!!
Groomsman R
All I can say is WOW. I am so honored that the boys have included me in on the corruption of my future husband. (sense the sarcasm) Although I don’t mind…at least I don’t think I mind right now. He’s allowed to have his share of fun. I think. Isn’t he? Mr. Snow Pea and I have the same friends, so we’re all very close and it’s not a surprise they would ask me. Wouldn’t it be funny though if I sent him a list of nothing but the old married men!?
Do you know what is going on with your fiance’s bachelor party?
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Haha, I had to supply the list of guys to the best man too! But I don’t mind b/c I’m actually pretty good friends with him and he considers himself a “feminist” (how cool is that??) so he doesn’t want to do anything degrading for his own reasons so I’m just like “ummm that sounds fine” 
They’re going to go to one of those race car driving tracks, or go skydiving, or something of that sort. I’m not involved in the details, but I am constantly appreciative of our best man’s sensibilities.
Yes. Heh. My Fiance loves poker. He’s very good at it too. So the plan is to go to AC for some poker action. Am I worried about drunken debauchery? Eh. Not really. If there is, it’s because his friends are that way, but I have a good guy and I trust him.
Absolutely! As I have talked about before, FI and I have been together since we were 15 so we have the same friends (with a few exceptions) so there are few secrets between any of us. I know exactly what they will be doing and I am not worried in the least.
My fiance’s “boys” are some of my closet friends as well. We have all been close since high school and once we got engaged I knew what the bachelor party would be like. It was always, “the first bachelor party is gonna be….., I can’t wait for the first bachelor party” hahaha. So I know what his bachelor party is gonna be like and it’s probably gonna be extremely crazy, but it dont mind and this is something that all the guys have been looking forward to for YEARS! And I also know that my fiacen wouldnt do anything that would hurt me so that helps…=).
Ummm yes. My FI and 15-20 of his friends are going to Vegas for a weekend. He is the first to get married and definitely the most well-behaved so I am sure there is massive corruption being planned. I’m not worried about it though, he is a good egg. 
He should definitely have his fun.
In my experience the “old married men” may just be the ones that take that opportunity to cut loose and get crazier than usual because its for a bachelor party and they have an excuse!
My FI just got back from a bachelor snowboarding weekend. Yes, strippers also attended one evening. Whatever! My FI thought the coolest part of the stripper show was when the pizza guy came in and he and his friends bought the guy a lap dance as a “tip.” My girls are planning on seeing some banana hammocks/plum smugglers for my party (how funny is that?! It’s going to be a riot!) so I can’t really get mad, right?
FI wants to go to Vegas and see a fight @ Mandalay or play hold’em for a weekend… from previous conversations about what he wanted to do for his last “fling” his answer has always been “I’m not going to do anything to ruin the best thing that’s ever happened to me.” awwww!!
… and as far as “corruption” I think he will be the one to corrupt his friends haha, our group is all mild-mannered blue collars.
My fiance actually asked me to come along. He has asked some of our girl friends to be in his part of the wedding party. His friends are my friends too and he said he wouldn’t have fun without me. We are thinking of either renting a school bus and going from bar to bar or renting out a bowling alley. There will probably be some poker thrown in at some point too.
That’s hilarious. I’m all for suggesting old married men only!!
My fiance and I actually don’t want any strippers at our respective bachelor/bachelorette parties. I have no doubt that there won’t be one at mine, but somehow I have a feeling that no matter how convincingly the FI or I tell his best friend “NO STRIPPERS” he will go ahead and order a whole gaggle of them anyway. *sigh*
Aside from not wanting any strippers, I don’t really mind what sort of debauchery the boys get up to because I know and trust that my FI won’t do anything that would be considered a betrayal. Which I think is what some women worry about. The only thing I know for SURE that they’ll be doing is paintball earlier in the day followed by serious drinking later that night. My biggest concern is that he’ll go more than a little overboard on the alcohol - he probably doesn’t want to drink too much, but you know how boys are, wanting to “keep up” with their friends!
yep, mine is going on a snowboarding weekend. there may be some debauchery and/or strippers involved, but he’s ended up actually planning most of it (he’s definitely the planner in his group of friends, so the others aren’t great at it since almost always takes the reins), so i trust it’ll be all good. his friends also know and respect me.
My FI is going to Vegas while I go to Miami… I figure I rather be having fun and keeping busy with my girls while he’s with the boys on the same weekend, rather than have us away on two diffrent weekends. It should be fun. I think he’s more worried about me than I am of him as I know alot of people in Miami and he know no one in Vegas other than the people he’ll be with. Right? Of course, however, there’s no worrying for either of us - we know what we’ve got is good!
my FI and i aren’t doing bachelor/bachelorette parties for a number of reasons.
Reasons he’s not having one:
1. His friends are NOT good at planning anything….at ALL!
2. The FI knows how worried I get..especially since most of his “boyz” are single and ready to mingle. He’s the first out of the group to get married.. the others aren’t even close.
3. FI knows i have a hard time trusting other people..and doesn’t want to put himself in a situation where he knows i’m going to wonder about the “women” and stuff around him.
Reasons I’m not having one:
1. I don’t want the FI to worry, first and foremost. (He tends to call more frequently when I’m out with my girls, without even realizing)
2. I don’t feel the NEED to celebrate my last days as being single…i love my life so much MORE since after i’ve been with the FI
So we are going to have an “engagement party” invite all our close friends and either go to AC, or the beach.
My husband had a video game bachelor party… they ate pizza and played Halo all night. His brother’s bachelor party will be bowling.
Whenever I hear about strip club-type parties, it makes me sad. I think it’s really disrespectful.
I know absolutely nothing about it, and that’s fine with me. He deserves to have a little fun (he works too hard!). I trust him completely and know he wouldn’t do anything that would hurt me or upset me. Plus, his best man is my cousin, and my brother is one of his groomsmen. We have the same circle of friends, and I know the guys are good men, too.
Ahaha. Jen- i thought mr. peach’s bachelor party would be like that. in college that’s all they played. they actually ended up going paintballing and went out for some manly steak to finish the night.
i didn’t find out the details until afterwards, but i didn’t care bc i trusted him and the groomsmen who were planning. =)
i love reading these responses! FH is from Vegas originally, so he and some friends are flying there for a weekend and hangin’ with the other boys from Vegas… I think it will be interesting, knowing what they did for my FBIL’s party (go beyond strippers, but stop way before hookers)…
I think the funniest thing about it is that none of the boys could decide where to stay, or when to book, so I took it upon myself to book them at Hooters (new hotel in Vegas) because I told him ‘who wouldn’t want to stay at hooters for their bachelor party?’. I love every one of the boys that are going, and they will look out for him, plus I have the utmost trust in him, so I am not concerned at all.
Besides… my bm and I are going to mexico on a 4 day cruise for mine!!!
Ehhh… Mr. E doesn’t really care to have strippers, but like someone else said, I’m sure his best friend will absolutely NOT let that be the case. Grrr, kinda annoying. But I figure its OK if they go to a strip club, but NOT ok if they have strippers in a hotel room!!
Not that I don’t trust him, but there is just something really really gross and seedy about that type of situation. At least with a strip club, you figure, how bad could it be? (ok, i have never been to one so I have no idea) But I have heard bad stories about the gross things that strippers do when playing a private party *BLECH!!!*
ok… agreed there, i do have to say there is something about 20 guys at a bachelor party leaking back one piece of info to their SO; you get all those girlfriends together, and we have it all figured out!
It’s great that the GM are keeping you in the loop about the bachelor party~ but “we need their name, phone number and email address”?? Sounds like they’re trying to trick you into doing all the work for them =P I say give them names only and tell them get off their lazy asses and find out their own emails! 
I have an idea on what the best man is planning. My FI told me what he wanted, and he actually asked me if I could think of any other guys that would want to come (ie, my guy friends). I thought that was a nice gesture. My only problem is having “girls come to the room” if they went to AC, but I trust him and trust that he’ll be too drunk to be awake by then anyways. I plan on going to AC and checking out a male strip club, and those are so much more raunchier than the ones the guys go too. I think my FI is more worried about it than me!
I personally know and trust all of Mr. Plumeria’s groomsmen, but besides that, for his trip they’re going on a 3-day camping trip, including a 2-day hike. His BM was a former Eagle scout so they’ll be roughing it in tents etc. Not much room for anything inappropriate to happen there. Hehehe. But I know nothing would, anyway — just knowing the group of guys and their interests!
I sure did! My husband went to Vegas! He said he didn’t go to any strip clubs.. *wink wink*
Mrs. Snow Pea, New York
Age and Occupation: 26, Architectural Engineer and student
Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Web Designer
Engagement Date: July 4, 2005
Wedding Date: August 18, 2007
About Me: I am a DIY gal. From cooking, home improvements to wedding. Mr. Snow Pea and I met in college, and since then we've been like peas and carrots! Love cooking, traveling, and fishing.
Well, he doesn’t say what they’re going to do! Unless this guy’s got a notorious reputation or you’ve heard big talk about a wild party I don’t know where there’s any reason to think it’s “corruption”. It doesn’t have to be bad! Or maybe I’m just being a naive midwesterner.
