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Mrs. Pumpkin, Saskatchewan, Canada Blogger Since: April 10, 2007 Age and Occupation: 28, Lawyer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Farmer Engagement Date: July 14, 2006 Wedding Date: June, 2007 About Me: I love movies, music and I am addicted to TV. When I have some spare time I also love scrapbooking and making personalized greeting cards and above all playing Hide & Seek or Duck, Duck, Goose with my two adorable nieces!
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Quickie Vegas Wedding

April 27th, 2007 @ 10:32 am by Mrs. Pumpkin

As I look at all of the couples passing me on the streets of Vegas, I can’t help but wonder how many of them will be impulsive and have a quickie wedding this weekend. The statistics say that there are 120,000 weddings in Vegas each year, but many of those are planned weddings. And since Vegas got rid of the 24 hour marriage license service there must have been a slight decrease. Still, I am sure that there are several weddings going on as I type this message.

What do you think of Vegas weddings (spontaneous or planned)? I have known two couples who got married in Vegas, one planned and one quickie, and both couples are still together, both have had children, both seem incredibly happy and have wonderful relationships. In my opinion it all comes down to the intentions behind it. If you are with the person that you know you will be with for the rest of your life then I don’t think it matters much where and when you get married, so long as you are making that lifelong commitment freely and thoughtfully.

The question that I would have is “are you able to make that sort of commitment on a moment’s notice?” I suppose that most of us make that commitment the moment that we say yes to any sort of spontaneous proposal, whether we get married that day or a year later. What do you think - can a quickie marriage last? Is there any conditions under which you would’ve considered a quickie Vegas wedding before you got engaged?

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16 Responses to “Quickie Vegas Wedding”

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Chrissie

LOL, well, I drunkenly suggested to FI that we head to Vegas 2 mo. into our relationship. Not to get too cheesy, but I just *knew*. Now that we are up to our eyeballs in wedding planning, he really wishes he had agreed!

 
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CS

I’m not a quickie wedding person (because I love a party that’s all about me! - oh and fi)

:)

But, my fi and I knew we were going to be together for the rest of our lives before we got engaged. We had discussed it and the “question” when I got my ring was a formality. So I can see how a quickie wedding could happen without needing commitment at a moment’s notice. Just deciding to make it official with a moment’s notice.

 
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thistleorchid

I think if the opportunity had presented itself, my FI and I would have been able to take that kind of spontaneous plunge easily and it would have been set for life. That being said, we knew it wasn’t our style and that we wouldn’t ever suggest it to each other. . .

 
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Sarah

Two of my coworkers took procrastination to a new level last fall by going to Vegas to get married rather than assemble the IKEA furniture they’d just gotten.

As in “Man, I don’t feel like assembling this furniture.” “Wanna go get hitched?” “Sure.”

Now, a critical aspect of this story is it’s clear they were living together at the time, so at least some level of commitment had already been made. The scary Vegas weddings are the ones where you’re not 100% sure what your groom does for a living…or if he has a job at all…or if he’s telling you his real name.

 
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Miss Bluebell

Some friends of ours had a Vegas wedding (not a quickie though) and it was sooo much fun. They had a traditional wedding in another country so they got to do everything “right” but instead of doing the extra paperwork to make that wedding legal they decided to go to Vegas to make it official. They invited a bunch of their friends and did it in all out Vegas style (got married where Britney Spears did, wore a hot pink minidress with her veil & wedding shoes, had Elvis sing). It was a blast, but would have made me sad if it was an ONLY wedding. But since they had the “real thing” elsewhere this was much more fun than going to the courthouse. :-)

 
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Jaded

I’ve been a long time lurker and this would be my first post. I love weddingbee.com :)

I’m one of the many couples that had a planned wedding in Vegas, and I have to say that if I were to do it all over again.. I wouldn’t. I envy all the beautiful weddings that have been posted here and on theknot.com. I used to be a total tom boy and for money reasons, we went with Vegas instead of a traditional wedding. I know that this decision will pay off in the future since we’re using the money our parents gave us towards remodeling our condo. However, I think I could’ve pulled off a very small but personal traditional wedding. Oh well, maybe when we renew our vows, I’ll plan something nicer than what we had in Vegas.

To answer your question, I do think that I’d be able to marry my husband on a moment’s notice. I think it would last forever as well. The only reason why I say that is because we’ve been together for 6 years now. We know each other inside and out. I also know that my husband is not very spontaneous, so us randomly getting married at the drop of a hat would never happen.

 
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kandaceandjason

It’s just not me. While I would be perfectly ok getting married tomorrow, it would still have to be the wedding I’m planning for in October, complete with dress, bridesmaids, dinner and dancing, cake cutting, etc. I guess something this life altering just shouldn’t be done on a whim, and should be taken very seriously. But that’s just IMO.

 
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Jen

we went to vegas a couple of years ago and it was weird seeing brides on line at the buffet…kind of cute that people let her go ahead of them…but still weird.

 
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farmgal

I don’t think the location of a wedding has much to do with the quality or longevity of the relationship. I knew 1 1/2 months into our relationship that FI was the man I would marry. Now, nearly 4 years later, I would happily run off and get married just to avoid the nightmare of planning a wedding that has been the subject of scrutiny among FI’s family members.

Although Vegas isn’t for me, I would absolutely love to spontaneously get hitched. And I don’t think our relationship would be any worse or better for it.

 
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Keny

I live in Vegas, and I’m trying to get away from the “Vegas” wedding standard. No Elvises, no running around a casino in my wedding dress, no famous Welcome to Vegas sign picture. I just want a very personal, traditional wedding with an awesome party to match. I think Vegas weddings are fun if it’s a vow renewal. I work at one of the wedding chapels part time and vow renewals are always so fun.

 
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snot

we were going to marry in vegas actually. i just liked the idea of it. i still do. sure people traditionally see it as bad. but i think it would be fun. and i’m honestly a little sad we aren’t getting married there.

we would have eloped there if my fiance didn’t chicken out. heh.

 
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Shanbrite2

I’ve been to several Vegas weddings… because we’re from Nevada. We got married in Reno ourselves. I guess I just can’t judge anyone for getting married in Vegas because everyone has a different reason for doing it (like living there, or having family there. And yes, those who have these reasons still do get judged). We almost had to have a quickie chapel wedding when some paperwork for our officiant looked sketchy. Having 20 chapels downtown sure looks convenient then!

I’ve known a fair number of elopements that have lasted years; it’s the committment AFTER the wedding that really counts!

 
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Tea

haha, my bf banned us from going to vegas together in fear that our parents would assume that we were getting married. especially since my sister eloped there. but i know that if we did, that would be it for us.

 
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Iris

We went on a vacation to Vegas during our engagement and even invited some friends to join us. I think some of them were inspired to come along because they suspected we were going to get married there and ditch the big wedding, but NOPE — just a group vacation! On the trip, we took a lot of teasing everytime we passed anything remotely “wedding” (a limo, a white dress in a shop window, a jewelry store).

 
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kanipark

i heard there’s going to be a new law enforced… saying that couples cannot get married between something like 2-6am… when couples or strangers are drunk… i think it’s not a bad idea…

 
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Patty

My best friend got married in Vegas (planned), and they’re the happiest married couple that I know! They wanted a destnation wedding, and they thought Vegas will be a perfect location for their oversea guests who have never been to the US.

 

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Mrs. Pumpkin, Saskatchewan, Canada Blogger Since: April 10, 2007 Age and Occupation: 28, Lawyer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 29, Farmer Engagement Date: July 14, 2006 Wedding Date: June, 2007 About Me: I love movies, music and I am addicted to TV. When I have some spare time I also love scrapbooking and making personalized greeting cards and above all playing Hide & Seek or Duck, Duck, Goose with my two adorable nieces!

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