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May 23rd, 2007 @ 4:10 pm by Beehive

In today’s hive:

  1. Maricris would like to find “mint to be” labels for mint favors (tic-tacs). She doesn’t have time to DIY them; can anyone suggest an online retailer?
  2. Kelly needs some ideas for decorating the rustic fountain/pond at her reception site. It isn’t the main focal point, but she’d like to do something more creative than lining it with votives.
  3. girl is having a semi-destination wedding, and has already sent out save-the-dates. A couple she invited has since separated and will be divorced by the wedding. She’d like to still invite both of them, but doesn’t have room for each of them to bring a guest. Since all of her other single friends are being invited to bring a guest, is it inappropriate for her not to extend the same offer to her newly single friends?
  4. christina is sending box invitations, and would like some advice. Should she a) handwrite each shipping label with a color-matched marker? b) print each label in a color-matched, script font? c) put all addresses into USPS.com and let it generate black and white labels for her? You can see her boxes here.
  5. JNS has noticed that a lot of wedding vendors use web sites with Flash photos. How can she copy those images and save them to look at later? (She uses Internet Explorer as a browser.)
  6. GG would like to make a photo guest book of her engagement photos. Which is better to use with a Mac: MyPublisher, Kodak, or another? Is one easier to use? Cheaper?

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Miss Lemon

JNS - use the “print screen” key on your keyboard (usually ctrl-print screen) to take a screenshot. Then, paste that image into any sort of graphics program, and crop away everything but the image! (You can even use word/powerpoint to do this)

 
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Miss Pumpkin

Maricris - I can’t say enough wonderful things about Karen Smallbone (www.karensmallbone.com). I just received my order from her yesterday and the labels are so cute! And her 25% off sale is still on so they are very reasonably priced.

 
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turtle

Kelly, I’m decorating the pool at my venue with floating flowers and floating rose candles. I found both at Save-on-Crafts.com I will be selling my floating flowers after my June 2007 wedding if you are interested. christina.m.kim@gmail.com

Girl, if you are allowing all your single guest to being a +1, and you should extend the same courtesy to these two. Keep in mind that not all your guest will be able to come to your wedding, so if two people decline, then you will have room for their guests.

 
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christina

Girl- I would extend them the +1 courtesy but if they are recently divorced- they may not have a plus 1 yet to bring. Also one or the other may not come because the other is there. Or I could be totally wrong and they could be confident to go and both have plus one’s ready and waiting and then you have 2 extra’s on your hands… however I think that might be unlikely…

 
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Emily

Girl-
How close are you to the couple who is separating? If you feel close enough to one or both of the “couple,” I would just be up front and explain the situation. Or, the other alternative is to send you invitations a little earlier to some that you are not sure will make it and hope for a declined RSVP? I know that’s a little tacky, but again, it depends on how close you are to the couple or how close they are to your other guests.

 
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Brooke

GG- I made my e-pic photo guestbook on MyPublisher. I chose it because (at least with my mac) it had the best layout flexibility.

 
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Iris

GG - another vote for MyPublisher.

 
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Joyful

GG - With MyPublisher, it depends on what you want. I DO NOT reccomend their paperbacks. Another option is http://www.blurb.com. The prices aren’t bad at all.

I have a question for the hive. Does anyone know where I can get a good embosser for (preferably) less than 40-50 bucks?

 
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stp812

How would I address a wedding invitation for a couple who have kids and live together but are not married? Do both names go on the outer envelope or just the name of the “friend” you are inviting on the outer envelope but with both their names on the inner envelope or do both names go on the outside as well?

 
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jbride

New Question - what is the standard amount to spend on bridal shower gifts? could you please ask your readers?

GC - another vote for MyPublisher!

 
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Pencils

Sorry, girl, but you really have to invite your newly single friends with guests. They may not bring one, but they will be insulted if they see other singles with guests and they didn’t get the opportunity to bring one. Newly divorced people are often very conscious of their status. It’s likely you’re going to have refusals, you’ll most likely be OK. Give them the courtesy, or it may come back to haunt you later.

 
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gemini

STP812, a couple who lives together should have both names on the outer envelope, woman’s name comes first.

Joyful, knotties rave about the embosser at http://wgpress.com

 
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girl

Thanks guys. I am close with both people…I guess I just didn’t want the drama of having them there with their significant others. Especially since they just got seperated and he already has a girlfriend. I am thinking of extending them an invitation with a guest, but requesting that they bring someone platonic…like a friend or family member. That way, they aren’t the only two who know each other at the wedding (and don’t have to be uncomfortable either sitting together alone) but will hopefully cut down on any awkwardness of them trying to show each other up with their dates.

 
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girl

On another note, I feel like I should explain that these guests are not in their young 20’s; they are in their upper 30’s with children. I find it necessary to explain that because in the hive where I originally posted, someone accused me of being tacky, and I really was just looking out for the interest of both of my guests.

 
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gemini

You can’t extend an invitation and tell them whom to bring. If the guy is already seeing someone, it would be ruder to tell him to leave her behind. You can’t control the situation; you need to give them room to choose to behave as adults. If they don’t respect one another’s feelings, that’s not your problem to fix.

 
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Weddingbee » Blog Archive » Beehive

[...] stp812 isn’t sure how to address an invitation to a couple who live together (and have children), but aren’t married. Do both names go on the outer envelope? Or just the name of the primary invitee (and both names on the inner envelope)? [...]

 
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Vail Bride

You can get a 28.00 GREAT embosser at http://www.roomservicehome.com! We bought ours with our names at the top, a snowflake in the middle and our December 1, 2007 wedding date on the bottom! ALL for 28.00! Fabulous!

 
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Katie

When purchasing a gift for a bridal shower, it really depends on how well you know the bride. Normally, they have a registry, so I say spend within your means. theknot.com suggests $25 to $75 as being appropriate.

This link connects you to theknot.com article: Shower Gifts: 6 Gift Giving Tips

http://www.theknot.com/ch_article.html?Object=AI91122185026&keyword=BRIDAL%20SHOWERS&channel=maids

Good Luck!

 
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Vi

Maricris: I’ve used http://www.myownlabels.com in the past & were very happy with the results. But I don’t know how their price compare against others.

 
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Amanda

We are having the response cards returned to us (we live together, and are paying for the wedding) - 1. Can we use address labels for the response card envelopes? and 2. I’ve read mixed reviews online about including both the bride & groom’s names on the response card envelope since some people “frown upon” people living together before married (I could care less).

 


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