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Mrs. Corn Mrs. Corn, Newport, RI Age and Occupation in '07: 31, HR for public accounting firm Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Consultant for public accounting firm Engagement Date: October 7, 2006 Wedding Date: September, 2007 Blogging Since: June 1, 2007 Venue: North Lawn of Fort Adams State Park About Me: I am a lazy scrapbooker who loves the instant gratification of making cards and I am very easily distracted by all things shiny. In honor of my childhood nights spent hibachi BBQing on the beach with my family, we are hosting a traditional New England Clambake for our reception.
 
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Mrs. Corn, Newport, RI Age and Occupation in '07: 31, HR for public accounting firm Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Consultant for public accounting firm Engagement Date: October 7, 2006 Wedding Date: September, 2007 Blogging Since: June 1, 2007 Venue: North Lawn of Fort Adams State Park About Me: I am a lazy scrapbooker who loves the instant gratification of making cards and I am very easily distracted by all things shiny. In honor of my childhood nights spent hibachi BBQing on the beach with my family, we are hosting a traditional New England Clambake for our reception.
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Reality Check

July 9th, 2007 @ 6:03 pm by Mrs. Corn

I promised myself at the start of the wedding planning process, that I would not let myself get too caught up in the madness that is wedding planning. I wanted to make sure I kept myself aware of what really mattered, and I think I have done a pretty good job of that.

But over the week, a terrible tragedy has occurred in my family, one that deeply affects all of us and will cast a dark cloud over what is supposed to be a joyous time for my family. I am finding this to be a stark and sad reality check as I am reminded to be aware of what really counts and what really matters.

I don’t know each of you individually, but I think sometimes it is important to take a deep breath in the middle of all of our planning and remember just exactly what marriage is and what we are getting ourselves into. Once the band has hit its last note and the decorations have been packed up, the wedding will be over, but the marriage will have just begun.

And now back to our regularly scheduled planning…

14 Responses to “Reality Check”

1.
Andrea says:

Well said.

2.
Laura S says:

I’m so sorry, Miss Corn. I clicked over to your personal blog via the link you left in your earlier post and saw that you mentioned today that something bad had happened. I don’t know what it is, but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you today. I hope your family is able to find solace in each other to help each other cope.

Thanks also for the reminder that it’s about the relationship and the marriage, not the flowers and the favours.

3.
JenniferB says:

Thank you for the reminder.

4.
Linda says:

Ditto!

5.
Chrissie says:

Miss Corn, I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

6.
Go Amie says:

I am so sorry for you and your family. I wish you all the best.

7.
nina nina says:

You are in my thoughts.

8.
Miss Corn says:

Thanks guys…it is weird to put it out there, but I thought it was important enough to share.

9.
Keny says:

Thank you for the reminder… For whatever is going on I’m very sorry…

10.
Mrs Ant says:

I wish you and your family the best.

11.
bunnybride says:

I am very sorry for whatever happened to you and your family. I hope you are all able to rely on each other as best as you can.

12.
gabzoots says:

my prayers are with your family…you’re entirely correct–the wedding is one day, your family, his family, and your friends are important the other 364 days of the year. all my best

13.
Pencils says:

Miss Corn, I’m very sorry to read about your tragedy. And you’re correct–I didn’t read this yesterday because I was ill, home in bed with my husband taking care of me. That’s what marriage is about.

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Miss Newport says:

So sorry for your loss.

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