Dear Weddingbee,
My wedding is about a month away, and I’m starting to get a little anxious about the big plunge. Suddenly, I find myself being attracted to my fiance’s good friend. Although I’m not seriously entertaining the thought, is this kind of thing normal? Like, some biological pull away from mating for life? There aren’t any red flags in my relationship, and I’ve been able to tell my fiance that I’m feeling nervous about the commitment. He’s been working really hard, and I’m off for the month before the wedding so that might be it. I’d be curious to hear what anxieties/jitters other brides or future brides are having, since I don’t think this subject is talked about much.
Anon
I would say it’s normal wedding jitters + too much time on your hands….When I used to bartend I would get really grumpy since my fiance was at work all day, and I was home what felt like 24/7. Then we didn’t see each other at night. Easy to get out of synch with each other. I’d advise to just keep as busy as possible when you’re not wrapped up in wedding stuff. Go to lunches, make day trips places, etc. Best of luck : )