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Miss Peppermint, LA/Palm Springs Age and Occupation: 23, Actress Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Web Producer Engagement Date: October 21, 2006 Wedding Date: December 2007 Blogging Since: July 2, 2007 Venue: historic estate overlooking the heart of Palm Springs About Me: I am a Southern California native who enjoys cooking, writing, travel and all things in the arts. Mr. Peppermint and I met in college and he proposed on our four year anniversary in one of our most special places, Joshua Tree National Park. We're having a destination wedding in Palms Springs that will incorporate tradition as well as reflect our personalities!
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In considering the ceremony music for the wedding, I feel completely clueless–I’m not the most musically inclined. In fact, while I appreciate music, I have no memory for songs or lyrics or even the names of musicians. And perhaps this is why the music thing has been stressing me out so much. I don’t even know where to start. This is further complicated by the fact that I fear Mr. Peppermint and my parents want very different things (I find myself in the middle of this debate).

My parents (and most parents for that matter) have not even thought of the possibility of music that is not classical. In almost every wedding they’ve been to, the bride has walked down the aisle to Wagner’s “Bridal March”. That’s what they’ve come to expect. Granted, I’m not sure I want to walk down to Elvis’s “Love Me Tender” (a suggestion found in the Knot’s suggestion of non-traditional choices), but I’m also not sure I want the “Bridal March”. And more modern songs often have more meaning to me. I tried to broach the subject with my parents this weekend, but we didn’t really get anywhere…Is there a happy medium? Should contemporary songs be relegated to the reception only?

I’ve thought of using the Mancini theme from Two for the Road (my favorite movie!) as a prelude or maybe even processional. Mr. Peppermint really wants to use the Beach Boys’ Wouldn’t It Be Nice? as our recessional (with lyrics). At first I thought that was too contemporary, but I have to admit it has grown on me…right after the minister says “You may now kiss the bride” to hear the upbeat crooning of the Beach Boys does have a sort of appeal. And I feel like recessional music could be something more fun and celebratory…

What are your thoughts??

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puredrivel

I love contemporary music during the ceremony! I say Mr. Peppermint is right on . . . Wouldn’t it be nice is a great contemporary without being “in-your-face about it.” We are using all contemporary music during our ceremony.

Today–Joshua Radin
Waiting on an Angel–Ben Harper
So Are You to Me–Eastmountainsouth
I Will–The Beatles

 
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LS

I am IN LOVE with the idea of non-traditional music for the processional and recessional. My FI is not so sure, but I think I can win him over. I am a big country music fan, so have sort of had a secret dream of walking down the aisle to a really sweet country song. (Although wouldn’t “Wild Thing” also be perfect?) And for some time now have really wanted to recess to “I Believe in a Thing Called Love” by the Darkness (think Bridget Jones II while they’re fighting in that fountain).

My only problem is that I recognize that these ideas seem really great in my head, but may not be so great in their execution. We’re going to meet with our DJ in a few weeks, and I’m going to test his expertise.

Anyway, I think the day should reflect you and your FI, and if you’re not classical loving traditional people, why shouldn’t the music for the ceremony reflect that?

 
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Amy

I think it would be great.

One of my friends walked down to an instrumental version of “God only knows what I’d do without you” by the Beach Boys. It was great! The funny thing was that all the people in the audience sort of hummed or sang along. It created this weird, movie like atmosphere. But it worked wonderfully.

Another friend’s wedding had the song “Signed, Sealed, Delivered…I’m Yours” (probably not the actual title- but that’s how I know it :)) as her recessional. It was an awesome upbeat way to start their new life together. Everybody laughed and sort of clapped along as they walked back down the aisle.

 
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Miss Lime

Although you probably saw my uber-traditional ceremony playlist from yesterday, I love the idea of more contemporary music for ceremonies. Alas, the style of our ceremony and Church regulations will not allow it (we have to have liturgical or sacred music).

A friend used Verve’s “Bittersweet Symphony,” instrumental version, for the processional and Weezer’s “Island in the Sun” as a recessional…happy, upbeat, and summery for her [August wedding] exit! :).

 
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Kaci

We are mixing it up a bit. I haven’t decided what I am going to walk down the aisle to, but I know that SOMEONE will walk down the aisle to the instrumental version of “hallelujah” from Shrek. I also know that I really want “I can Love you” by Gary Allan or “Lost in this Moment” by Big + Rich played during the ceremony…and for the recessional….wait for it….LIVE chorus singing Oh Happy Day (sister act style!)!!! I’m so excited for this part…I am hoping that the audience/crowd…what do you call them? guests! I am really hoping that the guests get into it too!

 
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Brook

What a AWESOME TOPIC!!!

I’m a music lover, not so much musically inclined, but I love good music. Luckily my FI loves music almost as much. With that said we have opted for somewhat the nontraditional route as well. And it’s been a thorn in my side ever since! Two and half months left and we still don’t know!!

We have decided that I will walk on ‘When you say nothing at all’ by Alison Krauss.

Yet we are clueless as to what other music should be played. I do want to honour both our mothers and his grandmother by playing celtic music during the seating of the mothers.

And we want music that is upbeat for the processional- one of my bridesmaids’ processional was the Verve’s Bittersweet Symphony and it was beautiful! Of course, we can’t steal it, as the Mr has pleaded and begged! HA…I’m opting for Bright side of the Road by Van Morrison.

We will also incorporate nontraditional into the prelude music as well…maybe some zeppelin, bhtm and others….
I would love to hear everyone else’s thoughts, since I’m still trying to figure out the inbetween songs as well….

 
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Tricia

I’m actully walking down the aisle to an instrumental Smashing Pumpkins song… Doesn’t get much more “contemporary” than that. ;) We’re still debating the recessional song - U2, the Beatles and James Taylor have all been mentioned for that. Go with whatever makes you smile! :)

 
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christina

So I’m getting married in a Church so I can’t do this.. However I LOVE LOVE LOVE the idea of non traditional music.
I always thought as the recessional- “Beautiful Day” by U2 would be fabulous.

 
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sarah

Yeah i love the idea of contemporary music for the ceremony, i was going to walk down the aisle to “Book of Love” by Peter Gabriel

 
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Brook

GREAT POST!!

Ok I’m going to try this one more time, all my posts haven’t been making it????

We are going to nontraditional route as well. I’m walking to ‘When you say nothing at all’ by Alison Krauss. We will also incorporate celtic music to honour our mother’s heritage and possibly ‘Bright side of the Road’ by Van Morrison for the processional! Still undecided on this one!

As Miss Lime stated, I too had friends that used the Verve’s Bittersweet Symphony instrumental version as their processional!

Good luck deciding!!

 
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tabby

I know of brides whose recessionals have been “What a Wonderful World” (Louis Armstrong) and “Beautiful Day” (U2). I personally would love “What a Wonderful World” if I ever do get married, but…

 
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jen

LOVE contemporary music in a ceremony. Best part? Can you imagine driving in you car 10 years from now and hearing that Beach Boys song on an oldies station? Awww, all those memories flashing into your head!

I’m getting married in a church, so there went that. (We have to choose from a list of mostly classical.)

But when we were considering an outdoor ceremony - I was having so much fun thinking of songs! I was ready to walk in with “She’s got a way” by Billy Joel. :)

 
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fizzy

Ours were totally nontraditional. The bridesmaids walked in to a version of “Pure Imagination” that a friend had recorded for us. I walked in to an instrumental version of “Just like heaven” by the cure, and our recessional was “Signed, sealed, delivered” by Stevie Wonder.

If you want popular music, but not the words, and are okay with a recording, check out vitamin records. They have a lot of string quartet tribute albums.

http://www.vitaminrecords.com/

 
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Janet

I’m getting married at a Japanese garden and using all contemporary music.

I agree with Jen, I would love to hear the song come on the radio and be reminded of our ceremony.

 
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HappyHappy

I love Katheryn McPhee’s version of Somewhere over the Rainbow

And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true!

 
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Judy

I too wanted something a lil more contemporaray. Although I absolutely LOOOVe Canon in D….we found a great alternative. FI’s favourite movie is Forrest Gump, so we’ll be using the theme song for entrance of our bridesmaids. And for my processional, I will be walking to “Deeply in Love” a Christian song by Hillsongs.
One thing that totally made me happy about my decision was when I listened to the tracks and pretended to walk down the aisle..ahhaha it worked and totally convinced me!
good luck!!!

 
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nopushover

Non-traditional, non-classical musical before, during and immediately after the wedding ceremony is not such an anomaly in this day and age, so go for what you both want. In order to soften the contemporary music we chose for our wedding, instrumental versions (actually a classical guitar versions to be exact) of Stevie Wonder’s “Overjoyed” and then the Beattle’s “Here Comes The Sun” were used in the beginning and the end respectively. They were two songs that had meaning to us and our situation.

Good luck in your choices.

 
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Mary

Love contemporary music in ceremonies.

I walked down to an instrumental version of our first dance song “Fields of Gold”.

Our recessional was a mariachi band!

 
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Chrissie

The only traditional music was my processional, which was Water Music, Air by Handel.

We used “Wouldn’t It Be Nice” for our recessional, along with our fave Mancini songs for the guest arriving music. For the moms/MOH, we used “One Hand, One Heart” from West Side Story. It was so totally us! For “As Time Goes By”, we left in the part where Bogie says “Play it again, Sam”, and we could hear people laughing from our dressing rooms :)

 
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SarainSeattle

We are having some traditional (pachelbel and Bach), but for the recessional we are having everyong sing along to what a wonderful world with a pianist.

 
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Miss Peppermint, LA/Palm Springs Age and Occupation: 23, Actress Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Web Producer Engagement Date: October 21, 2006 Wedding Date: December 2007 Blogging Since: July 2, 2007 Venue: historic estate overlooking the heart of Palm Springs About Me: I am a Southern California native who enjoys cooking, writing, travel and all things in the arts. Mr. Peppermint and I met in college and he proposed on our four year anniversary in one of our most special places, Joshua Tree National Park. We're having a destination wedding in Palms Springs that will incorporate tradition as well as reflect our personalities!

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