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Hi everyone, my makeup trial is tomorrow morning, do I tip her? If so, how much would you tip? And if you know for sure that you’re going to book her, do you tip for the trial AND the day of? Thanks!
Elena - here’s a program template that might come in handy:
http://www.weddingbee.com/2007/01/31/menu-and-program-template/
Miss Kiwi - i would tip for the trial and the day of. i have friends that work in the industry, and people generally tip for both. i usually tip 20% if i have a relationship with them or if i’m happy. otherwise 10-15% is standard. good luck - hope it goes well!
1. M - I’m doing the hands ceremony, it’s just like the rose ceremony, adding it near the end, after the vows
2. Grace - we are paying $275ish ($2.50/person) for our 3 tier wedding cake that feeds 110 people
ilovehamm- my church fees were a basic $250 fee ($450 for nonparishioners) + $225 musician fee (included organist & cantor)
Speaking of makeup trials, I have a question. Are y’all paying for the trial AND the day-of makeup? The cost of my wedding day hair covers a trial, but the day-of makeup does not, but I don’t want to gamble on how my makeup looks…
When I asked for a quote about a wedding cake for 100 ppl I was told it starts at $4/slice. When I asked about birthday cakes, I was quoted $2/slice from the same bakery. Hmm……I smell a negotiating opportunity.
m ~ i’m thinking of doing a hand ceremony too and found this useful link:
http://www.weddinggoddess.com/work7.htm
Question: Who do you tip (other than hair/makeup, transportation, and wait staff)? And how much do you usually tip? Every other vendor we have are the owners of their one man company.
question for the hive — I am thinking of a March honeymoon to Thailand. Anyone know where I can start to research to see if it would work. Any must-visit resorts? Is March an OK time to hit Bangkok and the beaches?
ilovehamm- We are paying about 950 (650 for church and pastor, 150 for their mandatory coordinator, and 150 for their own music people. If we brought in our own, we’d still have to pay 150…lame i know!)
Rebecca — Zazzle! I used them for everything and seemed to be best price.
our church fees (catholic) are very cheap compared to others that i hear about. it’s $400, including the coordinator and any altar servers you may have. does not include musicians.
Linda — For a lot of our tips we gave giftcards or gift certificates. Sad, but true! (And I confess we re-gifted a few gift cards this way as tips/thank-yous.)
This was especially good for the military chaplain officiant, because he wasn’t allowed to accept a gratuity, and we really wanted to thank him, so we gave him $100 in gift certificates for a local restaurant. For young people who helped with minor things, we gave movie passes (in pairs); we checked first that they’d be accepted at the best local theater.
Grace - The quotes I got for Buttercream tiered cakes were $3-7 per slice; fondant tiered cakes were $6-10 per slice. However, those quotes were from Bakeries. You can always contact a Wilton Cake instructor at your local Michaels store (or cake supply store) - they usually bake & decorate cakes as a side job and charge much less (ie $4-6 for fondant)
ilovehamm - We’re paying $500 for the sanctuary, pastor, sound guys, DOC, and set-up/clean-up staff. I can’t remember if the pianist is included in that….better check 
I thought this was kinda high when I first saw the figure, but looking at everything involved and what others have said here maybe it’s not. That figure is after giving us a $50 discount since I was born, raised, and still am involved in that church.
ilovehamm- we’re paying a $150 officiant fee, and the $200 church fee is waived because it’s FI’s family’s church.
grace - we’re having a 3 tiered cake to feed about 75-80, with a half sheet cake to feed a total of 150ish, and we’re paying $350 (plus $50 deposit for cake stand) including tax & delivery.
Grace: my buttercream-frosted cake (with elaborate details, though) is $1.75/slice plus a delivery fee and a deposit on the cake divider.
M - we’re planning on doing a hand tying ceremony. We purchased a length of tartan in my fiance’s clan tartan (his last name) and we’ll be asking our minister to introduce it by talking about it’s symbolism and then my sister will read the hand ceremony that was posted on weddingbee a while back (if you search for hand ceremony, it’ll come up) while the minister ties our hands together. We’ll then pull on the knot and slip our hands out thus, tying the knot. We’ll keep the length of tartan in a shadow box on display. It’s a bit of a combination of a couple of different traditions here, but we’re making it our own! Hope that helps!
grace-My cake will be 3 tiers for 150 people and it is costing apx $350 but it depends on your baker.
Miss Kiwi- Tip on both days for sure.
question for the hive…i can’t attend a wedding but still want to give a monetary gift…what is the appropriate amount? she’s an old family friend and we grew up together but lost touch for a looooong time…
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