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Mrs. Cherry Blossom, San Francisco Age and Occupation: 27, Administrative Asst. Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, District Sales Manager Engagement Date: December 23, 2006 Wedding Date: May 3, 2008 Venue: Zen Garden in the East Bay w/ reception in a floor-to-ceiling window Atrium with views of the Zen Garden About Me: After 5 years of dating, we're finally ready to get hitched! I am a lovah of all things wedding, creative, crafty, and definitely DIY bc I love to add a personal touch to everything I gift or make. In my free time, I like to bake, spend time with our family, friends, and my doggies, read my guilty pleasure celebrity gossip and catch up on TV shows.
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Is This For Real?!?!?!

August 22nd, 2007 @ 10:29 am by Mrs. Cherry Blossom

It took me forever to overcome the shock and reality of getting engaged. I’d get a little transfixed staring at the ring many times during the day. I’d close my eyes and reopen them to see if it was still there. No joke! At night I’d go to sleep and feel the ring on my finger and wake up checking to make sure it was still there and real. I did this for a week. It’s so weird to want something for so long and when you get it, you’re afraid some shut-eye will make it all go away. Please tell me, I’m not the only one that felt this way.

Before getting engaged when we spoke hypothetically of our engagement and wedding, should it happen, I had requested two things of Mr. Cherry Blossom. I asked that he made sure to ask for my dad’s permission (which he did - bc my dad is super OLD SCHOOL) and that we’d go try on rings at least once even though he was far from ready. Maybe a year and half before he even purchased the ring, we went once to try on rings. Trying on rings served a huge purpose for me because I always thought I wanted a princess cut pave diamond eternity band ring, and when I tried it on, I was wrong. It sooooooo did not look right on my fingers … bummers. But not only that, it gave Mr. Cherry Blossom the opportunity to see what designs were available, what styles he liked, and most importantly what my ring size was; that way, when it happened, I could wear it immediately.

Mr. CB already knew my ring size but didn’t want to disagree with Mama CB, so he ended up getting the ring a quarter size bigger. It was a tad loose on my finger, but I couldn’t wait to wear it and couldn’t part with it as soon as the ring and my finger connected. Even when we went to the jeweler a couple days later, I had a hard time handing it over to the tech to resize it for me. My precious. It’s my little precious. Muahahaha!

I was very nervous for a while when I first got the ring. I’d grip my hand in a fist to ensure the semi-loose ring wouldn’t suddenly slip off my finger. I was also very careful about not using my left hand, so I worked with my right hand ONLY as much as I could as well. LOL! It was so nerve wracking to wear something so delicate and small but was valued/or cost so much to get. Hence, we quickly contacted an insurance agent for insurance. In two weeks’ time after I got the ring, I spoke to a very helpful insurance agent and got my ring insured. What a sigh of relief.

My insurance agent rocks!! He spoke with us over the phone and thoroughly answered all of our questions and concerns, explained to us all the coverage and deductible options and bam! we were insured! Even when I call into his office, his staff is extremely helpful and nice. I love it! If you’re shopping for Personal Articles Insurance for your ring … or even insurance for the wedding - which some venues require, or other insurance, you should definitely speak with:

Frank Lew - State Farm Insurance
1511 Taraval Street, Ste. 203
San Francisco, CA. 94116
415-564-1221

Do you all have your ring insured?

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24 Responses to “Is This For Real?!?!?!”

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lauren

Mine is insured because my wonderful fiance proposed to me while on a vacation in Spain. He was a smart man and insured the ring before taking it in his carry-on to Europe…thank goodness, because I am sure he would have been a nervous wreck knowing it was in his baggage had he not insured it prior!

 
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Ashley

Yay, glad to see another bride using her local State Farm Insurance agent! My FFIL is a Vice President of State Farm so it was a trip we made almost immediately after getting engaged. It’s so reassuring to know if anything should happen to the ring, we’ve got it covered!

 
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Miss Daffodil (message)  561 posts, Busy bee

yikes, i should get mine insured. i’ll be giving him a call today!

 
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Sarahdoo

Mine is insured (I think? Perhaps.) but I know what you mean about worrying its going to fly off. Mine is way big after getting the diamond set in (big fiasco, it broke and had to be fixed while I was in another state and then shipped to me. It’s gorgeous but its way too big. Monkeys.) so now I wear a ring snuggie (plastic sizer) to make it fit.
I just don’t want to give it back to those people!

 
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Diana

Mine is not insured..
but I did do the same thing as you when I first got engaged. i would wake up, look at my finger, just to make sure it wasn’t a dream. Then I would smile and feel so lucky that i’m engaged to the love of my life. Even to this day, after 4 months of engagment, I still look down and smile when I see the ring. I almost drove off the road a few times when i’d catch the shiny bling in the light. hehe.

 
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loveletter

I need to get mine insured. I have a three-stone ring, and one of the smaller stones ended up getting a chip in it! eeek. I thought diamonds were indestructable, but apparently, they are very brittle. So be careful, everyone. :(

I am going to get it replaced soon, and then get it insured.

 
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loveletter

the diamond, not the ring. :)

 
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ladyjeni

Mine is insured, he insured it the moment he left the store. As he jokes “it’s worth more than my first car” so naturally its insured.

I actually had the opposite reaction. It took me forever to get used to the ring. I had a bad habit of taking it off and forgetting where I put it. A year later I am now used to it and hate when I forget, it just took some time.

 
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Mrs. Bird of Paradise (message)  297 posts, Helper bee

yep, insured through chubb! :)

 
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stella_blu

Check out Jeweler’s Mutual if you don’t have homeowners or renter’s insurance. It’s fairly inexpensive and covers everything!

 
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MJ

Ours was insured before he walked out of the jeweler’s door!

I’d call whomever has your homeowners/ renter insurance. It’s an add on. You just need a jeweler’s appraisal of replacement cost.

 
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Brooke

My FMIL is an insurance agent, so my ring was insured the moment my FI walked out of the jeweler with it!

 
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Pam

good post–i’ve been meaning to do it, but FI & I have been slacking about it. i just left a msg with our insurance agent.

 
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JB

Make sure you are very careful when you select a personal articles policy to insure your engagement ring. I did not go with State Farm because my local agent could only offer a policy that gave SF the option to replace my ring with a similar ring from one of their chosen jewelers - NOT what I wanted, since I have a very particular style/setting.

Instead, I went with a Chub Insurance policy, which will just give me a check if anything should happen to the ring. It’s a bit more expensive, but the value of being able to pick my own replacement from any jeweler I choose if (heaven forbid) anything should happen to my ring was very reassuring.

 
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SBH

I think you described my initial ring hysteria perfectly. It gets easier, though. For example, I am now typing this message with both hands!

My ring was insured the Monday after our engagement through our State Farm agent. It was the only easy wedding-related task I’ve accomplished so far!

 
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Amy

mine is insured through chubb.

 
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kgr

I agree with JB - getting insurance that will cover the full value of the ring is something to consider. It makes me feel better that if I lost my ring I could get the exact same diamond, setting, etc.

My husband had the ring insured the moment he bought it. When he talked to the insurance person, the guy said, “Now you are covered even if she throws the ring in a river.” My husband replied, “If she throws the ring in a river, I have bigger problems than just losing the ring.” Ha ha…

 
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Miss Gummi Bear

mine is insured with the house. one insurance agent we were interviewing was rude about it - I asked “what happens if it falls into the sink?” she in a very annoyed tone “what? you take that thing off before you do your chores honey. why you wearin’ a ring like that over the sink?”

uh… pooped and washing my hands? :P

 
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kelly

I did the same thing with regards to being amazed the first week of the engagement. I was sooo distracted while driving… oops! I was very lucky that my FH had ascertained my ring size…two of our friends were in on it and we all ended up trying on one another’s rings and I sooo didn’t get it– I just thought we were having fun! They all tried on my right hand ring and figured out where, on their ring finger, it stopped… so they all just tried on the sized diamond ring to ensure that it would fit me.

Insurance is the BEST.

 
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kris

Mine is insured, we went on a trip to Fl about 2 weeks after we got engaged and I was not about to go w/out insurance on my beauty! Ms. CB - I did the exact same thing you did because the jeweler insisted to FI that he get a bigger size even though he knew it would not fit on my tiny fingers so I had to give up the ring not once, but twice for re-sizing to a size 3! and it still rolls around a little! I love it more than anything (except my honey) and I have been engaged for 6 months and I still wake up every morning as a habit I touch my ring finger to make sure it didn’t get lost while I slept

 
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Miss Peony

I keep telling myself that I need to insure it (like, every day whenever I look down on my finger) but I still haven’t gotten around to it! I really should, though because I’m such a klutz and always banging my hands around.

I thought I wanted a princess too! But when I tried them on it made my fingers look like kielbasas. :-(

 
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BA

Mine’s insured too, but it took us awhile to get around to it. It’s an “add on” with our renter’s insurance. The funny thing is it was insured before we’d even paid for it (it was bespoke and the jeweler wouldn’t accept money until I’d worn it a month and was sure I loved it!)

I agree about needing to try them on- I thought I hated tapered baguettes- turns out they were a much better choice for my small fingers as side stones than round ones. Who knew?!?

 
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rzblna

No, it costs too damn much so we’ve been putting it off. Thanks for all your suggestions, though, I’ll check them out.

Miss GB– Hee. I *never* take it off, not even for chores– the risk of losing it increases every time it leaves my finger!

 
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Cindy

yep, its insured, and i was a bit shocked that the insurance for a year costs almost the same amount as the regular old renter’s insurance!!

 


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