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The very first DIY project Mr. Lovebird and I undertook together was working on how to ask our groomsmen if they would honor us by being in our wedding party. I always liked the idea of personalized water bottles, like Mrs. Firefly and Mrs. Caterpillar did, so I bounced that idea off of him and said maybe we can do beer bottles instead. After scouring the net for some bottle label images via Google Images, we settled on good old Guinness.
So we started messing around with the image on Adobe but ended up using Microsoft Paint; though not as advanced, it was simpler to use and served our purpose. By using the magic wand function we filled in all the parts we wanted to change by picking the color we wanted to fill it in with.
Then we personalized it by changing the year to 1982, which just so happened to be everyone’s birth year. My fiance and I met in high school and all of our groomsmen were our fellow high school classmates. And instead of the “Brewed by…” we put “Hand picked by Miss and Mr. Lovebird”. We also changed the “Guinness” to “Groomsman” and added each of their individual names. Of course the groom wanted to play around with his own label and to indicate the best man, we changed the “Original” to “Premium.”
We then put the image on a USB and headed to Staples to buy labels and have them printed in color. We found Avery #5264 to be the perfect fit. Then we went to the Waldbaum’s and picked up a six pack of Guinness Extra Stout.
And the finished product… drumroll….
Later on that night, he had the guys over his apartment and nonchalantly handed out the beer. It didn’t take long for them to catch on. The rest is for the history books.
Has anyone done something like this before? I’m interested to know what creative ways others have used to ask people to be in their wedding party.
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Will You Be Our Groomsman?
That is so creative…wow. I can’t wait to see the rest of your DIY projects. Thanks for laying it out step by step too.
Was there any problem with condensation and the labels?
Very clever idea! 
Oh wow! That is one of the most creative things I have ever seen! I am definitely looking forward to your other DIY stuff!!
Talk about getting men to appreciate crafts! This might be the ultimate
that is the most awesome DIY project ever.
Cute idea!!
Your ring is gorgeous too 
thats so freakin’ cute i can’t stand it.
Such a cute idea!
I don’t live in the same location as my bridesmaids, and I definitely couldn’t afford 5 plane tickets to visit each of them and ask in person. Instead, I baked cookies in wedding shapes (engagement ring, cake, dress, heart) and decorated the cookies. I put their name on the dress, our wedding date on the heart, and then on the cake, wrote out “Be My Bridesmaid” (or MOH). I included a card with the cookie package in which I photoshopped a picture of them into the ugliest bridesmaid dress image I could find online, and wrote a little heartfelt note about why I wanted them to be a part of my big day.
We’re also having 2 ushers, as my two best friends are male. I also made them cards, but photoshopped them into a regular bridesmaids dress, and wrote a little poem about how they wouldn’t look right in a dress so would they be an usher instead. I was able to hand-deliver the cards to them over dinner, since at the time they both lived in the same city as me.
I have to say that the cards and cookies went over really well, and I am thrilled that I asked in a way they will remember moreso than just calling over the phone.
Ooohhh, I can’t wait to hear what you did for your BRIDESMAIDS!! =)
Fabulous, in both idea and execution!! I’m with Mrs. Emerald — you’ve certainly gotten us all salivating to see your next DIY endeavors!
I did that for my sister’s 19th birthday (legal drinking age in Ontatio is 19). We printed off fun pictures of her and glued them on to 24 beer bottles. She loved it so much she still has the bottles (empty of course).
Angel~ there was condensation, but it’s not like we were going to serve them cold beer so there wasn’t much that could be done.
Jen~ feel free, that’s what I’m here for =)
Julie & Mrs. Emerald~ I did something similar to what Julie did for my bridesmaids. I picked out a blank card with a beautiful black and white photograph of a flower on it and wrote them a little poem asking them to be my BMs. Then, I took them out to dinner and gave it to them. It brought tears to their eyes =)
Thanks for all the praise everyone~ I hope I will not disappoint in the future. Pressure is on! Next up will probably be gocco invites!
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This is adorable and I am attempting to do it but I was having trouble with the font. What font did you use?
@Jenae: I don’t recall, but I think it was similar to Centaur?
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I love, love, love this idea - is there anyway you still have this file? I would love to get my hands on the image you re-formatted so I can make it my own. Please let me know if you would be willing to share?!
Thanks! =)
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Hi There!
I love this Idea and I’m super crunched for time. I know this is a huge favor but do you still have the file you used to create and print out the labels? It would be a huge help. Our Will you be in our Bridal Party Diner is Oct. 24. So i need to get crackin and my lovely husband to be is not very creative.
Hi Mr & Mrs. Lovebird!!
LOVE LOVE LOVE your idea on how you asked your Groomsmen to be in your wedding party!!! By any chance do you still have this file??? If you are willing to share, I would really appreciate it!!!
Thank you in advance!! =P
@Nicole: Dija get my email in time?
@Chris: You’ve got mail!
Hi Mrs. Lovebird!
If you’re still willing to share your file, can you please send this to me? We LOVE it!!!
@pinkie:
Hi Mrs. Lovebird,
I actually went ahead and created my own. I’ve done something similar for our engagement party but was hoping your file would save us time. But no worries b/c it was super simple since we’ve already made bottle labels before. We used our engagement party invites for min champagne bottle labels, Place cards, mint tins and table # cards. I cleared out the the words like you did for the Guinness and put our own words for all of the above. worked out really well and everyone loved it. it was a great way to tie the invites into the actual party. We used the mints as the Save-the-date, the champagne was our thank you favor.
I was wondering if I could get the file as well if you didn’t mind. Love this idea!
Mrs. Lovebird,
The bottle idea is absolutely AMAZING!! I love it. A very nice and firm manly gesture hehe. Can you PLEASE email me the file if you don’t mind. Thanks a billion!
Mrs. Lovebird,
This idea is totally AMAZING!! PLEASE email me the file. Thank you soooo much in advance. My fiance and his groomsmen will love this!
omg, this is so creative!! and you guys did such a great job!! Could I also PLEASE borrow this idea? If you could email me the template, i would appreciat it so much! Thanks for sharing this great idea with all of us, and look forward to hearing back from you!! Thanks!
So I know you’ve emailed this a billion times but can you please email it to me as well. Thanks so much for sharing!
Mrs. Lovebird,
Can you send to me too please?!?!
Can I get the template too? Please?
Gee well can I be the 20th person to ask but might I also have the template. If nothing else you know its a heck of a compliment to your creativity and execution.
Thanks!!
Mrs. Lovebird is there a way that I can get it too… This is a great IDEA!!!!
I just got engaged and we are planning on asking our groomsmen and bridesmaids at a dinner soon….
You would be a lifesaver
@Rs976:Enjoy!
@Tina: Congrats on your engagement! You’ve got mail.
omg thats awesome! i love that idea! i was thinking about buying Groomsmen tuxedo koozies for the guys. But I really like this idea too! hmmm we’ll see what we do after all.
I also love your idea! Very creative. If you don’t mind can you also send me the template you used. Thanks a bunch!
Hi Mrs. Lovebird,
Amazing idea! Can you email me the file with the template too please?
Thanks!
Mrs. Lovebird– I LOVE this idea! My fiance and I were trying to think of a creative (non-girly) way to ask his friends to be in our wedding… and this is PERFECT! Would you mind sending me the template as well? Really appreciate your generosity and creativity!! Thank you!
Mrs. Lovebird. That was a great idea. We have been thinking of a different way to ask my friends to be in our wedding. Would you be willing to send the template to me. Thanks in advance!
Hello Mrs. Lovebird…I am sorry to bother you as well but I love this idea and would love to share this with my groomsmen. Thanks.
Nicole…would you be able to send me the champaign bottle design?
Do you mind sending me the template also? Our engagement party is in a few weeks and nothing comes close to your idea as far as gifts and asking goes!!! megsingel@yahoo.com
thanks!!!!!
I’d love to check out your design! My fiance and I are in the process of asking our bridal party now.. Great idea! Thanks!
Can you please send me this file if you have it? It sounds like the greatest idea ever!
would it be possible for you to send me the template as well? I love it!! please send it to frankmich@hotmail.com Thank you so much!
Can anyone help I would really love to do this but have no idea how to make the template.
Would it be possibly to get file and/or template from you mrs.lovebird. I love this idea! Mad props to you and the Mister. jordan.w.chan@gmail.com
thanks
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Mrs. Lovebird, New York/Cancun Age and Occupation: 25, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Medical Student Engagement Date: September 22, 2006 Wedding Date: July, 2008 Venue: Dreams Cancun Resort & Spa About Me: Born and raised New Yorker planning a destination wedding in Cancun, Mexico and a traditional Chinese banquet in New York City. Got proposed to in Cancun, so it’s only fitting we are going back to get married. I love trivia, board games, bargain shopping, asian dramas and eating yummy food!
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