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Mrs. Jasmine, Chicago/LA Age and Occupation: 25, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Attorney Engagement Date: March 24, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: September 20, 2007 Venue: Hotel on the westside of Los Angeles About Me: I'm a happy-go-lucky, imaginative spirit trapped in the body of a lawyer. I love reading, shopping, dining out, and exploring my beloved adopted city of Chicago with my fiance. We're planning the wedding of our dreams in my hometown of Los Angeles and we're excited to incorporate our cherished Indian/Pakistani customs and traditions.
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Let Them Eat Cake

November 19th, 2007 @ 8:33 am by Mrs. Jasmine

I have a confession to make: I don’t really care about the wedding cake. It feels blasphemous for a die-hard sweet tooth like myself to say that, but I have to be honest– our wedding cake has become an afterthought in the flurry of wedding planning. Among the many aspects of the wedding I want to splurge on (venue/food, stationery, decor), the cake quickly fell to the bottom of my priorities.

But while I may not care too much about the cake, I still want it to be a scrumptious treat for our guests. I’ve started to think about what kind of cake would be most enjoyable for everyone and I’ve decided we must have a mango filling! I actually don’t like mango, but I love the way a mango cake pays homage to our Indian/Pakistani heritage. Plus, our families and friends all really love the fruit and would be delighted to have mango cake.

The harder part is figuring out what I want visually: the sky is truly the limit when it comes to options. While I mull over what I would like, here are some of my favorites:

I love the elegant, minimalist designs of April Reed and the Cakegirls:


But richly colored, detailed cakes like these from Lovin Sullivan and Jacques Pastries are breathaking too:


What flavor and style of wedding cake did you choose? And what aspect of the wedding has become an afterthought for you?

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18 Responses to “Let Them Eat Cake”

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kELLY

I went with the butter cream for the bride’s cake. I was really into different-shaped tiers and different designs on each tier. So my cake is a 4-tier ivory cake with taupe accents. The bottom layer is square with taupe pin stripes, the third and top tier are round with taupe swiss dots and the second tier is square with a taupe scroll pattern. Each tier has a fondant cranberry ribbon along the bottom border and the entire cake is topped with a large, loose cranberry fondant bow! I can’t wait to see it in person (so far all i’ve seen is my fiance’s drawing which was actually REALLY good). By the way - I had pulled those top two cakes into my ideas! Ha - i thought the blue one looked like hat boxes. :) SO PRETTY and classy.

 
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Kate

Screw wedding cake. I want a gigantic wedding brownie. :)

FWIW, I like the square tiered one with the sugared threads and the flowers. I’m a big geometric detail fan.

 
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brianne

the bottom left cake is my wedding cake!!! you can see pictures at the website i posted :)

 
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Miss Jasmine (message)  1,154 posts, Bumble bee

Brianne: What a coincidence! Your wedding looked amazing and you were such a beautiful bride!!! That cake is one of my favorites too.

 
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Claire

Brianne! Where did you get those gorgeous bridesmaid dresses?

 
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Angel (message)  1,252 posts, Bumble bee

My afterthoughts were: a must-take list for the photographer (I really didn’t have a whole lot in mind except five or six shots I thought would be neat), accessories for the dress (I had the hard part done!), programs (didn’t even do these).

 
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brianne

Claire: I got them at Faccio Bridal in Nashville, TN. They are Jim Hjelm dresses in Lagoon (style #JH5650T).

Thank you for the compliments, ladies!

 
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cindy

The cakes you posted are exquisite. I love your idea of mango filling. I went to a rehearsal dinner recently where a mango cheesecake was served. It had mango filling on top and was divine.

 
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Sarah

All the stuff that might fall by the wayside, but was still pretty darn important, I tried to do up front. That way, I kind of used all the stuff I was interested and excited about as a reward. As in “no designing favors until you’ve hired a DJ.”

 
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Miss Tulip

Yum, mango filling sounds great!

I love Sarah’s system for dealing with the “wayside” issues…. Don’t know that they’re “afterthoughts”, exactly, but at this point basically everything that’s left (invites, ceremony, guest travel details, the dad-burned registry) is falling by the wayside. Lately I just haven’t had the energy to get things done. (Everyone has been scandalized that we’re 4 months out and have no ceremony site!!)

 
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nopushover

We had meyer lemon cake with lemon curd and fresh rasberries filling, all covered in vanilla butter cream. The cake was square layers with dark brown swirly designed. All topped with a dark chocolate brown resin bride and groom. Just one flavor of cake so guests didn’t have to worry about not getting their choice.

I did not worry about saving the top layer — everything was eaten.

Also didn’t have a program, which made the few parts where we deviated from plan unnoticeable.

FYI — many Asian bakeries in the San Gabriel valley specialize in mango cakes…the cake itself is usually of the spongy variety that usually goes well with the mango and fresh whipped cream.

 
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L

*gasp* That IS blasphemous, Miss Jasmine. Although I don’t consider myself to have a die-hard sweet tooth (my bf would beg to differ), I still loooooove desserts and the wedding cake is one of the things I am most looking forward to when the time comes (well, the tastings, to be exact…for the cake AND the reception =P ).

Mango sounds delish though! You are so sweet to have something on your cake that you don’t even like yourself!

Sarah - haha that’s a great technique to get yourself to complete dreaded tasks!

 
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Tea

hahaha, l, i’m the same way! i can’t wait for the tastings when i get engage. its probably the one thing i’m looking forward to the most in the entire planning period. even over the dress.

 
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Miss Bubblegum (message)  143 posts, Blushing bee

Ohhh man, I LOVE mango. I think that would be awesome.

 
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Carrie

My wedding cake has definitely become an afterthought, which is odd. If there’s a career I’d pursue besides the one I’m in, it’d actually be pastry arts! But the thing is, I can’t remember the last wedding I went to where I got a chance to look at the cake, let alone sit down and eat it. I guess I assume it’s the same for many people, so I figure if there’s one place where I’m going to go simple (and inexpensive), it’s definitely my cake.

 
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franola

we had mango filling for our wedding cake and it was awesome. specifically, it was strawberry-studded mango filling in poundcake with white chocolate buttercream frosting. the guests loved it.

 
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Christine

We had a wicked delish passion fruit filling in our almond cake with buttercream frosting. The best part? All organic! Super yummy and can’t wait for the top layer in another 10.5 months.

 
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jp

you probably already have your cake vendor, but just in case… Red Ribbon Bakery (it’s a filipino chain all over CA) makes THE best mango-filled cake ever. EVER. and i am a serious cake lover. and i must also confess that cake is also falling by the wayside for me.

 


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Mrs. Jasmine Mrs. Jasmine, Chicago/LA Age and Occupation: 25, Attorney Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Attorney Engagement Date: March 24, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: September 20, 2007 Venue: Hotel on the westside of Los Angeles About Me: I'm a happy-go-lucky, imaginative spirit trapped in the body of a lawyer. I love reading, shopping, dining out, and exploring my beloved adopted city of Chicago with my fiance. We're planning the wedding of our dreams in my hometown of Los Angeles and we're excited to incorporate our cherished Indian/Pakistani customs and traditions.
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