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Mrs. Milkshake Mrs. Milkshake, Seattle/Vancouver, BC Age and Occupation: 23, Pharmacist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Pharmacist Engagement Date: May 2007 Wedding Date: August 2008 Blogging Since: December 6, 2007 Venue: Victorian Mansion About Me: Despite the fact that I’ve invested many long years of my life studying the sciences in college, I’m glad to be out of there and I would never do it again! I’m super artsy at heart - I run an indie craft site, I grew up shooting and developing my own film, doing jazz and ballet, and the whole gamut of art classes. I’ve been called a Jane of all Trades… but I was also told many years ago not to make my passion my career because it’d suck the fun out of it. Hence my choice of day job. We live in Seattle but are having our wedding in Canada to be fair to all our family and friends.
 
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Mrs. Milkshake, Seattle/Vancouver, BC Age and Occupation: 23, Pharmacist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Pharmacist Engagement Date: May 2007 Wedding Date: August 2008 Blogging Since: December 6, 2007 Venue: Victorian Mansion About Me: Despite the fact that I’ve invested many long years of my life studying the sciences in college, I’m glad to be out of there and I would never do it again! I’m super artsy at heart - I run an indie craft site, I grew up shooting and developing my own film, doing jazz and ballet, and the whole gamut of art classes. I’ve been called a Jane of all Trades… but I was also told many years ago not to make my passion my career because it’d suck the fun out of it. Hence my choice of day job. We live in Seattle but are having our wedding in Canada to be fair to all our family and friends.
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Trash The Dress

December 31st, 2007 @ 10:01 am by Mrs. Milkshake

I get to do a trash the dress session with videography greats Still-Motion. When I think about local Vancouver spots for a trash the dress session, nothing really appeals to me in the same way that I was really bored with the overdone hotels and golf courses as reception venues. I love edgy photos which is why I drool over anything taken with a lomo and/or cross processed (here’s a sample of cross processed images on flickr). My photography heroes used to be Heather Champ, delicious blur, and quarlo, back in the day when I took more photos.warehouse

If I could have my reception in an abandoned warehouse I would be the happiest girl in the world! So on this dirty note, let’s talk about trashing the dress….

To me, East Hastings is an inextricable part of my Vancouver. I took these photos years back with the squatters outside the old Woodwards building, but if you’re unfamiliar with the area, it’s shocking but certainly not out of place.
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I went down to Hastings and Main in this area for about three years, spending 6-7 hours of my Friday night serving food or singing worship songs at a small, upstairs place next to the Balmoral Hotel street church. Now it seems so far away, and so far removed from my life. I went back one Christmas to revisit the smell of coffee mixed with hot dogs, mixed with an endless line of unwashed men and felt like I was perhaps the only one I knew who understood how I felt about it.

Here’s some photos I’ve gathered off of flickr. You’ll see it really is skid row, and I think it’s one of the worst places in North America. But it’s safe. It’s so safe. Canadians don’t carry guns, eh? And I used to leave street church at 1am.
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Anyone in the northwest is probably familiar with the Pickton serial murderer - a pig farmer who abducted and murdered anywhere from 26 to 60 some odd women, and literally fed them to his pigs. In that sense, my fiance is very uncomfortable with the idea of doing a TTD session there - it just seems too much like a slap in the face to the people in the area to have someone parading around in a $1000-5000 dress I guess. It’s hard to explain.

I read about a trash the dress session where a “daring” bride/model posed on an alley mattress and it reminded me of hastings and main. I used to want to take portraits of the people there because there was so much story in each of their faces. Give them a meal in exchange for a portrait. But I literally lacked the balls to do it being small, dainty, and female amongst a throng of drunken men and drugged up prostitutes.  So this area for a TTD was just an idea.  I’ve looked into other potential sites that I’ll post about later.

6 Responses to “Trash The Dress”

1.
Mango says:

OMG. Thank god you chose not to! While I was reading your post, my mouth was a giant gaping ‘O’ of shock and horror! East Hastings would be a COMPLETELY innappropriate place for a TTD session for all the reasons you listed (drugs, crime, homeless people, prostitutes, ostentatious flaunting of wealth), just so many reasons why that would be so wrong and offend so many people. If you like factories and a little bit of grunge, what about Granville island? Or a wharf?

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jen says:

eeeeks, i’m not familiar w/ the area but i got chills reading about that serial killer. glad you decided not to do a TTD there.

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nash0922 says:

I agree that it would have been a completely innapropriate place for a TDD as well as offensive.

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vivian says:

1st thing that came to my mind when you said Trash the Dress and Vancouver… the “1,000 Plaecs to See Before You Die: Canada” episdoe the Travel Channel did. They went to this AMAZING place to see “storm watching” and although at the climax of the storm it was very intense, there was a very cool spot of becah in which the waves come up on both sides [and eventually crash into each other]. I think the locale would be extremely beautiful for a TTD session in less extreme weather conditions. See pics - http://travel.discovery.com/tv/1000-places/photos/canada/canada_02.html and
http://travel.discovery.com/tv/1000-places/photos/canada/canada_04.html

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smartl says:

I’m disappointed you even suggested these locations for TTD sessions. I’m sorry but there’s edgy and then there’s offensive. This post shows a lack of respect for the people who have lived and died in these locations. You can have artistic photos anywhere if the photographer is skilled. What about Gastown or Chinatown? Playland (a Vancouver amusement park for those not familiar with the area)? Under a bridge somewhere? Those would make for some edgy locations and photos without offending anyone.

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griffen says:

I get to do a TTD with them too! I’m so excited for us both :)


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