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Mrs. Toucan, Boston Age and Occupation: 25, Full-time Research Assistant, Part-time Graduate Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Actuary Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: November 07, 2007 Venue: St. Catherine of Genoa, Jin Asian Cuisine Restaurant About Me: I’m a Gemini to the extreme. On one side, I’m a girly girl. I read countless bridal and fashion magazines, and have an obsession with keeping up with the latest Hollywood gossip. On the other side, I’m a sports fanatic. Despite being a full-time bride-to be, full-time research assistant, and part-time student, I’m also a full-time Red Sox fan from spring training to October, and a full-time Patriots fan from mini-camp to February. I devote almost as much time researching my for fantasy football team as researching for our wedding!
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Business In The Front, Party In The Back :  wedding chinese ceremony Mullet

MULLETS!!!!!!!!!!

What exactly do mullets have to do with my wedding planning?

Absolutely nothing.

When I thought of the title of the post, I figured this was a good enough excuse as any to make a collage of mullets and glorify them on the ’bee. Why, you ask? Simply put, mullets are funny.

Okay, on to the real reason for the title of the post… my “business in the front, party in the back” qipao!

Huh?!

I’ll explain. While in Hong Kong, my family and I took a side trip to Shenzhen, China to go shopping and have my qipao made. Since I was having the qipao made custom for me, I could do anything (well, almost anything) - the possibilities were endless!

Step One of my custom qipao: Picking a fabric!
I had books upon books of fabric swatches to choose from - gahhh! SO many choices!!! And then, I came across this:

Business In The Front, Party In The Back :  wedding chinese ceremony Dresspics011

Perfect! I didn’t want a red qipao because I was worried I’d clash with my teal and magenta color scheme, however my parents thought if I didn’t choose red, it wouldn’t look “bridal” enough. This fabric was perfect. It was pink like I wanted, and it was was bridal enough for my parents because the pattern was phoenixes and dragons!! (Miss Canary’s qipao post explains the phoenix and dragon symbolism) So, the fabric was picked! YAY!

Step Two: Picking the qipao design.
I knew I wanted a mostly traditional Chinese looking dress, but I also wanted to add in my own flair. I ended up with what I call, my “business in the front, party in the back” qipao. So without further ado…

Business in the front:

Business In The Front, Party In The Back :  wedding chinese ceremony Dressp01(On my tip-toes because I’m not wearing shoes)

Party in the back:

Business In The Front, Party In The Back :  wedding chinese ceremony Dressp02(I didn’t bother to get up on my tip-toes here, as you can see)

Okay, so maybe my qipao isn’t quite as fun as a mullet… but, it’s backless! And, that’s kinda fun. :) Here are a couple of other shots of the qipao.

A close-up of the standard mandarin collar:

Business In The Front, Party In The Back :  wedding chinese ceremony Dressp03 The side view:

Business In The Front, Party In The Back :  wedding chinese ceremony Faceed(I was having a bad face day, so I kindly cut my face out)

So, there you have it my traditional qipao with an untraditional twist. What do you think?

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50 Responses to “Business In The Front, Party In The Back”

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ChicagoSarah (message)  159 posts, Blushing bee

Oooh, sexy! Way to put a modern, personal spin on tradition. I love mandarin collars.

 
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Mrs. Radish (message)  385 posts, Helper bee

Woo-hoo! You’re certainly bringing sexy back ;)

(sorry… I can’t help but love JT)

 
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Miss Toucan (message)  1,327 posts, Bumble bee

well, duh! Why didn’t I make the “sexy back” connection?! Of all things, I chose the mullet angle.. :P

 
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Miss Jasmine (message)  1,170 posts, Bumble bee

You look hot!!! I love the color and it looks fabulous on you!

 
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wm

that dress is HOT. i wish i had a reason to buy a qipao like that!

 
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ChicagoSarah (message)  159 posts, Blushing bee

Oh, but I bet it was fun to make the mullet collage… Interesting that Mel makes two appearances!

 
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Missy Jenn

A backless qipao? That’s awesome (and different!)!! ;-) I love the color.

 
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cindy

whoa!! my eyes popped when i saw the back. haha. it’s cool that your parents are liberal enough to let you do that with something so traditional. and you’re super tan!

 
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Sarah

You look gorgeous!

 
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tetleytee

gorgeous! that’s how I’m getting my qipao made, as I had it made (in shenzhen as well) like that for my prom dress and I loved it!

 
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Miss Canary (message)  682 posts, Busy bee

Hot! I love it Miss Toucan! Yeah I wish I could get away with something sexier but my family is ultra conservative. I love the color too!

 
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Joanne

ooh so cool! i get to start thinking about what i want for my qi pao soon. i have a few ideas in mind, but i never thought of backless.

 
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lali

your dress (and you) look stunning!!

 
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Nstar

Such a gorgeous, sexy dress!

 
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starjas

I think its awesome. The title is priceless.

 
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erika426 (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

sexy! you look awesome

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,235 posts, Sugar bee

sexay lady!!!!!

 
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Mrs. Emerald (message)  1,062 posts, Bumble bee

Oww Ooowwwww! (catcalls) Love that you whited out your face, too funny =)

I would have never thought to do something like that with a twist! Ah well, I couldn’t have pulled it off anyways (my back aint so slim like yours!) and my in-laws would NOT have approved, heh heh.

Chicago Sarah - Mel is only in there once, I swear!
Row 1: Brad, Patrick, John
Row 2: Keifer, Sting, Mel
Row 3: David, Michael, Kevin

haha, can’t believe I listed out the mullet men.

 
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Mrs. Onion (message)  710 posts, Busy bee

wow — schexy! nice modern spin on a traditional dress. can’t wait to see it on the wedding day.

 
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ChicagoSarah (message)  159 posts, Blushing bee

Aaah, Mrs. Emerald, you’re so right - I mistook Kevin for Mel in Braveheart. Haha!

 
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Mrs. Toucan, Boston Age and Occupation: 25, Full-time Research Assistant, Part-time Graduate Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Actuary Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: November 07, 2007 Venue: St. Catherine of Genoa, Jin Asian Cuisine Restaurant About Me: I’m a Gemini to the extreme. On one side, I’m a girly girl. I read countless bridal and fashion magazines, and have an obsession with keeping up with the latest Hollywood gossip. On the other side, I’m a sports fanatic. Despite being a full-time bride-to be, full-time research assistant, and part-time student, I’m also a full-time Red Sox fan from spring training to October, and a full-time Patriots fan from mini-camp to February. I devote almost as much time researching my for fantasy football team as researching for our wedding!

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