Weddingbee

that video is one part creepy and one part entirely accurate…how sad for us married folks

Hilarious and SO true. We don’t have children yet, so it’s a toss between partying with our single friends (we can’t seem to stay up late anymore) or sitting in the house/going on an EARLY dinner date with our married w/children friends! LOL

hehe.. cute video.. hmm… i’m not sure if it’s the planning or just getting married in my head, but lately all i wanted to do was just stay at home. it could also be winter time and that’s usually when i hibernate anyways.. (hate the cold) i also have a buttload of diys to do so this is a perfect time to get them all done before spring comes.. =) when i see alot of my single friends out partying and such, especially when it involves them drinking to the point of “what the hell” and that just doesn’t make me want to hang out with them. worse feeling is trying to get them to leave the club early and when they are drunk, that’s 80% of the battle and just irritating. if it is dinner, no problems there whether it be couple or single friends. i love to get together with my girlfriends and just chat over dinner which is awesome. FI never usually hangs out since he’s more of a homebody and just likes to play his WoW. This works out perfectly for me cause we both have different tastes and don’t mind each other doing what we like to do on our own. We make time hanging out together, just the two of us which he prefers more than having to meet up with friends. I definitely don’t want my single friends to feel as if they have to hang out with both me and FI, although since they see less of him, they always ask if he will join which is usually no.. for me, i don’t want to feel as if i have to invite the husband along with my married gfs bc sometimes i just want to have girl talk and that will just bore the guy to death. I guess it all depends who you are better friends with and their personality. ok.. i’ll stop here.. =) that’s my two cents.

this weekend i’m going to see my best friend from college all by my lonesome, it’s going to be great to have the girl time! although it’s also going to be weird to do things w/o my DH. glad that i’m not the only one that feels more “domesticated” than the rest of their friends.

LOL the video CRACKED me up I’ve been saying to my fiance “we need more friends” LOL… I have a smattering of all different types of friends now… I have some friends with babies who aren’t married , I have a few married friends with no babies, and some single friends, (oddly enough, no friends in like serious relationships really at the moment)

it’s very hard to find activities and time to socialize. SO much easier in college when most of your friends live within 2 miles of you, and similar schedules…

That’s a riot! We were just discussing this issue last weekend. And, we added that since the three couples that all get along (us–engaged, one married, and one long term waiting on that ring) don’t have kids, we’ve been narrowed even further from our kid-having married friends.

That was hilarious! I am one of the first of my close friends to be getting married (though my fiance and I have been together for almost 6 years and we are nearly 30-that’s NYC for you!) and I love having single friends around me to keep me from becoming a SMUG MARRIED. I still love a late night with friends –it’s just that now I have people over rather then hitting the bars. I suppose one day I will succumb to the yuppie within.

We still find ourselves to be very busy, including on the weekends but I think it’s a different busy. The ways we’ve changed have more to do with the fact that our friends (mostly from college) aren’t in the area, he commutes to and from Seattle (1 hour) every day, and/or his family lives way out of state. And, after going-going-going all week we’re perfectly okay chillin at home!

We don’t have as many of the “lets go out to the bar” nights as a “lets go to the movies, out for dinner/drinks, to your brother’s house” kind of nights. I had a night out with just girlfriends–half of whom are single–for the first time since the wedding and still had a good time, but it was different.