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Mrs. Cherry Blossom, San Francisco Age and Occupation: 27, Administrative Asst. Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, District Sales Manager Engagement Date: December 23, 2006 Wedding Date: May 3, 2008 Venue: Zen Garden in the East Bay w/ reception in a floor-to-ceiling window Atrium with views of the Zen Garden About Me: After 5 years of dating, we're finally ready to get hitched! I am a lovah of all things wedding, creative, crafty, and definitely DIY bc I love to add a personal touch to everything I gift or make. In my free time, I like to bake, spend time with our family, friends, and my doggies, read my guilty pleasure celebrity gossip and catch up on TV shows.
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No… I’m not married yet. LOL! But it sure looks like it now doesn’t it?

That be my ring guard that Mama CB gifted to me. Waaaah!  Are You Married Already? :  wedding rings san francisco Kiss201 kiss201 The weather’s been extra cold and I’ve been losing some weight. Mama CB freaked out when she saw how loose my ring was and insisted I had a ring guard… which is totally Cool Beans except I didn’t expect that. She said, you gotta PROTECT yo investment! Well not exactly like that, she more like demanded it in Chinese… especially since she did after all, assist Mr. CB in the purchase, so she was looking out for our best interest. It’s considered an early bday gift I can later wear on my right hand! Woop Woop! I definitely don’t want to resize the e-ring bc when the weather gets warmer, them puppies might plump up like mad, then what? Or what if I put back all my weight and more after the wedding * gasp* Waaaah!  Are You Married Already? :  wedding rings san francisco Shocked024 shocked024 !

It feels tons weird to me that I’m wearing a could-be wedding band giving off the wrong impression. But you know what, it’s totally given me a taste of what it’s going to feel like when we do get married, and I’ll get to wear that extra band and know the feeling of being MARRIED!!!! I gotta say…. I likeeeee likeeeee lots! I can’t wait. I can’t wait!

With the days quickly approaching, Mr. CB and I both really have to start shopping for my wedding band soon. I’ve always always wanted an eternity band - it just ooOOOOzes gorgeous to me. Waaaah!  Are You Married Already? :  wedding rings san francisco Blush033 blush033
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But most everyone has suggested I get the Half Eternity, if not, a Channel Setting Eternity band since it’s more practical. There’s less likelihood of me losing diamonds from the band and it might be more comfortable on the hand.

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futuremrs.taj

My e-ring is an eternity band, so to complete the set, FI is getting another eternity band as my wedding ring, which is really great. Just make sure you really know your size CB, because they are almost impossible to resize. I actually got some sizing beads soldered on the inside of my ring and it helps so much with fit. I don’t even notice them anymore and my ring doesn’t spin around like it used to!

 
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Jay

I have a half eternity channel set band. I didn’t want an eternity ring (okay, I totally did until I realized this) b/c with typing I’m constantly banging the undersides of my fingers against the keyboard, desks, etc, and I didn’t want to knock any of the stones loose. I tried on a couple different styles, and channel set looked really nice with my e-ring (a solitaire), so that was the way to go. I love it!

 
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Miss Jasmine (message)  1,170 posts, Bumble bee

Love the way an eternity band looks, but I’m worried about resizing issues, so I’m just going to get a half-eternity.

 
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melbride (message)  149 posts, Blushing bee

mine is an 1.88 mm eternity band by Michael B. I must say I love it and it fits my Ritani e-ring to a T laying flush against it. i’ll prob request another eternity band for our one year anniversary in case I want to wear my wedding band alone that it won’t be too thin with two thin bands together. i always knew i wanted an eternity band so it wasn’t too hard to decide to get one for my wedding band.. =)

 
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misschickie (message)  169 posts, Blushing bee

Hi Miss CB. I tried on prong set eternity bands for my e-ring and it was very very uncomfortable!! I have tiny hands, my ring size is 4.5 and my palm is about 3 inches across–maybe that has something to do with it? In any case, my e-ring is a band that is prong set across the top, with channel setting down the sides to ALMOST meet at the bottom–there is approx 1 centimeter of plain metal there for resizing due to swelling, gaining/losing weight, etc.
My w-bands–YES, plural!!–are going to be one plain metal band with nothing on it, and one band with a mini row of tiny diamonds channel set around the middle, almost like a thin stripe? That way I get the comfort AND the sparkle ;)

 
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Mrs. Onion (message)  710 posts, Busy bee

I had my wedding ring custom made (see my post on that here: http://tinyurl.com/2l9t7z) and for me, although I think an eternity band is beautiful to look at, it just made sense to not have the stones go all the way around the ring.

My reasons were a) for comfort and b) for resizing down the road. Let’s face it — what is the chance our finger will be the exact same size for the rest of our lives?? That’s just my 2 cents.

 
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MountainBride

I have an eternity band and I love it. I am not sure why everyone says they are not practical. I agree with futuremrs.taj. If you ring becomes too big you can get a small piece of platinum soldered to the inside of your ring to make it smaller, or beads whichever you choose.

 
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sarah

i have a full eternity band and love it.

the sales associate kept at tiffany’s kept trying to convince me to get the half eternity band, but i wasn’t having any of that! i don’t find that it bangs much on the underside, but it does occassionally get snagged by certain sweaters.

i’d recommend getting it a 1/2 size larger if you go with the full eternity. weight gain, pregnancy, age… all play a role in how your ring will fit over the years.

and do your fiance a favor and get one through the following website rather than tiffany’s and get more bling for your buck!

http://thefacetscollection.com/diamond_eternity_bands.cfm?forward=FEB

they’re highly recommended on pricescope and i can vouch for their quality! :)

 
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Julieulie

I just picked out my wedding band this weekend… it’s an eternity band, asscher cut stones (to match my engagement ring), 2.75 ct total weight. The ones in the store were all HUGE (as in, 4 ct total weight) and that was WAY TOO MUCH BLING for me, so we had him custom make a smaller one to see if I would like that (truthfully I would go even smaller but my fiance was happy with the ring as is). As far as it being uncomfortable, it didn’t bother me at all, and I work with my hand significantly more than most (I’m a scientist, so not only do I use my hands, but I have to squish them into nitrile gloves 10 hours per day).
As far as the sizing, he suggested going up 1/4 to 1/2 size compared to my engagement ring, because I’ll wear it on the inside of my finger and the engagement ring will serve as the “ring guard” and as I get older, my fingers will swell more, so it’s better to have it be a bit loose now as opposed to later. Plus, since it’s a full eternity band, it doesn’t matter if it spins — there’s no up side and down side. I just knew I didn’t want a half eternity, because I wear my grand-grandmother’s half eternity ring on my right hand, and that sucker flips upside down ALL THE TIME. It’s actually really tight on my finger and a struggle to take on and off, but even with it being smaller than comfortable, it’s still upside-down every time I look at it.

 
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suzanno (message)  2,683 posts, Sugar bee

I am going to go with channel set diamonds, halfway around. This matches my e-ring, which has eight channel set graduated stones in addition to the center stone.

I also have the “ring bumps” which do a really nice job of keeping it from rotating. I don’t know about buying a half size big - for me, a half size is about the difference between fitting when its warm out and losing the ring if my hands are cold. We bought my e-ring the same size as my normal rings, and almost immediately had it sized down a half size and the bumps added.

 
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spice

my e-ring is also an eternity band… and I love it! As any ring it’s gets some time to get used to it, but now I hardly notice it. I have small hands… with a size 4 ring. At night when it gets cold, it’s totally loose (spins around) but when I get hot or in the morning, it’s super tight! soooo it’s actually the perfect size either way. As long as you know your ring size and maybe go a 1/2 up or (+) if you are worried about rpeganancy or whatever… I wouldn’t worry about it!

 
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kerry

um… where’s the option for a plain band? I’m not really a flashy type, plus we were on a tight budget, so I just have a plain gold band. Classic, simple and delicate looking, and lets the rock on my e-ring stand out :)

 
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Karianne

I wnet all out on my wedding band… I couldn’t stand the way one ring looked against my princess cut solitare, so we got a diamond eternity that I wear at the base of my finger, and then my engagement ring, and that is all sandwiched under a half diamond eternity - It really balances out the look of the ring. single bands were really making my ring look lopsided… The only question now is do I get the finish of my engagement ring brushed to lessen the shine???, I suppose I could always polish it back out if I don’t like the brushed look.

 
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Peihan

Thank you, kerry! I was wondering why it was assumed that a wedding band would have lots of diamonds in it too =P We haven’t gotten our bands in them, but they will have a custom engraved design, with no stones.

 
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stacey

I have a half eternity and second facets (recommended by sarah above). Both our bands are from there (we actually went to the office on 47th) and Issac is great and their prices were fabulous!

 
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peanut (message)  46 posts, Newbee

Miss CB, I was also lusting after an eternity band as my wedding band as well. But in the end I couldn’t do it. 1) everyone and their mother told me that it was impractical for everyday wear 2) they ARE impossible to resize pretty much and I would be devastated if I couldn’t wear it anymore 3) there is zero room for engraving and we really wanted to have something written inside.

But I haven’t given up hope…I’ll own one of those puppies someday. Can anyone say Anniversary/Birthday/Christmas gift?! :D

I ended up getting a beautiful band from Niwaka - I believe it’s a half channel set band but it’s diagonal across. I will be able to pick it up next week! :D

 
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sooz (message)  10 posts, Newbee

I have an eternity wedding band to match my engagement ring which also has an eternity band and two side diamonds against the center diamond (I couldn’t decide on whether I wanted an eternity band or sidestones, so I got a ring with both!). Both are designed by Tacori.

I really wanted a set so that the wedding band matched my engagement ring. I love both so much! I did read about how impractical it is to have a full eternity band, but I say go with what makes you the happiest — You only get one wedding band!

 
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Mrs. Poppy (message)  71 posts, Worker bee

hi cb!! i have a channel set with 11 diamonds and i like it since it rest smoothly with my e-ring (princess cut). i also have an full eternity band for my right hand but honestly i never ever wear it cuz the inside hurts my fingers and since i’m a pianist i can’t wear much jewelry anyway. i think you should get whatever you like, half or full, channel or not it will be beautiful cuz you will are. the diamond just accentuates your prettiness :)

 
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Courtney

Mine is channel-set and half-eternity. I have turned it around to the underside of my hand to see what it would look like if it were full-eternity, and I think it would be wasteful. Not only would it get dirty more easily, since you use the underside of your hands more than the top, but nobody ever sees the underside of your hand, anyways. You don’t sit around with your palms facing upwards…at least, I don’t! :)

I highly recommend the channel-set half-eternity wedding band. Everything stays put, it’s just as gorgeous (again, nobody can see the underside of your hand), and hey, it’s much cheaper! Mr. CB will appreciate that! :)

 
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Melissa

You have to be careful getting a full eternity band. My friend got one and then her fingers swelled so she can’t wear it anymore and it can’t be sized. She had to buy a new wedding band that was channel set half eternity.

 
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Mrs. Cherry Blossom, San Francisco Age and Occupation: 27, Administrative Asst. Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, District Sales Manager Engagement Date: December 23, 2006 Wedding Date: May 3, 2008 Venue: Zen Garden in the East Bay w/ reception in a floor-to-ceiling window Atrium with views of the Zen Garden About Me: After 5 years of dating, we're finally ready to get hitched! I am a lovah of all things wedding, creative, crafty, and definitely DIY bc I love to add a personal touch to everything I gift or make. In my free time, I like to bake, spend time with our family, friends, and my doggies, read my guilty pleasure celebrity gossip and catch up on TV shows.

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