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Mrs. Penguin, Northern California Age and Occupation: 27, Weddingbee Editor in Chief Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Doctor of Physical Therapy Engagement Date: January 29, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: September 14, 2007 Venue: Winery in the Gold Country About Me: I love the Spice Girls, dogs with underbites, bean burritos, making messes, high fives, avoiding showers, crossword puzzles, blogs, weddings, and blogs about weddings!
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TMI

February 4th, 2008 @ 10:29 am by Mrs. Penguin

My girlfriends and I are pretty much price whores.  When we meet up, the first thing out of our mouths is a collective chorus of “omgthatssocutehowmuchdiditcost?”  We unashamedly triumph in the bargains we get, and on the flip side, love to brag about our mucho expensive-o True Religion Jeans that make our booties ’licious.  It’s the way the universe works in Pengyland.

I know precisely how much everything costs that Mr. Penguin has ever given me. Mostly because they are usually video game consoles, DVDs, CDs, books, spa gift certificates, weekend getaways, and the likes. I’m not a jewelry girl, and Mr. Penguin doesn’t ever venture into the world of women’s fashion, so pretty much everything he buys me can be found on Amazon.com.

BUT, there is one thing that Mr. Penguin has bought me that I’ve never asked the price of: My engagement ring. I love my engagement ring, and since it was a surprise, I’ve never gone diamond shopping with him nor have any idea how much the going rate is for platinum. And since diamond prices vary widely because of the 5 C’s, my diamond could be worth anything from $0 to $20K. Okay maybe not $0. Or $20K for that matter. But somewhere in between, for sure.

I’m dying to both know, and at the same time, not know. I’m pretty sure I’ll never ask, just because it’s really fun to have one gift from Mr. Penguin that has, essentially, no monetary value to me. My girlfriends have all asked how much my ring cost, and I proudly say that I don’t know. Because divulging the price of the ring, quite frankly, would be so awkward, even though I’m usually the type of girl who wears a price tag on my sleeve. Ignorance is bliss, and rather than keeping the price tag a secret from people, I can truly say, that I simply just don’t know.

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Do you know how much your Engagment Ring costs?  Do you share the price tag with others?

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Miss Canary (message)  682 posts, Busy bee

HAHA Pengy… I do the same thing. I think I got it from my Asian mother…

Buuuut, same for me, I NEVER asked about the ring. A few people have asked, but I have no idea. I, like you, don’t plan on asking.

P.S. Your bling is hot. Love it!

 
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Mrs. Emerald (message)  1,062 posts, Bumble bee

Hahaha… Mr.E was so proud of his bargain hunting skills (for my e-ring) that he couldn’t wait to share the “deal” with me! Not to mention I have all the paperwork as well, and took care of the insurance stuff =)

 
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jw (message)  167 posts, Blushing bee

i have no idea either and he doesnt plan to tell me.

 
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anna (message)  57 posts, Worker bee

i have no idea how much it was, nor do i have any desire to know. i’m all for bragging about great bargains, but i think it’s really tacky to ask how much an engagement ring cost.

 
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Chloe

I designed my ering myself and know exactly how much it cost as I’m the one who contacted the insurance company to put together a separate rider for it.
I would never tell anyone else how much it cost, except for my sister and best friend (if they asked).

However I get asked how many carats it is a lot. from strangers. awkward.

 
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Mrs. Snow Pea (message)  469 posts, Helper bee

What a beautiful ring Pengy! Why didn’t you take a picture of your whole hand? What? You didn’t get your nails done? No wonda you have no boyfend!

 
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Yach

I know how much my e-ring cost only because I had to insure it….the insurance company said that the ring should go under my homeowner’s insurance (we both own separate places) because once engaged, it is under my possession. I don’t tell people what he paid for it though. I know too many people who would secretly be like, “I can’t believe he spent *that* much on a ring” or “that’s all he spent?!”.

 
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Mrs. Magnolia (message)  253 posts, Helper bee

That is a gorgeous ring!

Personally, I have no idea how much my ring cost, and I’m not interested in finding out. But I do know how much it’s insured for - and I do know that’s significantly more than he paid for it. So there’s that….

 
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Natakie16 (message)  859 posts, Busy bee

Your ring is beautiful, I love the knife edge cut (if that’s what it is called) of the band!

I know how much my ring cost because we bought it together. His parents know because he told them (he was so happy that I wanted a sapphire when a diamond the same size cost $9000 hehe). My mom, dad and sister know because either they asked or he told them, yes, he has no qualms about telling people how much things cost :) But I don’t want to broadcast it anymore!

 
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Honeydew

I too haven’t asked how much my Fiance had spent. I generally think I know by plugging in all the 4 C’s into Blue nile.com. Also, my fiance did give me the sheet for the appraisal of the ring. Even if I knew how much, I would’t share it with anyone.

 
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Mrs. Apple (message)  36 posts, Newbee

what a pretty ring. It sparkles so much. -) i know everything about my ring, kind of unromantic but i am one nosy wife.

love your funny posts btw.

 
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alison aka pinky

your ring make you look like modoh, cheeleaduh, someting prettay

 
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Miss Toucan (message)  1,327 posts, Bumble bee

I don’t know exactly how much he paid either - only how much it’s insured for because I took care of that. I do have an idea of a ballpark figure because he assured me that he paid a lot less than it’s insured for.

Beautiful bling, btw! :)

 
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amysue (message)  1,492 posts, Bumble bee

no idea. i can’t believe people ask you! that’s so rude.

 
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kleverkira (message)  331 posts, Helper bee

FI only bought the setting for the ring because the diamond was my great-grandmother’s and was a gift to us from my mom. So, the diamond is priceless, but I do know how much the setting was. I don’t tell anyone, and no one asks. However, everything else is fair game.

 
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MissBlueBear (message)  405 posts, Helper bee

I do indeed know how much it was cuz I was standing right there…but no I choose not to give out that information because quite frankly it’s nobody’s business! =) But I am quite the bargainer so it was a good deal! =)

 
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erika426 (message)  170 posts, Blushing bee

Yeah I know because he gave me all the paperwork.. I also knew what his budget was when he was looking

 
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Houston H

I know how much my ring costs because he told me about the great deal he got. I haven’t had anyone ask how much it costs, but I would never tell though.

 
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AMK

I know because I helped pick it…my parents know what it cost, but I’d be very uncomfortable discussing it with anyone else.

 
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suzanno (message)  2,683 posts, Sugar bee

I know about how much it cost because we shopped for it together - piece by piece. So I should say that I know how much the center stone cost. We wanted a yellow diamond, so we looked at about a dozen stones before we found one we liked and also could afford. Then he and the jeweler decided on the size of the side stones, and I remember some talk about the weight of the setting we were having made and the current price of gold.

I do know the appraised value (which he assures me is more than he paid) because I had to send the appraisal to my insurance company.

I can’t believe anyone would rude enough to ask, but I certainly wouldn’t tell them. I have also been asked the ct weight of the center stone, but only by a couple of people. More often I get asked what kind of stone it is, as people are not used to seeing a yellow diamond.

 
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Mrs. Penguin, Northern California Age and Occupation: 27, Weddingbee Editor in Chief Fiance's Age and Occupation: 30, Doctor of Physical Therapy Engagement Date: January 29, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: September 14, 2007 Venue: Winery in the Gold Country About Me: I love the Spice Girls, dogs with underbites, bean burritos, making messes, high fives, avoiding showers, crossword puzzles, blogs, weddings, and blogs about weddings!

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