Hey you guys guess what? I’m getting married!
You knew that, right? We’ll this past week, the reality of it all sunk in for me… I’m really getting married!
Picking a venue, designing invitations, floral decisions, cake tastings, even buying a dress. These were all very important components of the “wedding process,” but for some reason I took it in stride. All these tasks were really just fun and fluffy things for me to do.
Yesterday marked the day that I OFFICIALLY realized that I was getting married. I know that may sound silly, but something in my mind clicked, and it became clear that if I didn’t start steamrolling into “serious planning” mode, then this wedding would just be a mess of good ideas and no execution. I panicked, and checked 10 things off my list yesterday from booking the buses for our guests to ordering the final elements of our invitation sets. This week we also set the date for my shower and bachelorette parties. Girls are already booking flights to Vegas. This is pure MADNESS! And, just to top it off, we received our first wedding gift off of our registry, and it’s only February!
Only four short months to go now!
Have you reached your “This is REALLY happening!” moment yet? How close to your wedding date did reality sink in for you?
That moment hit me somewhere between the vineyard where my FI proposed and the place we were getting our couples massages done. I literally started hyperventalating. You would think that a nice massage would be the ticket to fixing my breathing problem…but It really wasnt. I couldnt relax the whole time…and my heart was beating 50000 miles per minuet. Eventually it got better, but I really wish I could get a massage do over. I dont even rememeber it. I jusr remember thinking “IM GETTING MARRIED! IM GETTING MARRIED!”