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Ms. Dahlia, Detroit/Cleveland Age and Occupation: 24, PhD Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, IT System Administrator Engagement Date: December 31, 2006 Wedding Date: May 2008 Blogging Since: September 19, 2007 Venue: United Methodist Cathedral & historic downtown hotel in Cleveland About Me: I enjoy cooking, dancing and swimming. I am a geek and apply game theory to my everyday life. Winter is my favorite time of year, especially when spent curled up with good coffee and a book by Madeleine L'Engle.
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I Changed My Mind

February 26th, 2008 @ 8:27 am by Ms. Dahlia

You may recall my earlier post about our wedding rings. Well, I need to come clean, because those aren’t actually our bands. Yes, we did order them. But I kept thinking that the 4mm milgrain was too wide, and that the 2mm was too narrow. 3mm would have been perfect, but they just didn’t make it that width.

So we (I) decided (why did I do this?) to check out the rings at the ever popular Tiffany & Co. (You might say that this was actually a result of the browsing I did after reading the comments of the earlier post. With so many people getting their rings there, I just had to check it out online. Readers, I think you may be a bad influence on me.)

And what was there, but this lovely ring?

Milgrain wedding band, 3mm

It was perfect. Narrow, but not too narrow. Delicate, but not too delicate. A little bit cheaper than the other ring (since it does, after all, have less metal in it.) And the milgrain is incredibly detailed.

And of course, Mr. Dahlia decided that he wanted to switch rings as well, so that ours would still match. (This actually meant that his ring was more expensive, but oh well. You only do this once, right?)

Because of the timing (our other rings had not yet come in), we were able to obtain a full refund for canceling the order of our first set of rings. This is one of only a couple of times during the wedding planning where I’ve changed my mind about something after I’ve made a purchase. Luckily, in each case, we’ve been able to make a return for a full refund.

What have you changed your mind about during the wedding planning process? If it was something you purchased, were you able to get a refund?

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6 Responses to “I Changed My Mind”

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AMK

I wanted a milgrain band SO much. I was completely set on it. Then I tried a couple on and they just weren’t right with my engagement ring! I ended up with a simple knife-edge band.

 
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sassygirl (message)  110 posts, Blushing bee

I made a deposit on a reception venue and ended up losing it when we decided to change our minds 10 months before.

 
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legallyengaged (message)  106 posts, Blushing bee

I purchased that exact ring as well and LOVE it :)
Good choice!

 
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LisaB

I planned on having a wedding dress custom made and had the seamstress picked out and contacted before we even told our parents about the engagement. There was alot of disappointment as my mom, my FMIL and some other close relatives all wanted to have a big day of dress shopping. Then my mom and I went to a dress shop during their annual sale to look for BM and MOTB dresses. She asked me to try on a couple of the sale dresses “just for fun”. We ended up finding a wedding dress on the sales rack that was exactly what I was looking for, my size and only $99. I couldn’t pass it up but now it’s a big secret that I bought the dress. If everyone found out the dress was bought and they didn’t get to go, there would be big problems.

 
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Alissa

Thats the band I’m getting too!

 
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Guilty Secret

I love your choice. Beautiful :)

I was going to go with something really plain but I am starting to change my mind looking at that!

 


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