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Mrs. Lovebug, Tucson Age and Occupation in 06: 31, Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Professional Game Show Contestant Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: April 19, 2008 Venue: Historic Inn About Me: Likes: blogging, wikis, semi-colons, cuddling, fragrant flowers, syntax, and spooning. Dislikes: typos, dangling modifiers, flypaper, citronella candles, and run-ons. If I had my druthers, I'd exchange simple vows in a candlelit library. But I lost my druthers long ago...anyone seen them?
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The Mockingbugs

April 15th, 2008 @ 6:46 pm by Mrs. Lovebug

A couple days back, the catering manager of our venue set up a table for us to mock around a little bit. This is what it looked like before I got my paws on it:

The Mockingbugs :  wedding decor tabletop Before


…and this is what I did to it:

The Mockingbugs :  wedding decor tabletop After

What frustrates me is, it doesn’t even look that different! I added a centerpiece set up, a table number photo, charity tokens, placecards, and a mini menu. But even with all of that and the colored napkins, it still looks blah to me:

The Mockingbugs :  wedding decor tabletop Center01

The Mockingbugs :  wedding decor tabletop Card01

I folded the napkin like this to hold my fake “Sweet Charity” card (the real ones haven’t arrived yet). I suppose with those, a full set of the mini menus (I only brought one), the flowers and candlelight, and the matching pink and silver chair sashes (not included in the mockup trial), it’ll look better…?

I just feel like all my little touches aren’t packing much of a punch. :( Also, I think the table card numbers need to be raised. I’d love to use the same sort of sign holders we got for the candy buffet. But I am plum out of time and money.

Am I just being a shortsighted whiner? Or do I need to add some oomph to this table? And if so, how??

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Mary

Try adding a colored table runner. It needs some more color.

 
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Angel
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Angel (message)  1,263 posts, Bumble bee

Your theme was never in-your-face dramatic, and I think it looks lovely (I can actually envision your dress when I look at the table). I bet you’ll see the difference you want when the lighting is in effect though. The table numbers are a bit tough to see….at least in the pictures, but it’s not a huge deal. Remember, the last week is when you pick your battles. :)

 
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oddz (message)  21 posts, Newbee

I agree with the need for more color. If not a runner how about a square color napkin/paper of some sort underneath your centerpiece?

 
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Lucy

You’re being a shortsighted whiner. Your color palette is very muted. So, while lovely, it’s going to rely on lighting (dim lights & candlelight) to get a soft, romantic glow. But it will, so relax and fear not. It’s going to be gorgeous!

 
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Miss Tiramisu
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Miss Tiramisu (message)  1,098 posts, Bumble bee

I think it looks beautiful! Don’t make yourself crazy… and remember there will be a whole bunch more tables that all look the same… adding to the punch. Candlelight… flowers… if anything maybe raise the numbers up on something and call it a (your) day.

 
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Jenny

It looks great! The silver sashes will complete the soft look, and with the candles lit, it will look soft and inviting! Anything else and it would be overdone.

 
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brendalynn (message)  154 posts, Blushing bee

I 2nd Angel’s comment…

I think the mock table does look much better, and with the flowers (which all add some height as well as color), and the candles–the tables should look great. Besides, you’ve taken such care in the details and once guests start to notice the quirky, personalized pieces, they’ll be looking for them all over… (and they’ll keep finding spectacular little surprises)

If you’re reallllllly yearning for improvement, probably the only thing that comes to my mind is what about putting the tray on something raised? Perhaps the location/caterer would have some appropriate cake stands?

After so many “omg, I love your wedding!” comments from the hive, don’t start doubting yourself now! ;)

 
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lolacola

I like the softness of the table - i think a runner or something under the centerpiece would distract from the centerpiece it self. i also think alot more color will be added with the chair sashes.

if you have the time to make more books, you could put the number of books on the table as the table number. this could also varry the height of the centerpieces. Or, make the top book a “volume table number” or “table number-th edition” so people can see that looking straight at the table when walking around.

 
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Maude

Fret not - I think it’s gorgeous! You’ve really created a consistent, original theme. And no, you’re not a whiner, you’re getting married very soon and are second-guessing your choices, which comes with the territory. I think you’re going to have an amazingly beautiful reception, based on the posts I’ve read.

 
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Stephanie

Looks really pretty and soft. I agree with Mrs. Triamisu, just get something to elevate the table numbers and your done. The flowers and candles will be enough.

 
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Amy (message)  259 posts, Helper bee

the only change i would make is elevate the table numbers (which are uber cute!!!).

 
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Mrs. Eggplant
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Mrs. Eggplant (message)  304 posts, Helper bee

It looks lovely, LB! You could even add some pale pink flower petals (real or fake) all around the center tray for even more of a stunning effect. :-)

I can’t wait to see all your details come together!

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

I think it is GORG too and I love that your guest will be able to see and therefore be able to speak to one another.

 
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Mrs. Eggplant (message)  304 posts, Helper bee

one more suggestion that you might like: candles definitely add a lot to the table. at the suggestion of our event manager at the hotel, we added three small candles to each table (less than $1 per table cost) and they packed a big punch. :-)

 
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Miss Cupcake
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Miss Cupcake (message)  1,456 posts, Bumble bee

It’s LOVERLY! Your flowers will add a perfect “punch” and with the candlelight and silver sashes, it will all come together. I agree that adding a runner or something else under the centerpiece might just be too much, and it’s not at all necessary.

If you’re just not completely satisfied yet, though (which I understand, as an over-obsessive perfectionist myself), I think Mrs. Eggplant’s suggestion of adding some more candles will add to the ambiance, and raising up either the centerpiece (cake platter) or table number will further refine things. But honestly, you don’t need it :-)

 
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JenniferB

I agree with Lucy. You are being a shortsighted whiner. And I agree with Angel, I CAN envision your dress. The rooms at the Inn also add their own element, so leave it bee!

 
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Natalie

I think it looks good and agree with the others. Your colors are soft, but the chair sashes will definitely help. If you want more punch, I would say change the tablecloth or underlay to grey (isn’t that one of your colors) and add candles.

 
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cookiechristina (message)  87 posts, Worker bee

I like the flower petals around the books idea - remember that there will be food there most of the time to look at as well!

 
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Ginny

I too think the table numbers should be elevated. I personally like a really dramatic tablescape, so I would add some color. However, if you are looking for a more subtle theme, then I think it looks great. Flowers and candles do make an impact and I think your guests will notice all the details you worked so hard on.

If you do want that extra pop, then I agree with Natalie, I would use a grey tablecloth or overlay.

 
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mina

you’re colors are too washed out. do you have any other colors to work with?

 
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Mrs. Lovebug, Tucson Age and Occupation in 06: 31, Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Professional Game Show Contestant Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: April 19, 2008 Venue: Historic Inn About Me: Likes: blogging, wikis, semi-colons, cuddling, fragrant flowers, syntax, and spooning. Dislikes: typos, dangling modifiers, flypaper, citronella candles, and run-ons. If I had my druthers, I'd exchange simple vows in a candlelit library. But I lost my druthers long ago...anyone seen them?

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