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Menus?!

May 13th, 2008 @ 4:50 pm by Mrs. Cream Puff

I was about to craft an entire post about organization when I realized I had more important things to ask you guys about.

As a recap of the past few days: I. have. been. stressed.
Things I have had to deal with:
1) drama with the people who are supposed to be printing my letterpress invitations. Let’s just say there were a lot of raised voices, they almost weren’t going to be printed, and none of it was my fault.
2) a very, very cheap groomsman.
3) a makeup artist/hair person who is missing in action
4) decisions about ceremony music
5) photobooth people who refuse to answer their phone and don’t call me back

Yesterday I decided to work on the menus for our bar. We’re having a few signature cocktails, so I wanted to create a menu so people know what their options are. I was discussing all of this with my friend Amanda when she brought up the fact that we have no menus for our food.

Personally, I have never been to a wedding that had a menu. I really thought this was something I could let go. However, everyone seems to be making menus these days, and now I’m thinking that I should do this too. I also have to figure out how to incorporate my photo reminder cards (which I haven’t printed yet, thank god).

Are you having menus? If so, why? If not, why not?

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Cricket (message)  179 posts, Blushing bee

No menus for us. I figure that it’s just creating extra garbage (I’m not sure that’s something even I would save!) and I think I’d rather spend that money and time on other aspects of the wedding.

Plus, there’s not any decision-making for my guests–Their meal will be already decided.

Nonetheless, it can be a fancy touch to any placesetting if that’s what you end up doing.

 
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jmochi

I feel the same way– have never been to a wedding with menus, but gosh darn it all these lovely bees have such beautiful menus at their tables, and so creatively presented…

But here’s what kept me grounded… I brought it up with the groom, started describing how perhaps we could print one per table on the other side of the table number, etc… “Making them would add more stress right?” Well, yes. “And additional time and money?” Probably. “Do people need to know the fancy description of steak and veggies?” Well, no. “Forget it, your stress level correlates directly with mine; my goal in life is to minimize your stress. No menus.”

Done. =)

 
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Chrissie

We didn’t have menus either. We didn’t have a meal - just heavy apps. While I suppose we could have made menu or little signs for each food station, it just seemed like an unnecessary touch.

 
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Miss Jasmine (message)  1,170 posts, Bumble bee

I like menus because they’re an elegant touch and I also think they can alert guests to any ingredients that they may potentially be allergic to. Also, I just like to know what I’m eating :) But I definitely don’t hink they’re a must at all.

 
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Darlene

Yes, I am having menus. We pretty much have to because our venue does table side ordering so no choices listed on the RSVP card.

 
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SKM

No menus just b/c I do not see the point — too much stress for that something extra that I don’t think is all that impactful.

As for the photo cards — can you print the info into your program?? This is what we’re doing…I think a lot of people hold onto the program after the wedding as a momento anyway and if you give people the idea that they’re going to be uploading their photos for you to view as early as the ceremony, I think people will be all gung-ho to get tons of awesome shots for you/of you all through the day…

 
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ErinMarieMack (message)  728 posts, Busy bee

We are trying to have as “green” of a wedding as possible. No menus for us! I also have never been to a wedding with menus, and would not have thought of one had I not become a WB stalker. However, I do think they look beautiful in many of the bees’ posts.

 
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Miss Pineapple (message)  682 posts, Busy bee

I have also been tempted to join the ranks and create menus. But alas, no menus for us either, I wrote out the food description on the RSVP next to a check box (rather than writing just “chicken” or “fish”).

Like jmochi said, it’s more time, stress, money and paper

 
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misschickie (message)  169 posts, Blushing bee

we’ve seen them at most weddings we’ve been to lately–but we never know what to do with them and so just end up hiding them under the plate!! I don’t see the point–it’s not as though we are choosing what to eat at this point in the reception anyways and they seem to make an already crowded table even more cramped for space.

 
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mlindsey (message)  348 posts, Helper bee

I planned to do menus to add something extra to the table and also because our meal was buffet style, so I thought it would be nice for people to see what they were eating. But, in the end, I ran out of time and didn’t want to spend another dime on another project. I was upset that I didn’t get around to it at first (I can’t believe I cared that much) but in the end I didn’t even notice.

 
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Rebecca

I did menus since we had two buffet stations with different selections. Didn’t want guests to go through one line only to discover what they liked was on the other side. Several people made a b-line for the sausage platter, others avoided it! The caterer named one station Rebecca’s Station (I had mediteranian food) and the other Groom’s Name Station, (he had sausages and roasted veggies). People thought that was cute.

 
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julieulie (message)  266 posts, Helper bee

Ha ha. I just like your list as a “very, very cheap groomsman” — we have one of those too. It is SO infuriating. Our groomsman and his wife make over $100K/year, whereas most of my friends are in grad school making $0/year. My friends are flying in from across the country, staying for the weekend, and have not complained once. Said $100K+ groomsman has done nothing but bitch and moan about the cost of everything (which is MUCH less for him than it was when my fiance was a groomsman in his wedding).
My favorite part — immediately after complaining about the cost of a hotel room (which he is splitting with another couple) he says “Oh! I for we were jealous of your trip to Greece for your honeymoon, so we just decided to go right after your wedding! We’ll be there the same time so we can hang out!” Now I’m REALLY annoyed with him!!

 
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jaime

No menus for us. But what I REALLY want to hear about are the other 1-5 items you had to deal with!

 
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shellbod8

I dont think its a necessity at all. Who reads those anyway? People are going to be ga-ga over the bride and groom, they are not going to be reading a description of chicken and wedding cake with coffee and tea. Unless you are serving up some strange foods that need describing, leave it out.

 
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Liz

I have to say I love menus. It’s a nice keepsake..( but I also keep all the wedding invites I’ve ever gotten ). I am making some cute menus for our wedding- but I don’t think you have to if you are not into the menu thing.

 
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jen

I did menus b/c I *had* to. The reception was at a restaurant and guests and 3 entrees to choose from. If not, I def would not have done them. I always see little things like that and ask “what’s a better way to spend my money?” Good luck!

 
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Miss Cream Puff (message)  227 posts, Helper bee

Thanks, you guys. :)

@shellbod: do you think these are weird:

FIRST COURSE

Green Pea Wonton Soup
three wontons, accompanied with an
asparagus and parmesan salad
dotted with a spinach and honey balsamic
topped with a brunoise of fennel and caviar jell
presented with a light snow pea broth
served tableside to your guests

MAIN ENTRÉE
(based on pre-reserved entrée selections)

Lavender Seared Halibut
lifted by a crisp, butter seared potato cake
accented with a grape and truffle
mint tapenade, olive powder and topped with mache
accompanied by chinese long beans

Lime and Cashew Crusted Chicken
served atop a large mushroom and truffle ravioli
drizzled with a lime, cashew cream sauce,
topped with a mache salad
a bacon soy reduction accents the plate

Mushroom Raviolis
drizzled with a lime and cashew cream
sauce, accompanied by chinese
long beans and topped with a
mache salad

 
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Joy

Hmmm, your menu is fancy so maybe 2 menu’s per table? One on each side?

 
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Anne

We’re not doing menus. I don’t think they’re necessary, and it really is just a waste of paper if they aren’t picking something to eat. Save some money, save some time, save the earth.

As a pp said, we’re also putting the “upload your photo” information in the back of the program. I think this is the best way to get the info out as most people will read the program while they’re waiting for the ceremony to begin.

 
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Rebecca

@Joy: @Joy: I agree w Joy, you probably only need one or two menus per table. And while your guests would benefit from some explanation of your exotic menu, I would heavily edit what you have posted there. i.e.:

Mushroom ravioli with lime and cashew cream
Chinese long beans
Mache Salad

 
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Mrs. Cream Puff, San Francisco Bay Area Age and Occupation: 25, Illustrator Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Merchandise Planner Engagement Date: May 27, 2007 Wedding Date: August, 2008 Blogging Since: February 7, 2008 Venue: Ceremony at Crissy Field and Reception at the Green Room About Me: I never dreamed about my wedding as a little girl because I was too busy playing in the mud or pretending to be Martha Stewart–but now that it's here, I'm having a fabulous time DIYing everything in sight! We’re planning a very fun multicultural wedding (I'm Jewish and Mr. Cream Puff is Chinese), filled with as many personal details as I can muster.

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