Immediately after our ceremony and bubble exit, we took group photos. Punam Bean has a documentary style, and we weren’t interested in a ton of traditional shots anyway. But you’ve got to have a few, just to be sure you get everyone together in one photo.
I loved Punam’s style for the wedding party shots. She basically lined us up and said, “Talk amongst yourselves.” I think the results are much more fun than photos with everyone smiling stiffly at the camera, yet more genuine than elaborate poses that aim to show “fun.” It was also quick — about 20 minutes for the wedding party plus 3 families.
This style might not be for everyone — e.g., someone who’d be bothered by the best man scratching his eyebrow in a shot. But we enjoy them for their energy.
The family shots are funny because Mr T and I couldn’t stop smooching. We were so excited to be married!

(With my mother … and showing off the basketball injury by Mr T’s right eye)

(With my father, stepmother, and grandparents)
Luckily, we do have at least one with each family where we ARE looking (mostly) at the camera….
However, we forgot to take any photos with all families together. My mother informed me later that it’s standard, but it just never occurred to us. Guess we’re not used to “combined” thinking yet…. (Oh well, that’s why they invented photo collages!)
How do you plan to approach the group shots?
We are doing a group shot INCLUDING everyone - guests and all!! We went to a friends wedding that did this, and while the photo didnt turn out great - it was a GREAT feeling to be included in a group picture. Then we’ll do our families and wedding party shots. We’ll get set up, goof off for some shots that really capture “us” and then straighten up and smile for some traditional ones.
While I am not a fan of the traditional shots, there is something to the fact that its a photo documentation of the generations and the linking of families… even if a bit cheesy or posed.