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I was planning on taking a few days before the wedding for prep and to welcome out of town family members as they arrived. Add that to the length of time needed to take our dream honeymoon in Europe and I’m outta’ vacation days! In order to make sure I have enough paid time off - in case I am paid a friendly visit from the flu bug this winter - we’ve decided to postpone our dream honeymoon until our first anniversary. Therefore, we’re currently planning a short trip after the wedding to unwind - a.k.a. our “Minimoon.”
Our first thought was to stay in California and enjoy our beautiful coastline. Then we were informed that my Pom-In-Laws would like to contribute to our Minimoon Fund, so we started dreaming of tropical variations on a beachy theme. Perhaps an all-inclusive in Mexico a la Mrs. Penguin? Lastly, my uber-awesome DJ emailed me to share the Sigur Ros tour dates (isn’t he an awesome DJ for thinking of me!?). It just so happens that Sigur Ros is playing a concert in Portland, Oregon on the Monday after our wedding - thus adding a third option to our list.
Option #1 - California Coastline
Image via Tickle Pink Inn.
The Proposed Accommodations: The Tickle Pink Inn in Carmel, California.
To Do: Walks on the beach, shopping in local boutiques, and eating at the fab restaurants nearby.
Pros: In-room whirlpool tub and fireplace; the view; great food nearby; great wine nearby; lowest cost.
Cons: Not a very exotic locale.
Option #2 - All-inclusive in Mexico
Image via Royal Hideaway.
The Proposed Accommodations: The Occidental Royal Hideaway Playacar in the Riviera Maya, Mexico.
To Do: Lounge on the beach, drink lots of free (well, seemingly-free) booze, eat loads of tasty food, enjoy the included land and water sports, and partake in some spa treatments.
Pros: Never having to see the price tag of all that you’re enjoying while you’re enjoying it; the exotic locale; in the T+L 500 World’s Best Hotels.
Cons: Super expensive - also, October is not the best time of the year to visit that part of Mexico.
Option #3 - Big City Fun in Portland
Image via Vezeo.
The Proposed Accommodations: The Hotel deLuxe in Portland, Oregon.
To Do: See Sigur Ros in concert, shop the city, eat myself around the city and then walk it off, visit the many art galleries and city gardens, and check out Powell’s City of Books.
Pros: Duh - the Sigur Ros show, no passport needed, tax-free shopping, on the 2008 Conde Nast Traveler Gold List.
Cons: While further away, Portland still isn’t exotic and October marks the beginning of the rainy season.
Which Minimoon Adventure would you choose?
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I’d honestly pick California. Getting snuggly in Carmel sounds mucho nicer than Portland to me. And I was probably going to lean towards Mexico b/c of it’s exotic nature, but then the super expensive and bad time of year turned me off. Are there any other considerations you’re making? 
october isnt a horrible time of year to go to Mexico. It’s the rainy season, but usually it will rain for short bursts and clear up quickly. have you looked into other resorts in the area? there are many that are cheaper than the Playacar resort- that way you can have a beach and an exotic location. The beaches in the Riviera Maya are to die for. if you can find an affordable location, I say, go there!
Definitely California Coast!
FH and I love the Central CA Coast and have toyed with this same minimoon (or even going to a couple places on the Coast and making it our Honeymoon)!
FH & I went to Carmel our first year together and have the BEST time! If you go, and I hope you do, you have to go to The Inn at Spanish Bay at sunset, they have a bagpiper that walks the course and plays at the back patio. You can get a glass of wine and a blanket and sit and listen to the bagpipes - SO NICE!
I vote for the CA coast…..and I say this not because I am biased (we’re driving up the CA coast for our honeymoon) but because it is beautiful and romantic….and you’re getting married at a winery so you could visit some of them along your way!
I vote for Carmel… because October is the best month to visit the peninsula. The fog is light, the weather is great and the tourists are mostly gone.
Tickle Pink is a great choice for staying in the highlands as well
I’d save Mexico for a full vacation… instead of the minimoon
I’m at the point in my planning that if one more person gives me an additional decision, I might have to check myself into into a hospital, so I can’t believe I’m about ready to do this to another person. But…if you’re already going to Portland, it’s a relatively short drive up…
Option #4 - Laid back Living in Seattle
If you include a side trip to the San Juans (easily accesible by ferry), you get your coastline cuddling as well!
Anyway, Option 1 would be my choice. And what an awesome DJ!
I guess I’m the oddball out, cuz I pick Portland! I recently travelled to Oregon for the first time, and I loved the scenery–it’s beautiful! Be prepared to be overwhelmed at Powell’s though, it’s huge!
Carmel would be beautiful in October! One possible con, however, is that it’s peak season at that time of year so it would be expensive… if more bang for your buck is important, keep in mind that there are many beautiful wineries near Portland as well. Dundee Hills have some great pinots and it’s a short half hour from the city. Plus, OR has the added benefit of no sales tax
I just came back from a great weekend in Portland, so my vote is there!
Going to Mexico would seem more like a full honeymoon to me, personally, not a mini-moon.
Ahhh, Carmel would most definitely be my first choice. I love the idea of being able to drive (leave when you want, head home when you want) and the scenery on the way down there from Sac is phenomenal. It definitely sounds the most romantic. And with help from the FILs you could really do it up!
We’re hitting up the Sigur Ros concert in the Oakland that weekend - so excited! Although I’m thinking you will actually be getting married that weekend so Monday in Portland it is. I actually think it would be awesome to go up to Portland and see them. Best concert I’ve been to yet and I cannot wait to see the next one! Plus the hotel you picked is awesome! Also - there are great wineries and if you wanted to take a few extra days you could head out the oregon coast (think maine like coastly beauty with huge sanddrifts and cape cod style beach houses)
Just wanted to say whats up to another sigur ros fan!
i love carmel! that’s where i got engaged. that inn looks so warm and inviting. would be a great choice for a minimoon.
Carmel is great, but it’s relatively close to where you live and for that reason it seems more long weekend-y to me than minimoon-y. Of the other two, I’d pick Mexico for the higher relaxation/lounging potential. Weddings are tiring!
As a former Oregonian, I have a total soft spot for Portland and completely LOVE Powell’s. October weather can be spotty, but isn’t the full-on rainy time. The city has a lot to offer in a laid-back kind of way and many excellent food options at all price points. If you end up going to P-town, I’d be happy to share some suggestions.
The other options sound great, though I’m not sure if Carmel has been impacted by the wildfires - may not be quite as scenic.
i’d vote carmel also as a california girl at heart. its gorgeous there and it’ll be so relaxing
i used to live by the california coast and recently (and reluctantly) moved to a city outside of portland so i may be just a teeny bit biased in my opinion, but i wouldn’t pick portland as my mini-moon spot. you’re right, the rainy season will have started in the northwest and not that being cuddled up with your man while it’s pouring outside isn’t romantic, if you’re wanting to see the city and get out a bit, portland weather is just so unpredictable. the california coast gets my vote! carmel is a beautiful location. not super exotic, but you’ll get exotic next year on your europe trip!
Portland. I’m partial towards Sigur Ros as well.
I agree with Mrs Lemon, save Mexico for a full honeymoon/ vacation. You both are going to have the rest of your lives to travel together- so why not go on the one that seems the most relaxing for the amount of time you have. But who am I to talk? I ate off all my fingernails planning mine… flip a coin
Sucker for Carmel, right here! And with all the money you save on flight and travel, you can blow on shopping downtown! Mr. Peng and I have always wanted to stay at the Tickle Pink, but need a VERY special occasion to do so…Minimoon is a perfect one!
I live in Portland (and work about 4 blocks from Powell’s) and think this place would be such a nice getaway for newlyweds! If you don’t care to show off a tan when you return home, then make your way to Oregon. The weather can be a unpredictable and chances are it would rain, but it’s still beautiful– the leaves are gorgeous colors and it smells amazing outside (like campfire and pumpkins)! If it does rain, you can depend on the handy Streetcar to get you to and from the places you mentioned. Email me if you’d like suggestions of great places to check out!
As you are looking into this - keep in mind- its you MINImoon. Don’t go for broke in Mexico this year when you have an amazing full blown honeymoon already planned. I will be in a similar situation with having a minimoon and then a delayed honeymoon. Save up the money. You are going to want to relax, unwind from wedding craziness, and snuggle up to you new spouse. The concert sounds great, and the in-room spa in Carmel sounds even better to me.
I would the coast of CA. My husband and I really want to drive the coast of CA soon. We also had a blast in Sonoma and can’t wait to go back.
I love my music (and Sigur Ros especially!) so I vote Portland. Plus it’s so pretty that time of year. With all the fun thrift shops, record stores, bookstores (Powell’s!), microbreweries, and nature stuff you’ll have plenty to do! I do live in Southern CA so maybe NorCal and MX are less exciting to me these days…
PORTLAND! That’s where I live It’s an awesome city! Hotel Deluxe is WONDERFUL! We spent our wedding night there. They didn’t even know we’d just gotten married but we got upgraded to the best room in the house…the Marlene Dietrich room (with the round bed
Portland! It’s such a unique way to go. Although I can see why the all-inclusive is so tempting…
Portland!! We just spent our wedding night at the Deluxe! It was fabulous… We had a corner room with walls of windows. October is really beautiful here!!
If you are looking for relaxation then Carmel. I have stayed at Tickle Pink Inn and loved it. It is a very quaint hotel. They have wine and cheese at sunset on their patio facing the ocean.
I’ve also stayed at the Tickle Pink and really enjoyed it also! Absolutely beautiful. We got a room with a view of the cove side, and it was great. And while we were in Carmel we had this company set up a wonderful romantic bonfire for us on the beach: http://www.romanticroomdesigns.com/i_room17.php
I went to the Royal Hideaway with my DH it was AMAZING….Oct is a tough time to go though. But anyone else looking at it …do it you won’t be dissapointed. EVERYTHING is included and the restaurants are truly 5 star (except for the sushi…kinda eww)
Oh, go to Carmel! It is the most charming little town I have ever been to, and so beautiful. There are so many wonderful things to do there, including a Chamagne and Chocolate Tasting bar! (Sort of like wine tasting, but champagne and chocolate, perfect for a honeymoon/minimoon!) It is very romantic, and my man and I celebrated out first year dating anniversary in Carmel. I adore the place, and I know you will too!
Portland! IMHO, Carmel is incredibly boring. And save Mexico for a time when it’s not rainy season (flying in their “high season” is much easier, too, because there are so many more direct flights). The Hotel DeLuxe looks amazing, by the way.
As a Portlander I guess I am biased, but here is my plug:
1. Hotel deLuxe - awesome just plain cool hotel, and make sure to check out the Driftwood Lounge.
2. Weather in October is not that bad. While up here, you can’t ever guarantee no rain, our summer stretches into September, and we often get very nice Fall-type weather in October.
3. If you have never been to Portland it is a fun, funky town, and at Hotel deLuxe you will be right in the mix of things. Make sure that in addition to Powell’s you check out Voodoo Donut, the shops on NW 23rd, and take a walk along the waterfront.
Portland!!
so many fun things to do there! great eats, indie vibe, you can get cozy with your honey!
October is prime hurricane season, so if you go get insurance in case you need to cancel. (i live in miami and our most active hurricane month is almost always October)
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