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Mrs. Tulip, DC Age and Occupation: 36, Retired Fiance's Age and Occupation: 33, Counsel/DOO for Small Gov't Contractor Engagement Date: August 8, 2007 Wedding Date: March, 2008 Venue: Still Looking! About Me: In all my dreams of the man I'd someday marry, I never pictured anyone as perfect for me as Mr. Tulip. So now we just have to make it through the craziness of the wedding and the moving in together! I love crafts, sewing, jewelry making, and photography, so am looking forward to this chance for DIY fun. When not wedding planning, I'm playing with our dog and 4 cats, Ebay shopping, or watching too much TV (often simultaneously!).
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Registry Love

July 15th, 2008 @ 1:20 pm by Mrs. Tulip

Even though we still have half a house to unpack, Mr. T and I have at least put most of our wedding gifts to use. It’s so much fun having all these new things!

There are certain items that everyone has heard of. You don’t need me to convince you of the glory of Le Creuset pans, for example. But here are some lesser-known sources and/or items that are worth a look:

Yamazaki Flatware from The Silver Superstore

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My grandparents made us a wonderful offer to purchase flatware as a wedding gift. After lots of research (much of it on Amazon.com, which has extremely useful product reviews), I narrowed the ideal down to two brands: Yamazaki and WMF.

Unfortunately, both brands average around $50 per place setting, and we could never ask our grandparents to pay that. But here’s where The Silver Superstore came in — they have many discontinued and otherwise discounted lines. Our beautifully simple, mirror-shiny Epoch pattern was only $120 for a 65-piece service for 12! Dad made the purchase, and, though he’s not nearly the Internet shopper his daughter is, he reported that the customer service was excellent and it was an easy transaction all around.

Eclissi Glass Dinnerware from Target

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We decided early on that we wouldn’t register for fine china. And most stoneware strikes me as a bit too…stoneware-y. So eventually we settled on glass dishes. We have a fancier version on our future wish-list (Aino Aalto for Iittala, designed in 1932 and utterly timeless), and these Eclissi dishes from Target filled in for everyday.

It’s hard to tell from the photos, but Target hit a home run with these dishes. They’re made in Italy from thick, tempered glass, and the shape is an unusual hybrid of a square with rounded edges. Basically, everything we serve on these dishes comes out looking like a magazine shoot. Which is particularly impressive, considering that most of what we serve involves cereal, pizza, and/or Chipotle burritos.

A Couple of “Green” Options, via our Alternative Gift Registry

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Before the wedding, I talked up The Alternative Gift Registry as a perfect place to register. You can link to any item on any Website, describe something at a local store, or even request intangible gifts like family photos or wedding-planning assistance. I believe there’s at least one other link-from-anywhere registry in operation (anyone used it, or at least know the name/info?), but I particularly trust The Alternative Gift Registry because it’s run by a nonprofit.

In the end, only a couple of guests used our Alternative Gift Registry, and they were among our most Internet-savvy friends. Even the people who bought gifts over the Internet seemed most comfortable with our traditional registries (Macy’s and Target). But I’d still use the Alternative Gift Registry again, in part because I believe in its parent organization and in part because we really love the stuff we got! Two of our favorites are a gorgeously sculptural rack for holding our newspaper recycling ($50 at the MOMA Store) and a red bamboo dishtowel ($6.50 at the Bibelot Shop). There were serious discussions at chez Tulip the other night because the beloved bamboo dishtowel was in the laundry and I had replaced it with something pretty but useless!

Are you registering at any unusual sources, or for unusual items? What unusual gift excites you the most?

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7 Responses to “Registry Love”

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Tara

I am in love with that newspaper rack! I’ve been looking for something savvy for my recycling, as right now I just hang a bag off the knob of my stove. :p
We’re planning on doing a honeymoon registry (I don’t care if some people think they’re tacky, if it knocks a couple hundred or a thousand off my honeymoon costs, I’m doing it!) and only registering for things we really need, which isn’t too much. We need a mixer, he wants a wok, and we could use nice dishes. But that’s about it.

 
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Miss Avocado (message)  1,411 posts, Bumble bee

Thanks for posting this Tulip. I am seriously struggling with my registry (doing it online should be easier, but it’s actually harder with so many choices!) That flatware store is exactly what I needed!

 
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hwong14

Myregistry.com is the one I’m using, and in response to Miss Milkshake’s post about privacy, others recommended wishpot. There was an etsy article that talked about a bunch of sites: http://www.etsy.com/storque/section/reviews/article/handmade-weddings-custom-registry-websites/1350/

 
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Erin

Thank you SO MUCH for posting about the silverware source!! We love to throw dinner parties and excitedly registered for china. We also wanted to register for silverware, but saw the price tag and said “daily forks will do.” … but I’m definitely going to look at the Silver Superstore!

I’m curious about the glass plates. I love the look of them, but I’m always concerned about how they would wear. Do they break/chip easily? (I’m klutzy). Do they seem to dull your knifes faster than stoneware?

 
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Mrs. Tulip (message)  615 posts, Busy bee

@hwong14: I’ve used Wishpot for fun (more as a record of cool stuff I’ve found than anything I actually expect people to purchase), but have never noticed whether its registry option allows people to mark items as “purchased.” That seems to be a drawback of several of the systems (e.g., Wists). I know MyRegistry and The Alternative Gift Registry DO have the option.

P.S. to Wishpot users — I’m “twowishes”, if anyone would like to be friends. I haven’t been using the social aspect of the site, and it’s a little sad to see the Welcome Lady as my only friend! ;)

@Erin: We haven’t had any problems with the glass plates so far. They seem to be tempered glass, which goes through some mysterious process to make it stronger. Our tempered-glass drinking glasses have even bounced repeatedly on the floor without breaking! Not sure about knives, since we mostly eat pizza and burritos … nothing you’d worry about cutting!

 
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missm (message)  811 posts, Busy bee

we’re using MyRegistry.com as well. no problems so far!

Just reminded me I haven’t registry-stalked in a while!

 
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candyland

I use MyRegistry.com and have had no problems with privacy. Honestly I never even realized that may be an issue, but thank god I didn’t run into any problems…

 


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