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Bolero Me Do?

July 25th, 2008 @ 1:45 pm by Mrs. Shortcake

If you look at any 1950s wedding pictures, you’ll notice immediately a difference between the bridal attire then and bridal attire now. That difference was the inclusion of sleeves. Any sleeves really - capped, short, 3/4 length, wrist length - as long as they provided the bride with that look of modesty.

Although sleeves and interesting neckline treatments are slowly re-entering the scene, for a very long time strapless wedding gowns have exclusively dominated the marital market.

Which is sad really, considering how beautiful a well-placed piece of lace can look. Witness Grace Kelly at her 1952 wedding to Prince Ranier of Monaco:

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…simply breathtaking.

When I first started wedding planning, there was a definite dearth of bridal cover-up options. Now that sleeves, cover-ups, and boleros are hitting the cyber streets of etsy, my thoughts have returned to finding something to jazz up my ensemble.

If you recall, this is my dress (but not my veil, I’m sarcastically boogie-ing in the puffy tulle attached to me in this picture).

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Which, with the addition of my “MEGA HUGE” petticoat and hoop skirt, will look like this in shape:

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(Reem Acra dress, source lost, but I will credit if you know where it’s from! Hey! That’s my hair too!)

Having a bolero to wear to the ceremony and during pictures would be absolutely incredible, and would remove the need to wear a cardigan if I got chilly during the evening reception.

The following pictures and links are examples of wedding boleros and cover-ups available on etsy right now. All of the sellers noted below do custom work as well, so if I decide to wear a bolero, they can create something to suit me and my gown.

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Sweet Little bridal Shrug by Rohm: $149

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Custom Bridal Jacket from Rohm $159.00

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Lace bolero available in any material, colour from Jocemclane: $75

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Organza and lace bolero available in any colour, from Jocemclane: $75.00

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Going to the Chapel Shrug by Sweet Charlotte: $45

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Ethereal baroque wrap by Bonzie (Reserved, but she does custom work); $55

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Stand-up collar Satin Bridal Jacket by Rohm :$129

The million-dollar question is, should I custom order a bolero?

It would transform my dress into something more vintage-y, it would keep me warm, and it would (hopefully) look smashing.

What do you think? Should I take the jump, and if I do leap, should I go for something in satin (to match my dress), in lace (for a real vintage look), or an unusual fabric (like the ones Bonzie makes) and what length of sleeve would look best?

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41 Responses to “Bolero Me Do?”

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Shawn

Love the Bonzie. My mother and grandmother made capelets for the BMs and a bolero for me (crocheted and knitted). It really changed the look of their modern dresses to something I was more comfortable with.

 
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Mrs. Jasmine (message)  1,170 posts, Bumble bee

Sigh…Grace Kelly was just the most perfect bride. I love her entire wedding ensemble so much.

I think you would look gorgeous with a bolero. The Bonzie one is completely exquisite, but not sure if it would be too much with your dress. Your dress has a lot of work so maybe something simpler would be better?

 
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Miss Pomegranate (message)  957 posts, Busy bee

I loooooove the Going to the Chapel Shrug and the Sweet Little bridal Shrug.

 
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Cole

I really love numbers 1 & 6 …sooo pretty!

 
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soontobemrsk24 (message)  40 posts, Newbee

Love the idea of the shrug. BUt off the subject…. where did you get your mega full petticoat? I am looking, but not sure where to purchase and also not sure what fullness I need. I want the same as you do in that pic of the runway model!

 
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Miss Margarita (message)  369 posts, Helper bee

oooh definitely do a bolero! i love the lace ones (esp #1) and the bonzie one. maybe for your dress you can get a bolero like #4 but with a little more bling on it to match your dress?

 
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Nstar

I also love the Bonzie! So unique!

 
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Miss Sweet Tea (message)  461 posts, Helper bee

I took love the Rohm jacket- I’ve had it bookmarked for weeks! I think you’d be beautiful in anything you choose!

 
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Gery

I agree with Miss Margarita # 4 with a some bling should do you. In the other hand how do I get Bonzie’s bolero??? It is to dye for…

 
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Miss Sweet Tea (message)  461 posts, Helper bee

doh- it’s supposed to say “I too love”

 
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bridecat (message)  355 posts, Helper bee

Yay…Love boleros! I personally think either a matching satin one or a totally different fabric would work best for you…I like cap sleeve!
My dress has it’s own bolero…so psyched to wear it!
http://www.essensedesigns.com/files/couture/C155.html
Good luck!

 
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Stephanie

I love the custom bridal jacket. The lace is so beautiful. And it’s very Grace Kelly.

 
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mlindsey (message)  348 posts, Helper bee

Definately go with the Bolero/shrug as opposed to the cardigan. I would definately do something sheer and lacy and not the satin because it would add a beautiful, delicate and vintag-ey feel. It was really frustrating for me to find a dress because as you said, most dresses are strapless nowadays, and my two watermelons in a strapless is NOT the look I was going for. I ended up having a vintage type dress made with sleeves and was a lot more comfortable.

 
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nkc

I love the one by Bonzi! I bought a bolero to wear at my reception and did not regret it one bit. I had a really simple white a-line strapless dress and it really finished off the look. Because my dress was so simple, I purchased a bolero in the same fabric and dressed it up with a vintage pin. Let me know if you want me to send you some photos!

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

I agree w/ Miss Margarita and Gery something w/ a litte bling to match your dress… but not too much bling.
As for sleeves I’d do cap of 3/4 :)

 
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CarolineG (message)  421 posts, Helper bee

Beautiful choices! I like the first one best.

I’m looking for something like this:
http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=10210473

But without the brown thingy and preferably not costing $135.

 
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NYAmber (message)  81 posts, Worker bee

I’ve been aching over Bonzi’s items. I had to order an extra yard of the fabric for my dress to make a privacy panel in my lace up backed dress. Obviously I don’t need a yard for that so I’ve been rolling it over whether to send my extra fabric out for a custom made coverup. I’d be interested to see what you decide. I just can’t see myself wearing it again… and I know I’ll take it off after pics and the ceremony because I’ll get too hot while dancing my booty off :)

 
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Mary

i have actually ordered the Sweet Little Bridal Shrug, however have yet to submit my measurements so it can be made as I am in a debate with my mother (the person kind enough to buy my dress for me) - she does not want me to wear anything in fear that it will take away from my dress (Madame by La Sposa) - however our Catholic priest has addressed his disdain for bare shoulders, although he regretfully tolerates it due to the current fashion movement…I’m caught in the middle and can’t decide which way to go…

 
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Mary

LOVE Bonzie’s wrap by the way! Very chic!

 
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groomzillaisme (message)  59 posts, Worker bee

i dunno if you want a guys opinion, but I like the Ethereal baroque wrap by Bonzie. I think it would look realy nice with the dress

 
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Mrs. Shortcake, Vancouver Age and Occupation: 24, Marketing Manager/Children's Lit Writer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 24, Master's Student/Personal Trainer Engagement Date: August 7, 2007 Wedding Date: October 2008 Blogging Since: Venue: Ceremony in a historic church, tented lawn reception at a golf and country club About Me: 1950's housewife sent to the future, reborn as crafting-obsessed, jill of all trades. I enjoy decorating, writing, baking sweet things, singing show tunes/dancing in public, wearing pearls, and knitting sweaters for my furbaby, Harvey, to chew upon. I heart pink, and believe that sparkles are the new black.

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