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Mrs. Espresso, Corona/Big Bear Age and Occupation: 23, Community Services Specialist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 22, Maintenance Technician Engagement Date: December 21, 2007 Wedding Date: October, 2008 Blogging Since: June 25, 2008 Venue: Outside a rustic b&b in Big Bear Lake About Me: I'm a lover of all things good: coffee, music, travel, rain, and of course- my handsome fiance! I'm a full believer in the "Life is Short," mantra - and therefore, eat lots of dark chocolate. I'm a Geographer by degree and nerd by choice. I cook to the sound of French and Portuguese music even though I speak neither. I love road trips, camping, hiking, and capturing life through the lens of my camera. Take me to Anthropologie and I may never leave. I'm a sucker for pretty packaging, bargain finds, and old movies. Mr. Espresso and I are high school sweethearts and I am so blessed to be this amazing man's future wife.
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No Nails McGee

July 25th, 2008 @ 4:33 pm by Mrs. Espresso

Every time someone asks to see my ring, I think the same thought- “Don’t look at my nails, Don’t look at my nails.” You see- I struggle from this disease called… subconscious nail biting. It’s a terrible disease that affects 1 out of every 100 brides and, it’s been known to hit both urban and rural populations. Please be on the lookout and keep your hands and nails inside the safety area at all times.

Ahem… ya, so maybe I went a little far with that, but I do have a very bad habit of biting my nails. I always have. I actually grew them out a couple of months after we got engaged. They were beautiful- I stared at my hands in awe, surprised at the wonderment of nail growth, but then, wouldn’t you know it- I got a snag. And well… let’s just say it all went downhill from there. Usually I bite them when sitting in front of the computer or when I’m concentrating on something. I do it subconsciously- which makes it even tougher to stop. But I’m making the decision to stop today- I want pretty hands and a healthier habit.

Here’s a look at what my nails look like today.

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And a version that looks slightly like an upside down octopus

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This is a habit I really want to kick before the wedding. It was bad enough my hands looked like munched up little kid hands for our engagement session. Now not only will I be held accountable to myself, but to you as well. So hive- any tips?

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Vee

I used to be that way, too!! My suggestion: get regular manicures! I started few years ago and aside from the occasional stress picking, I am proud to show my nails. :)

 
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SR

Sally Hansen’s Hard As Nails-it will strengthen your nails and at the same time will prohibit you from biting, since it tastes horrible!

 
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BeMine

There is this polish that you put on and when you put your fingers in your mouth, it taste bad. If you do it enough, you should be able to kick your habit all together. Sorry I dont know the name of the polish, but trying googling it or asking someone at a beauty store. I remember someone I went to middle school did this and it worked. However I’ve lost touch with her so I can’t help you with more info. Good luck.

 
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Amber

I was a huge nail biter, and I agree, regular manicures are the key!!

 
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BeMine

Oh maybe the one SR suggested is the one my friend used! Sounds just like it, and you can get that at most drug stores. :) perfect!

 
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andrea

Like everyone has said, GET REGULAR MANICURES. If you can’t afford them, or don’t have the time, STOP BITING, and clip and file the sides and tips of your nails on a regular basis. My sister in law told me this a long time ago and my nails eventually grew back and are actually very beautiful now.

 
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JT

Also, try putting acrylic (solar) nails on. They last a long time and you can’t bite them off. They also mask your underlying nails while they grow out.

 
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ChrissyM

I had the same problem for years and even that bad-tasting stuff BeMine mentions didn’t work for me. Ultimately I found that borderline-obsessive nail maintenance was the only way to quit — I didn’t have the $$ for frequent pro manicures, but I started obsessively filing and polishing my nails practically every other day to keep them nice and smooth, so I never ran into the temptation of a snag. Eventually it worked, and now I’ve gotten to the point where even if I do get a crack or a snag, I rarely bite them anymore.

 
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mlindsey (message)  348 posts, Helper bee

I also was a big time nail biter. When I am in front of the computer, I either chew on the end of a pen or chew on gum (it helps me stay awake and helps me concentrate). If you don’t want artificial nails or tips, then I too suggest regular manicures. Even though I stopped biting my nails a long time ago, I still had a habit of attacking the skin AROUND the nail area, but since I started getting manicures, even that has almost completely halted (because I can’t stand the thought of wasting my money by undoing the nail lady’s work). Also, as someone else suggested, keeping them trimmed or filed helps too. It prevents me from either biting/peeling snags or breaks.

 
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Kaleigh

It’s not for everyone- but I LOVE my acrylic nails. They take a little time to get used to (I spent the first day of having mine running them over everything I came in contact with to get used to the feel) but I was a MASSIVE nail biter- like sometimes they would bleed =\. Acrylics you can’t do damage to- and if you get them in “pink and white” you never worry about your polish coming off because they’re using 2 different colors of acrylic powder.

 
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Miss Espresso (message)  1,310 posts, Bumble bee

These are all great tips so far. I’m so inspired! Keep em coming!!!

 
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Brandi

If you have a nail salon chain called Dashing Diva near you, check them out. They have “Virtual Nails,” full coverage clear nails that are made to be worn for two weeks at a time. The glue used to adhere them doesn’t harm the nail bed (like acrylics sometimes can), and instead of fills you just get a new set every couple of weeks. I wore them for a few months before a big event to let my nails grow, and my own nails were pretty and strong by the time said event rolled around. Godsend they were.

 
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Jules

I have 2 girlfriends with similar nails. One did nothing and they looked the same on her wedding day. The other friend had regular manicures which eventually led to decent length nails. She was religious about it and it was worth it. I personally did acrylic nails over 10 years ago for 3 months and have to say it’s affected me since. Not terribly, but I notice my nails are not the same strength they used to be. Hope that helps.

 
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megs08

Love the name of this post… quite possibly my favorite Weddingbee title ever :)

 
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thenewmrsw

I’m not a compulsive nail biter… except for when I get a snag. I used just pick at the snag until it tore off along the top part of my nail, but this of course only left things ragged and uneven. The teeth would come out and the rest is history. Prior to getting married, I started carrying around emery (emory?) boards so that I could file the snags down and leave the teeth out of it. It’s a habit I still have today! I have a nail file everywhere! My desk at work, in my car, in my purse, by my bed. Saved my hands!

 
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maggiebride

I have the same tendency. I find it helps to keep them painted. That way, when you look at your hands and see color, you’ll be reminded that you’re growing your nails. Also, nails are harder to bite (thicker) when they are painted, so the next time you unconsciously put your fingers up to your mouth and nibble, the different texture (and yucky, bitter taste) will “wake” you up and remind you to stop. Also, if you want to practice tough love on yourself, you can apply nail polish remover to your fingertips. Most of them are extremely bitter, which may also help to deter you. Good luck! :)

 
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maggiebride

Also, worst case scenario (no time to grow them before wedding), I would recommend a silk wrap over acrylics. They are less harsh on your nails, and also thinner (making them look more natural). :)

 
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Nstar

I find it also helps to ALWAYS have a nail clipper handy. That way, when snags do happen, you can whip it out instead of biting away the snag.

I, too, had this horrible habit (and still sort of do, although it’s much better now), and they have left my nails permanently damaged. Many of them grow crookedly or “upwards” now :( . It sucks.

 
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katherynn

I used to bite my nails all the time too! I understand how embarassing it is for people to look at your hands when they’re all bitten and gross.

I just got so fed up with it that I quit. With the help of Sally Hansen’s Hard as Nails clear polish, i was able to do it!

I fell off the wagon - so to speak- about a year after I broke the habit and used the nasty tasting polish stuff that is being recommended. It was hard to use, because it made everything I touch taste like sulfer (think any kind of finger foods (french fries,hamburgers, etc. ) But it definately helped me keep my hands totally away from my mouth! The bad taste doesnt just go away after a few minutes, it definately sticks with you for a LONG time! But, because my hands were totally away from my mouth, I never subconsciously bit them!

Good luck!!

 
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hwong14 (message)  239 posts, Helper bee

I also suggest keeping them painted. Professionally is better (if I paint them myself, I subconsciously know it, so I’m willing to first pick off the nail polish and THEN bite), but I also find that if I keep them filed nice and smooth myself, it helps. Not only do I bite my nails, but I also bite the sides of my thumbs — like, the actual skin. Gross, gross, gross, I know. So at least you don’t that! ;)

 
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Mrs. Espresso, Corona/Big Bear Age and Occupation: 23, Community Services Specialist Fiance's Age and Occupation: 22, Maintenance Technician Engagement Date: December 21, 2007 Wedding Date: October, 2008 Blogging Since: June 25, 2008 Venue: Outside a rustic b&b in Big Bear Lake About Me: I'm a lover of all things good: coffee, music, travel, rain, and of course- my handsome fiance! I'm a full believer in the "Life is Short," mantra - and therefore, eat lots of dark chocolate. I'm a Geographer by degree and nerd by choice. I cook to the sound of French and Portuguese music even though I speak neither. I love road trips, camping, hiking, and capturing life through the lens of my camera. Take me to Anthropologie and I may never leave. I'm a sucker for pretty packaging, bargain finds, and old movies. Mr. Espresso and I are high school sweethearts and I am so blessed to be this amazing man's future wife.

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