Wedding Blog

Check out the contents of the package that totally cheered up my mopey, Nelly looking @$$ yesterday:

You may be saying to yourself, ‘Hey! I’ve seen that adorable lantern stationery before!’ Well, it’s because you have (and I must say, it’s even prettier in person)! Since it’s no secret that the lovely Mrs. Tulip is the ultimate bargain bee, I inquired about where she found the parasols used in her wedding because she probably found the best deal. Knowing my colors are also red, she offered to just send me hers all the way from the other side of the country, with no strings attached!

Like this wise little flower, I also believe goods are best recycled when placed directly in the hands of those who can get the most use out of them. In this case, I am on the receiving end of her generosity. Mrs. Tulip suggested that I could make a charity donation in return, and I did that here. I read about this fantastic $10,000 Wedding In Reverse and the story gave me a huge lump in my throat.

Now I’m starting to think, a month from now when our wedding is finally over, what am I going to do with all this STUFF? Now some of you may have noticed that reusability is a big factor in what wedding ’stuff’ we buy. While I plan to keep many things, and give some away to friends and family, there will for sure be some more left over. But how can I pass on the pieces from our wedding to do good, and directly into the hands of another bride for reuse as Mrs. Tulip did for me?

Here’s the wedding crap taking over the guest room
(and I have an OOT guest this weekend!):

One way can be - a group sale! In my vision, NorCal brides can come together on a lovely afternoon, some to donate items, and some to shop. I shall have a little GT corner specializing in tea related items, and I’ll even bring an enormous pitcher of Arnold Palmer to share. All proceeds can go to an organization like Brides Against Breast Cancer. Wouldn’t that be wonderful?

For those who see the logistical nightmare this can be, I’m right there with you. *sigh* Oh who am I kidding, I was just telling Miss Pom today about how I don’t even have the energy to plan the small and simple siggy drink taste test get together like I wanted (to which her gracious self offered to host it for me! [Yeah I know, all kinds of angels are looking after me]) Anyway, it’s a nice dream eh?

*wakes up from dream, goes to get a new band-aid 4 da face*

What are you planning on doing with all your post-wedding stuff?