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Mrs. Hot Cocoa, Boston/Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 31, JD/PhD Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 32, Medical Student Engagement Date: May 30, 2008 Wedding Date: March, 2009 Blogging Since: April, 2008 Venue: Ritz Carlton, Marina Del Rey About Me: I am a professional student by day and an amateur cupcake taster, bargain shopper, and wedding planner by night. I am obsessed with NPR, the Food Network, paper, dance shows, Anthropologie, post-structuralist theory, Weddingbee!, "The Office," and celebrity gossip. When not procrastinating from my dissertation, I spend time catering to Jellyby, our overly anxious shih tzu, and getting to know Mr. Hot Cocoa. We have only been dating for fifteen years, so it's like I'm in love with a stranger! From the East Coast, we are planning a Jewish-Chinese Extravaganza in L.A., where we both grew up.
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It took me 5 minutes to figure out how to get into the Priscilla of Boston store, and I should have taken that as an omen that no good was going to come out of my first sample sale experience.

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Priscilla’s flagship salon in Boston is a huge presence on Boylston St. Literally. There is a GIANT picture of a bride giving you the stink eye from its 3-story-high panorama windows. Very bridezilla attacks. Anyway, I thought getting there would be easy. Alas, I get to the building, am standing under bridezilla, and find myself totally puzzled.

The whole first floor of the building is taken up by Fidelity Insurance. It turns out that the Priscilla entrance is off on a side street. Me stoopid.

The sale started at 8 AM. I got there around 9:30, and there were a good number of dresses still left on the racks. From my quick survey, it seemed like the gowns were sized 0-12 (more variety than your standard sample sale, which tends to carry only 8s and 10s). There were 3 racks of bridal gowns from Priscilla, Vineyard, and Melissa Sweet, as well as a small rack of bridesmaids dresses. The bridal gowns were priced from around $200 to $3000. The gowns were sold as is; most were in reasonable shape, with some dirty spots or fraying on the trains or holes in the netting, but there were ones marked “unused samples” as well. The consultants, who have a reputation of being snooty, were actually quite helpful. I told them what I was looking for, and they brought me gowns both from the racks and from the piles rejected by other brides. They put the gowns in the dressing room and left me to my own devices — fine by me, since I am not a big fan of helicopter salespeople.

I picked 5 Melissa Sweet dresses. A simple jersey ruched front gown for $399 seemed like a steal, but I couldn’t reason spending that amount on jersey. This pretty empire waist number with beading on the neckline and a tulle overlay was $950; tempting except for an itchy polyester lining. Wah? I started to go through my gowns more carefully, and it turned out that other than a $2500 beaded sheath, all the rest of the gowns I’d picked had acetate or polyester linings. What’s even weirder is that many of them had generic tags that said “bridal” in cheesy script on one side and Chinese handwriting on the other; all were made in China. I started to wonder if some of these gowns, while “genuine” in the sense that they were being sold by Priscilla and had Melissa Sweet tags, were not the same gowns that Priscilla would sell at its boutiques on non-sample-sale days? I got even more suspicious when one of the consultants asked the one who was helping me whether the dress I had on was one that was “brought in for the sample sale.” Some of the dresses on the racks had Saks tags, so it’s possible that sample sale dresses were “brought in” from other bridal salons. But I also wondered if some of dresses were cheaply made versions “brought in” specifically for the sample sale (the same way that J. Crew and Banana Republic outlets sell some merchandise created specifically for the outlet stores)? Either way, I couldn’t bring myself to put down over $1500 (factoring in alterations, repair, cleaning) for a few yards of polyester and tulle. All was not lost, however. Across the street from Priscilla is Anthropologie (my mother ship), where I found the luscious “winter flame” dress on sale for $39! All in all, a very productive (and instructive) shopping trip.

Coming up: Reviews of Kleinfeld’s monthly sample sale, the Bridal Garden (NY), Vows Bridal Outlet (MA), Your Dream Dress (eBay), and Dream Bridal LA (CA). Yes, I shopped at all these places. Some multiple times. Miss Haute Cocoa is not fooling around.

Did you find a delectable bargain at a sample sale? Can you explain how luxe bridal salons get away with charging $2000 for 2 yards of polyester? Do you have nightmares of being chased down and eaten by a 3-story-high underweight, underage bride?

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16 Responses to “A Melissa Sweet at a Sample Sale Would be as Sweet?”

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HumarockBride (message)  1,481 posts, Bumble bee

I’m so glad you posted this! I’m a Boston bride myself and I am about to begin my dress search. I’ve heard wonderful (but also a few negative) things about Priscilla and I am looking forward to going there. My one fear was that I wouldn’t fit into any of their samples — now I know I am not too overweight, but I do wear a street size 10/12. Which is more like a 12/14 in gowns or so I’ve been told. I know that they can clip it and twist it to make a sample that doesn’t fit work - but I’m just wondering what the average size dresses is at Priscilla. Sorry long winded!! I also am looking forward to your thoughts on Vows - another place I plan to look!

 
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Miss Pineapple (message)  676 posts, Busy bee

really? they have different dresses for the sample sales? that is super misleading.

 
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mssmartypants (message)  80 posts, Worker bee

I purchased my gown at the yearly Justina McCaffrey sample sale that her stores in Canada (Toronto and Ottawa hold once a year). I was lured in by the starting price for gowns were $499. Indeed true. Many of the gowns were very much discounted. However, they also were the gowns that everyone wanted (slighly poofy, princess-y, strapless). Thankfully being an atypical bride, I had my choice of the “unwanted” dresses (read: strapped and non-poofy). I was able to score a beautiful dress for 80% off the regular price! Other than to bring up the hem it fit perfectly.

 
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mdarrah (message)  1,006 posts, Bumble bee

In all my crazy dress shopping I happened upon several sample sales. (Since I got engaged in Jan and was looking in Jan/Feb, most stores were getting rid of last seasons at discounted prices.) I found a Pronovias dress that if I bought the sample was $800, but if I ordered it was going to be $1500, and it fit me (shortening the hem would have been the ONLY alteration) and there were no visible signs of wear and tear. It came down to that one and a new Casablanca dress that ordering new AND alterations cost about $800. For a while I was really torn because the Pronovias name was calling to me… but thats just not me. Keep that in mind when looking - no one outside of your mom, and your blog world will know/care what the name of the dress maker is.

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,719 posts, Bumble bee

@HumarockBride: I’m not sure what the average size dresses are at Priscilla; the sample sale is a special situation, since they often have gowns on the rack that are not true samples, but cancellations and the like. You will love Vows. It’s a wonderful place to start and end your wedding dress shopping because you can try on a variety of silhouettes by different makers (ranging from Marisa to Monique Lhuillier), and they even have a special (and well-stocked) rack of size 10-14s! I’ll write more in my Vows post, but you can also check out Mrs. Toucan’s review of Vows, which is similarly glowing. Have fun!!!

 
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Lucy

My gown was a Melissa Sweet and definitely had a silk lining. I’m willing to believe my gown was made in china, but it was still made of high quality fabric. If they are bringing in lower-quality gowns and marketing them as “samples,” that’s really irritating.

 
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HumarockBride (message)  1,481 posts, Bumble bee

Thank you! I’ll check out her post and look forward to yours!

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,719 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Pineapple and @Lucy: I don’t know if they were really selling gowns that they wouldn’t ordinarily carry for the sample sale, but what I found very odd were the generic “bridal” hangtags with the Chinese handwriting on the back. It’s possible that these gowns were straight from the factory and that they simply didn’t get a chance to remove the factory tags. I thought I’d just point it out in case future shoppers have a) the chutzpah to ask or b) just want to be on the look out for “bargains” that might not really be such a bargain.

 
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Miss Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

wow I never even thought they could be bringing in a “cheaper” version. Interesting…

 
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snmcdowell (message)  1,247 posts, Bumble bee

Dresses intended to be used as samples almost always have cheap linings. If you ordered the dress from the store, it would come with a much nicer lining. This is one of the things you have to accept when purchasing a sample gown. Of course, if the store also has some non-sample gowns to clear out (orders that were mistakes or never picked up) then these would have the good quality linings. It’s not something the store is doing to be shady; it’s just how samples are made. They aren’t going to waste fine fabrics on the inside of a sample.

 
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lulubelle (message)  173 posts, Blushing bee

I totally know what you mean about spending thousands of dollars on a polyester dress. I tried on so, so many gowns in my dress quest, and at one point I was in a plain polyester strapless sheath– absolutely no embellishments whatsoever. And they wanted $800 for it. I just laughed and said, sorry, but it ain’t worth 1/4 that. I could’ve had the same pattern made over in a fine silk charmeuse for much less. It’s insulting!

 
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Ms Popcorn

wow, even though I know that Jones New York does this (versions at various price points and varying workmanship for different stores) from doing admin at a garment factory for my first summer job I wouldn’t have guessed that the big bridal designers would do this given how huffy they are about authenticity and authorized sellers!

 
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PrettyKitty (message)  505 posts, Busy bee

I’m glad you were perplexed about the entrance to Priscilla, cause my Mom and I walked around the block trying to find the darn door! Priscilla was the first store I went to in my dress search, but it was not at a sample sale. My saleslady was really nice but she has called me three times since my appointment! Oh for reference, all the sample sizes I saw when I was there (on a regular day) were 6’s and 8’s, but I’m a street size 4 so I don’t know if that makes a difference. Good luck dress shopping, I’m still at it as well.

 
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