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Mr. Mango, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 27, Stem Cell/Nanotechnology Researcher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 21, Political Scientist Engagement Date: June 12, 2008 Wedding Date: December 2008 Blogging Since: August 4, 2008 Venue: Picking between 2 About Me: It's not who I am underneath, but what I do, that defines me (cheesy Batman reference). I'm a Pakistani-American who lives his life as a nerdy scientist by day, and a nerdy artist by night. According to many, I'm as "metro" as they come, and that's probably why I'm so interested in all this wedding business. Honestly, I've become a bit of a "groomzilla". I'm here to prove that we, as grooms, actually can work a Gocco, plan a wedding meal, create breathtaking centerpieces, and rock a dress, just as good as my female counterparts (well maybe not the last one).
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Our Invitations Are Here!

August 6th, 2008 @ 9:30 am by Mr. Mango

I am super thrilled to announce that our much anticipated invitation suite is here!

*fanfare*

Not only that, but they are totally what we wanted and have exceeded our expectations. So here is the rundown. Right now, we are getting a Nikkah (in case you missed it, I gave a quick rundown of Pakistani/Islamic traditions) and so we decided to have the ceremony at a beautiful Masjid (Islamic House of Worship). The reception for the Nikkah will be at an Indian restaurant and we will be having a joint (bride family+groom family) mehndi party celebration the night before.

So, we were looking for an invitation for all three events enveloped into a cultural, yet modern suite. After looking around for a while, we settled on a relatively new kid on the scene, a recent graduate from an arts college here in Los Angeles. This was a tough call considering we wanted to impress and try to avoid any kind of unexpected surprises, which can sometimes happen when you don’t use seasoned experts in the wedding business. Anyhow, we bit the bullet and hired our mystery invitation vendor (who I will reveal soon) to create a hip modern, but cultural, invitation set.

We chose lavender as the color since Ms. Mango’s outfit was going to be lavender, key word is ‘was’… more to come on that later. Anyhow, we kind of had an idea of what we wanted so we worked really close with our vendor to achieve the look we were going for. I guess this could be considered one of the perks of working with a new vendor, sometimes the egos aren’t as inflated. So, after rounds of PSD files being thrown around, we got a digital proof about a month ago, and I was floored by how great it was looking. So off to the printers it went! Since our vendor wasn’t an invitation specialist, we actually went on rounds to various paper outlets to get the right paper media for our invitations. After all was said and done, this little baby was popped out:

The front emblem is actually a verse from the Quran stylized to look like a bird. And of course, we’re bling-ing it up with rhinestones. I think the ribbon behind the card (lush gold) complemented the lavender quite well.

Close up of the bird (bird, bird, bird, bird is the word… ehh nevermind).

I love the inside of the card. This is the actual invitation to the Nikkah ceremony. I was completely loving the Moroccan tile theme that was set on the left side of the card. The right side has the usual details, and again, some more rhinestones… chic, no?

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A sort of skewed and zoomed out view of the card itself. In homage to Ms. Mango, there was a small artsy-fartsy flower that was placed on the corner of the pocket holding the mehndi and Nikkah reception cards.

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This is our Nikkah reception card. It is simple but has the tile graphic that you saw on the Nikkah ceremony card. The top of the card has a verse from the Quran, translated in English, that says,

“And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves so that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts). Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.” [Qur’an 30:21]“

Back of Nikkah reception card which shows people how to get there and what’s going on at night… I had to take out the finger painting session. :(

This fun little card is the Mehndi card. The bottom of the card has to-scale drawings of me and Ms. Mango. Incredibly realistic.

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The back of the card has the directions and a neat little graphic of a “dholak”, the Indian/Pakistani drum which is played on the Mehndi night.

This last picture shows our envelopes. We opted to have a little color graphic printed on the outside of the envelopes.

Anyhow, what do you guys think? Not bad huh. Hope you all enjoyed my little spread on our invitations. Looks like we might be getting our wedding (shaadi) cards made from the same person later in the year. I loved how we were able to provide a lot of input and at the same time see our comments materialize in the cards that we received.

Anybody else taking a unique route to get their invitations made or found some middle ground between DIY and a vendor completely handling the job themselves?

40 Responses to “Our Invitations Are Here!”

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Melissa at MasterPiece Weddings says:

Darn it! I can’t believe you had to take the finger painting session out! Schucks!!

Seriously, it’s beautiful!! Personal, and gorgeous, just how it should be!

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enmoore66 says:

They are beautiful. Your guests will love receiving them!
I also LOVED your description of all the different events yesterday- you did a great job giving us an intro into Pakistani and Muslim wedding traditions. I’m glad you are in the hive.

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Mrs Bluebear says:

I love how colorful everything is! It makes the invite so much more interesting…man now the invites that I slaved over pales in comparison…=)

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shibaby says:

I think they look great! I love all the beautiful colors!

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Miss Pinot Noir says:

I love the Mehndi card and the envelopes! Great work!

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luckyinlove says:

Were those figures really drawn to look like you and Miss Mango? In any case, I love the way they hearken back to the Indian/Pakistani folk art period…and the Moroccan tile brings in the Middle Eastern/Islamic element…way to tie in both of your cultures! They’re lovely!

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Kim says:

The bird and the Nikkah card are probably my favorite… but it all looks amazing!! Great work!!

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Ley says:

Whoa…I love them!! I’m jealous now! lol. I have to say the Mehndi card is my favourite, though. I love the design!

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Shay says:

LOVE ITTTT!!!

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amandabear says:

holy crap! those are awesome!

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Kellbell says:

I love those invites!! So creative and absolutely charming. There is so much good information in there for your guests too, very thoughtful!

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Gery says:

I L-O-V-E- T-H-E-M!!! The rhingstones is my favorite detail!!!

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Mrs. Emerald says:

Those are amazing!! I’m sure your guests will be BLOWN away!

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July2008Bride says:

Papa-ooma-mow-mow, ooma-mow-mow
Well don’t you know about the bird? - Now I’m gonna have that stuck in my head all day long!

Beautiful invitations!

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ChicagoSarah says:

So beautiful! The colors, the patterns, the sparklies…and I love that the bird is actually a verse from the Quran. Nice work!

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HCB says:

Beautiful! And I LOVE the Mendhi card. That one is my favorite.

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Miss Margarita says:

i love the cards - especially the bird!

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Mrs. Violet says:

I love the vivid colors and all the little details, very pretty!

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Mr. Mango says:

@Miss Margarita: Me likes the bird too. However, my first choice was an antelope.

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Mrs. Penguin says:

The attention to details on this suite is AMAZING. Sometimes I feel like designing invitations for fun…then I see stuff like this and realize that awesomeness such as this could never be born from this Penguin head. So…I keep the gocco in its case for personal use :). SO AWESOME cant wait for the designer reveal!

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Mr. Mango says:

@Mrs. Penguin: pssh whatever miss ‘lil stringy jewel things on the outside of ma card’ …. stop bein so humble…its annoying…. totally kidding…i loved your guys’ cards

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Mrs. Toucan says:

lovely invitations suite! I love the Mehndi card - it’s so colorful!

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Mrs. Peony says:

I love the colors! I especially love the Mehndi card!!! What printing method did you use?

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Michelle says:

very chic! I love them… everytime i see something like that I wish I had done mine differently, but too late now, they were mailed yesterday!

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Mr. Mango says:

@Mr. Mango: oops. i got yours mixed up with another…but you had jelly beans!

@Mrs. Peony: I designed the mehndi card myself in Photoshop and then had them printed on linen paper from vistaprint.com, who I wouldn’t necessarily recommend. I had to have them reprinted a couple of times because the text didn’t look right.

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Broke-Ass Bride says:

Um, you are THE cutest! I just LOVE this suite - so inventive and creative without being stuffy at all. The mendhi card is so adorable I can’t even bear it.

I’m so glad you’re here, Mr. Mango! First, its so nice to have a little testosterone in the mix :)

Second, my wedding is heavily influenced by pan-mid-eastern design and cultures - your wedding is sure to be a huge inspiration to me! Welcome!
:x
Broke-Ass Bride

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Miss Sweet Tea says:

Good work on the Mehndi card, m’boy! The illustration of you and the Ms. looks like an anime version of the Ramayana… hehe. Love.

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jennred782 says:

How did you find your vendor, they are amazing. I am trying to find a way to mix Irish with Sikh Indian.

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sweetdaisey says:

i love the colors!

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Nada says:

OK, Mr. Mango — I love them! But I’d love them even more if you told me where you got your lil’ birdie.. :)

I used a “Bismillah” bird (more like a swan) for our engagement invites. But this one is MUCH cuter!

Do you know a good calligraphy Web site?

Oh, and the color is sooo nice!

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Mrs. Pumpkin says:

Love them! The mehndi card is fantastic but really, I love the whole shebang!

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KatyStardust says:

Gooooooregeous! I love that pattern on the side of the invite - and DON’T get me started on that incredible Mendhi card! So cute!

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Angeline says:

holy schnikies… your invites are CRAZY! and by crazy i mean crazy NICE! thanks for sharing mr. mango. you have quickly become one of my favorite bees. :)

34.
Becky says:

Wow - I think your risk paid off! Those are just beautiful!
:) Becky

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Miss Green Tea says:

tiiight shizz! i’m eating them as i type.

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Miss Hot Cocoa says:

Love love love them. I want a mendhi so I can have your mendhi card.

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AliCherri1 says:

I Love Love Love them! Especially the bird!
What would have been the significance of an antelope?

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Mr. Mango says:

@AliCherri1: im totally kidding about the antelope.

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sja says:

Wow! Gorgeous!!!


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Mr. Mango Mr. Mango, Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 27, Stem Cell/Nanotechnology Researcher Fiance's Age and Occupation: 21, Political Scientist Engagement Date: June 12, 2008 Wedding Date: December 2008 Blogging Since: August 4, 2008 Venue: Picking between 2 About Me: It's not who I am underneath, but what I do, that defines me (cheesy Batman reference). I'm a Pakistani-American who lives his life as a nerdy scientist by day, and a nerdy artist by night. According to many, I'm as "metro" as they come, and that's probably why I'm so interested in all this wedding business. Honestly, I've become a bit of a "groomzilla". I'm here to prove that we, as grooms, actually can work a Gocco, plan a wedding meal, create breathtaking centerpieces, and rock a dress, just as good as my female counterparts (well maybe not the last one).