The Packet.


Edit: Thanks for the enthusiastic response! As promised, here is a sample of our wedding weekend packet, tailored just for the hive!

Daffodil’s Wedding Weekend Packet Template

I wanted to add that after my original post, several people who had helped out with our wedding called me to let me know that, indeed, the packet had been extremely helpful and was really key to our uber smooth wedding day…which made me super happy to hear of course! And above is a pic to prove it! So hopefully, this (or something similar) will come in handy on your wedding day too!

Thanks for your patience as I made all the edits. Happy planning!

It became a bit of a running joke among all involved in helping out on our wedding day. I admit maybe it was a bit over the top, but for a J-personality type* like me, but hey, it was as much for my own sanity as it was for helping everyone else know where to be and when. That’s right- I created a 15-page “Wedding Weekend Packet” for all involved! It took me probably a full three days straight (with little sleep) to really get everything right, but I did it and sent it out to everyone about four days before the wedding!

Now what could possibly take up 15 pages you ask? Here’s a glimpse into my pride and joy…


We began with a cover letter introducing the packet to our friends and family. The contents were as follows:

  • Logistics overview
  • Overview of weekend events
  • Detailed wedding day schedule
  • Map, directions, and travel
  • Contact list
  • Description of roles

The Logistics Overview. A list of key wedding day contacts (aka people to call if you have absolutely no clue what is going on), key locations and their addresses, and a list of the key events taking place over the course of the week.


Overview of Weekend Events. A three-page list of all the key events taking place over the next few days, including a pre-wedding family celebration dinner, our rehearsal, our rehearsal dinner, and more, all the way through to our afterparty. Under each event, I provided the date and time, location, point person(s) to contact, who was required to attend, and a brief description of the event.

Detailed Wedding Day Schedule. This was probably what may have been a little overwhelming for some at first, but I sincerely believe it was the reason why our wedding day went so incredibly smoothly! It was a two-page schedule listing the main activities, underneath which we broke out specific activities by 15-minute increments. It listed each activity next to the time and the parties involved. Here’s a glimpse…


Map, Directions, and Travel. Pretty self-explanatory. This was a two-page section that included a map of LA (which I created using Wedding Mapper and then just taking a screen-shot of the image), directions from the airport to the hotel, hotel to the church, church to the rehearsal dinner site, and the church to the reception site. We also included travel tips for our out-of-town guests, including travel options and approximate rates.


Contact List. A full contact list of about 50 people, including their names, phone numbers, emails, and role of each person involved in helping out with the wedding.

Description of Roles. This section was five pages long, the longest section. It was for a good reason though, as we detailed out the specific responsibilities of different people involved, preempting any last minute wedding day confusion. We included what activities they needed to be present for, what time to arrive, and what they were on point for. Of course, people didn’t have to read all five pages – All they had to do was jump to their section (i.e. bridesmaids, or scripture readers, or attendants, etc.). Again, another key reason why our wedding day ran so smoothly! A huge thanks to Mr. D for helping me with this section and with the contact list…This seriously took me forever.


That about sums up “The Packet”! I wanted to post up the template, but it has way too much personal information in there right now, with names and phone numbers of people everywhere.

But yeah, this was what we sent to our friends and families (vendors got something different, which I will share in a future post!). You wouldn’t believe how much crap I got from some people smiley402, ranging from our friends jokingly saying every time “Well, let me refer to my 15-page wedding packet…” all the way to some adults (who will remain nameless) saying “What a waste of time…who would ever read 15 pages!”

In the end, I do hope everyone appreciated it! But if nothing else, going through the process of creating this at least gave me peace of mind, allowing me to relax and enjoy my own wedding day…which was reason enough for me! smiley101

*I am referring to the Myers-Briggs personality types. A “J” personality tends to approach the world with a plan, prefers to be organized and prepared, and has a tendency toward closure and completion (as opposed to taking a more adaptive go-with-the-flow approach). If you get a strange sense of joy in crossing items off your to-do lists, creating itineraries and schedules, etc., you are probably a “J” personality type too smiley302.


Mrs. Daffodil

Los Angeles
Wedding Date:
May 2015
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    Deborah Simmons, Guest @ 10:56 am

    I would love a copy of the template!

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    HpYeVrAfTr1018 1 posts, Wannabee @ 8:56 am

    This is such an amazing packet, I would love love love to use it for my wedding, could you please email it me, my wedding is in a week.

    Thank you so much!!!!

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    sthefany, Guest @ 7:03 am

    can I have one too please?? I am reall lost!! its sthefiip@hotmail.coom thanks ,,,

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    Tammy, Guest @ 2:35 am

    Can you send me this packet? My wedding decorator/coordinator/and planner left me hanging and my wedding is in 2 days. Please help me.

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    almostagomez 1 posts, Wannabee @ 9:39 pm

    Can I have a copy sent to me please?

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    danzmutt 5 posts, Newbee @ 12:36 pm

    Hi Bees!

    I had originally posted to have a packet sent to me by email. And finally figured out that once you create a log-in, you are granted access to the packet.

    hope it works for you as well!

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    Kailey, Guest @ 8:48 pm

    I know this is 5 years later….but do you still have this template to share?? It would be awesome to use. My wedding is in two weeks!

    my email is

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    Danielle, Guest @ 1:23 pm

    This is amazing and exactly what this Type A bride is looking for. Does anyone have this template they could email to me? I would appreciate it so much.

    Thank you so much!

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    Alisha Renee, Guest @ 5:34 am

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    Robin, Guest @ 12:12 pm

    Looking for this template – everytime I try to download it gives me an error message!! Please help :) thanks in advance!

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    Robin, Guest @ 1:04 pm

    @Alisha Renee: Did you happen to find the template? if so could you let me know! Thanks :)

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    I would love this or any other template. New to the Boards, and my daughter said this is a great place for help.

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    lindsay, Guest @ 10:12 am

    I would love to template to use. Any chance I could get it today? My wedding will be here before I know it, like they all say. Thank you so much.

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    lindsay, Guest @ 10:16 am

    Thank you! I got it! This will such a big help!!!! :)

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    LaTonya Curtis, Guest @ 5:06 am

    Can someone please tell me now to get this template. Thanks in advance.

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    lindsay c, Guest @ 2:18 pm

    Can you please send me a copy of it too. I would love to see the detail and have it to follow. Thank you so much!

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    dia mon, Guest @ 8:56 am

    I am helping my sister plan her wedding and this is the best thing I have found so far. Thank you for sharing. It is detailed and very thoughtful.

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    Can I have this template please?

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    Corrie D, Guest @ 8:33 pm

    Is there any way I could get a copy of this template? I would really appreciate it!

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    Kizzy, Guest @ 4:15 pm

    Wow, I love how organized you are! My wedding is mid-August and I would love to have a copy of your template to use as a guide while I prepare mine. I don’t have a wedding planner, but I think I’ve done fairly well so far. This template would be exactly what I need to keep my head together!

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    Ashley, Guest @ 9:13 am

    I would love the template for this I am pretty organized so far the sooner I can get everything done the better thank you!!!

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    Diane Kleier, Guest @ 7:30 am

    Please send template!!! BTW… Absolutely incredible!!! Love it!!!!!

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    hope, Guest @ 6:29 pm

    how can I get this template

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    Joyce, Guest @ 8:56 pm

    Would absolutely love to get this template if you could possible send it to me. Thank you so very much!

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    haylie, Guest @ 5:14 pm

    Can I please have a copy of the template please

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    Kimberly, Guest @ 8:17 pm

    I would absolutely love a copy of this 15-page template, please send. Thank you very much!

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    Melissa, Guest @ 9:47 am

    Can I please have a copy of your template? Thank you!!

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    Rebekah Grubbs, Guest @ 1:01 pm

    Could I please have a copy of this template as well? Thanks!

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    Kathleen Hester, Guest @ 10:37 am

    Could I please have a copy of this template as well? Thanks.

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    Kami, Guest @ 9:45 pm

    Could I get a copy of the templates as well? Thanks

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    Morgan, Guest @ 10:45 am

    Would LOVE a copy of this!! You seem like my kind of bride. I HAVE to be COMPLETELY organized about everything. This would help alot!

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    Kara Mattern, Guest @ 10:52 am

    Could I get a copy of this template! I want everything to go as smoothly as possible and this will definitely help with that process!

    Thank you!

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    Shayne Toisam, Guest @ 11:29 pm

    I would love to get a copy of this template.. This will surely help me in organizing my bff’s wedding.. -in few months!!

    Thanking you in advance!!

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    Tash, Guest @ 1:44 pm

    This looks amazing and could definitely help us sort out the weekend events. Please send when you can.

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    Jan, Guest @ 9:49 pm

    What a beautiful itinerary. Could you please share it? Thanks so much. PS My wedding is this Saturday & I would love to use it ASAP!!!

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    Kami, Guest @ 8:33 am

    Hi, I don’t have a template, nobody sent one to me. I made my own copy of file from scratch. I can send you what I have but I need your email. Love to help other brides


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    Nicole, Guest @ 7:17 am

    Can you send me this template? It looks perfect!

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    Thetis, Guest @ 2:24 am

    Hi Kami,

    Can you please email me the template too?


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    LaShawn, Guest @ 9:20 pm

    Hello can you please email me a template. thank you.

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    Hello! How amazing you are so organized! I would love a copy! My email is

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    Cheryl, Guest @ 7:06 am

    would love to have a copy of this template…thank you!

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    Sandy, Guest @ 3:45 pm

    Hello, this would be a great template to use for my sisters upcoming wedding in June. (Yes, I am planning the whole day). Could you email me this template? Please! Thank you!

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    Erin, Guest @ 4:44 pm

    We are having a lot of people coming in from out of town and getting married in Northern Wisconsin with a lot of tourist stuff around. Something like this would be awsome. Would you please email me your template!!! Erin

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    im in desperate need, too! Please email me the Thanks in advance!!

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    would love a copy as well.

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    My wedding is in June and I need all the help I need! I would love your itinerary for friends and family as well as for the vendors!!!! Thank you thank you!!

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    Keelei, Guest @ 2:01 pm

    Would love a copy of the entire packet. Much appreciated. Please send to if willing! Thanks

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