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Mrs. Toucan, Boston Age and Occupation: 25, Full-time Research Assistant, Part-time Graduate Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Actuary Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: November 07, 2007 Venue: St. Catherine of Genoa, Jin Asian Cuisine Restaurant About Me: I’m a Gemini to the extreme. On one side, I’m a girly girl. I read countless bridal and fashion magazines, and have an obsession with keeping up with the latest Hollywood gossip. On the other side, I’m a sports fanatic. Despite being a full-time bride-to be, full-time research assistant, and part-time student, I’m also a full-time Red Sox fan from spring training to October, and a full-time Patriots fan from mini-camp to February. I devote almost as much time researching my for fantasy football team as researching for our wedding!
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A Tribute To My Ye Ye

August 18th, 2008 @ 1:15 pm by Mrs. Toucan

My Ye Ye (grandfather) passed away this weekend. It was neither a surprise, nor was it expected. He lived to the ripe old age of 94. He never suffered from any long-term sickness or disease. We are thankful that he passed in the best way possible–peacefully in his sleep.

1914-2008

As selfish as it sounds, I am so thankful that he made it to our wedding.

It was such a joyous day, and we were so fortunate to share it with so many family and friends. It meant a lot that Ye Ye was there. It ended up being the last time I saw him.

I am so, so thankful that my last memories of him were so happy. He was there to celebrate the happiest day of my life. He lived a full, full life, and it makes it easier to cope with the loss.

But still, I’ll miss you, Ye Ye.

Rest in Peace.

*All pictures of Ye Ye by Robert Mirani Photography.

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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,721 posts, Bumble bee

My condolences to you and your family, Mrs. Toucan. Hugs.

 
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kara (message)  623 posts, Busy bee

I’m so sorry for your loss, Mrs. Toucan. It looks like he had a wonderful time at your wedding, and that is definitely a great memory for you to have of him. My thoughts are with you and your family.

 
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Mrs. Gingerbread (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

Mrs. Toucan, I’m sorry to hear about your loss, but I am glad that you are able to remember your Ye Ye sharing your wedding day with you. The memories and photos of him on that day are priceless and I am so happy that those. *hugs*

 
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Sandra

sorry for your lost. I know he was a very special person in your life.

 
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MissBlueBear (message)  407 posts, Helper bee

I am crying at work!!!! Toucan, you made me cry! I am so happy that he got to share in your special day because not everyone is so lucky! Know that he will bless your marriage from afar now! Deepest sympathies…

 
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Mrs. Lovebird (message)  695 posts, Busy bee

I’m so sorry for your loss, Mrs. Toucan. *hug*

 
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Mr. Mango (message)  146 posts, Blushing bee

im sorry for your loss toucy.

 
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MsB (message)  344 posts, Helper bee

So sorry to hear about your Ye Ye. He looks like he was such a sweet man…

 
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danathebride (message)  173 posts, Blushing bee

HUUUUUUUUGS. I’m so glad you got to share such a special day with him before he went.

 
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Miss Martini (message)  245 posts, Helper bee

:( this is making me teary eyed! I’m very sorry about your loss. Its not selfish at all to be glad he was able to make your wedding; what more could a grandfather want other than to be able to attend his granddaughter’s wedding at 94 years of age? It seems as though he has lived a long and fufilling life, especially now that he was able to witness your marriage.

 
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StefM

So sorry for your loss.

 
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Mrs. Canary (message)  637 posts, Busy bee

::big hugs:: Toucs. You and your family are in my thoughts.

 
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Miss Cupcake (message)  1,169 posts, Bumble bee

So sorry for your loss. It is amazing that he was able to share in the joy of your wedding day with you. Big hugs.

 
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bonniebelle101 (message)  367 posts, Helper bee

I’m so sorry for your loss Mrs. Toucan! You and your family are in my thoughts! And I don’t feel that your appreciation that he was there is selfish at all. I’m sure that he feels the same way! Having volunteered with a Hospice organization, I’ve heart that it’s not uncommon for folks to “hold on” until a special event occures or certain people arrive. That may have been his unconscious wedding gift to you! Again, you’re in my thoughts.

 
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MrsDavis (message)  251 posts, Helper bee

I’ll bet he was very happy to be at your wedding too. I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.

 
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Jodi

I’m so sorry. And it’s not selfish to be grateful that he was there on one of the happiest days of your life.

 
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angie

I’m so sorry for your lost. This especially touches me because my ye ye passed away this past december and will not be at my wedding this october. You are very lucky to have him at your wedding and I am sure he enjoyed every minute of seeing his grandchild walk down the aisle.

 
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budgetbeautiful

So sorry for your family’s loss. I’m glad that your Ye Ye was able to attend your wedding and you were able to share that special day with him.

 
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Miss Pinot Noir (message)  772 posts, Busy bee

I’m sorry for your loss - losing someone is always hard. I’m so glad he made it to your wedding day - I’m sure was too!

 
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Mrs. Penguin (message)  2,149 posts, Buzzing bee

I’m so happy to hear that you Ye Ye was able to take part in your wedding and thank you for sharing your beautiful pictures of him with us, Wifey. My best to you and your family!

 
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Miss Cookie (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

Hugs! I’m so sorry for your loss, but how wondeful that he got to share in the joy of your wedding!

 
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Yach (message)  376 posts, Helper bee

Sorry about Ye Ye…I’m so glad he made it to your wedding. He looks happy for you!

 
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Michelle

I’m so sorry for your loss.

 
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{{{Toucan Family}}}}

sending thoughts and prayers your way…..

 
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Miss Pomegranate (message)  956 posts, Busy bee

I’m so sorry for your loss - and so happy that he was able to share your wedding day with you. Big Hugs!!

 
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RIP…

 
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Miss Margarita (message)  369 posts, Helper bee

:( So sorry for your loss

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,077 posts, Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry for you loss, my prayers are with you and your family.

 
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Littlefoot

Thank you so much for sharing a piece of you that means so much. My lola was 91 when she passed. Although it’s not a surprise, the loss of our loved ones hurt nonetheless. I’m glad your Ye Ye was able to share in one of the happiest days of your life. That in itself is very special :)

 
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Lillindy (message)  4,275 posts, Honey bee

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry for your loss. But, what a wonderful last memory to be left with!

 
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Miss Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

I’m so sorry for your loss Toucan, but I’m also so happy for you that you were able to share your wedding day with him. You and your family will be in my prayers

 
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chibride

I’m sorry for your loss.
It’s so wonderful that he was able to celebrate your wedding day.

 
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Trebuchet (message)  121 posts, Blushing bee

So sorry about your loss, Toucan. My thoughts go out to you and your family!

 
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melbride

my sincere condolences!!! I’m sure he was soo happy to be able to be there to witness your beautiful wedding and wouldn’t want to miss it for the world.

 
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Katherine

Oh, I’m so sorry for your loss. :( You and your family will be in my thoughts.

 
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D. Marie

I’m sorry for your lost but happy that you got to have a special day and moment with him on your day. Rest in Peace to your Grandpa…i know that I miss mine dearly.

 


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Mrs. Toucan Mrs. Toucan, Boston Age and Occupation: 25, Full-time Research Assistant, Part-time Graduate Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Actuary Engagement Date: February 18, 2007 Wedding Date: June 7, 2008 Blogging Since: November 07, 2007 Venue: St. Catherine of Genoa, Jin Asian Cuisine Restaurant About Me: I’m a Gemini to the extreme. On one side, I’m a girly girl. I read countless bridal and fashion magazines, and have an obsession with keeping up with the latest Hollywood gossip. On the other side, I’m a sports fanatic. Despite being a full-time bride-to be, full-time research assistant, and part-time student, I’m also a full-time Red Sox fan from spring training to October, and a full-time Patriots fan from mini-camp to February. I devote almost as much time researching my for fantasy football team as researching for our wedding!
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