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Mrs. Daffodil, San Francisco/Los Angeles Age and Occupation: 26, Nonprofit Strategy Consultant Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Resident Physician Engagement Date: December 29, 2006 Wedding Date: May, 2008 Blogging Since: August, 2007 Venue: Church w/ floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking the Valley; Westin in downtown LA About Me: I moved around a lot growing up, but consider myself a Southerner at heart. I love scrapbooking, dancing, doggies, and diet coke. I am all about personalizing everything and hence, I'm a DIY bride who is just loving the entire wedding planning process! Mr. Daffodil and I met in our college fellowship group and were "just friends" for three years before we started dating. We've been together for four years now and can't wait to get married in sunny SoCal, Mr. Daffodil's hometown.
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I’m not sure how many newlywed couples get to put their vows into practice the first week after they are married, but we turned out to be one of them. That’s right… on day five, I woke up and did not feel so good. In fact, I felt horrible. It wasn’t just one of the bugs you could get from traveling to a foreign country. In addition to tummy problems, I had a full-on fever and the worst body aches I had ever experienced in my life.

To be honest, I think I actually started feeling a little bit funny a couple days before the wedding, but the adrenaline had kept it all away. Once we were finally and truly relaxed, my body seemed to have just crashed.

I like this simple picture, which we took that morning instead of heading out to take scenic sunrise photos. Mr. D gave me a big hug and said to me, don’t worry, I am going to take care of you smiley109.

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If there is one tip I can offer to any honeymooner:

PACK SOME BASIC MEDS. In fact, you may as well pack a mini first aid kit. Every destination is different, and you never know how challenging it may be to find what you might need. French Polynesia was particularly difficult. Medicine, even OTC ones like ibuprofen or antihistamines, were available only through pharmacies which all had some weird hours. Many were only open for a couple hours a day, and they were closed on weekends.

My fever was getting worse, and I couldn’t even move. The hotel’s staff was kind but unable to help, so Mr. D ended up going around the resort to different guests to see if they happened to have had any Advil or Tylenol. Luckily, we found a woman who gave us half a pack of aspirin.

The next couple of days, we took it easy. I was usually feeling incredibly ill in the evenings and early mornings, and all I could do was sleep. Mr. D was so sweet though, and suggested that we go lay by the beach, so that we could at least enjoy our beautiful surroundings. It was the perfect idea, and in the occasional moments when I felt better, I was able to immediately jump in the water!

Here I am, completely passed out on the beach… the only person wrapped in a towel!

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But it was worth it to lay out by the scenic view of the bungalows and the lagoon…

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I usually felt better in the afternoons, after a ton of rest and after the aspirin kicked in! So Mr. D and I still got to enjoy the water smiley109.

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You know you are newlyweds when you can have fun even in some fairly unlucky circumstances smiley109.

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Up next: We bid farewell to the island of Moorea and head back to Tahiti, and Mr. D starts getting sick too…

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24 Responses to “Our Tahitian Honeymoon! Pt. IV - In Sickness and In Health”

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Miss Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

Are you sure you didn’t hire a professional photo to follow you around on your honeymoon? That first shot is so sweet :)

 
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cannotwait (message)  1,036 posts, Bumble bee

oh no! Did you ever get a diagnosis?

 
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Gery

Sad to hear abt that! But my gosh that first pic shows so so so much love from Mr D to you! Love it!

 
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Samantha

That first picture is beautiful. It almost looks like it should be in some sort of advertisement.

 
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desiredfocusphotography (message)  1 posts, Wannabee

you sound so optimistic! I’m glad that the horrible sickness didn’t prevent you from having the best honeymoon!
Sarah

 
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Vee

Mrs D., who is taking your pictures?

 
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Becca

Lovely photos! I understand, I got horribly sick on our wedding night, just hours before we had to catch a flight. A bit of TLC from my new hubby and I was enjoying our honeymoon, despite the momentary setback. Glad you got to enjoy the beauty around you!

 
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PrettyKitty (message)  505 posts, Busy bee

I’m so sorry you were ill, but it was totally sweet of your hubby to take care of you. And I agree that first picture is amazing!

 
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Nstar

Awww… Mr. D is so sweet :)

 
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mlindsey (message)  349 posts, Helper bee

That’s REAL love!

 
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Claire

It seems really common for honeymooners to get sick. I often get sick on vacation. I think it is because your body is finally like “ahh I can relax”.

 
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Miss Coconut (message)  337 posts, Helper bee

You two are so adorable!

 
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Angie

Wow! The first and fourth pictures could be engagement photos.

 
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MsJoe (message)  157 posts, Blushing bee

That really sucks you got sick. It gets me worried when i go on my honeymoon. We’re only going for a week and I never traveled that long for awhile but we are leaving for our honeymoon a week after our wedding, which will help. Good advice about bringing an emergency kit. I will def do that plus airborne and lots of telenoyl.

 
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Nicole R.

I agree w/ Miss Avocado! May I ask what kind of camera you have??? It takes some really good pictures.

 
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Mrs. Daffodil (message)  561 posts, Busy bee

@cannotwait: we didn’t go to a doc, but that’s because mr. d is one! he said it was just a really bad virus…!

@Vee: Mr. D had brought a tripod, which was how we got some of the pics of us together! In the fourth one, a guy we bumped into at the hotel helped us out :P

@Nicole R.: Mr. D says it is a “canon digital slr xti”…I think there were some other numbers in there, but i forgot what he said, so i’ll have to ask him again!

 
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Nicole R.

Ok… I would greatly appreciate it :)

 
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dreambml (message)  486 posts, Helper bee

oh no! I know the feeling….not fun. I had the same issues, but refused to stay in. I had an ear infection too, so we couldn’t go do water activities. It was 90 degrees out. But everything else, I was like, I refuse to have a bad honeymoon. I stayed medicated, got through it, and the 2nd to last day there, husband ended up sick! It is definitely because I was pushing myself way too hard before, and the second the wedding was over and we were up all night then flew most of the day, I was sick. For those of you who aren’t married yet - make sure to take care of yourself and relax as much as possible the couple weeks before the wedding! Even try taking airborne then as well.

 
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Mrs. Violet (message)  255 posts, Helper bee

I love the first shot.. definitely captured the moment perfectly! I’m sorry you got sick though =(

 
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Alexis

I know what you mean. We just got back from our honeymoon in Hawaii. My husband got appendicitis on day 4 and he had an appedectamy in Maui!

 
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Miss Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

I love how your first picture captures the sweetness of the moment. I’m so sorry you got sick though… and Mr. D :(

 
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kbok

love the recap! so sorry about getting sick on your honeymoon though.. that sucks. (at least you were able to go on one! my husband is a resident so we won’t be able to go anywhere for a few years.) i’ll keep your advice in mind so that in the future when we do go on a trip, we’ll be prepared.

 
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sarah

mr. daffodil looks naked in the first picture

 
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Mrs. Daffodil (message)  561 posts, Busy bee

@sarah: very funny, sister daffodil :P

 


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