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Playing Dress Up: The Bridesmaids

September 5th, 2008 @ 12:53 pm by Mrs. Lemonade

I think I might have a problem. I’ve spent the past three months agonizing over what to dress my pretty bridal babes in. It has to be formal. It needs to be navy blue. The ladies insist it must be roomy enough to cut a serious (more likely than not, drunken) rug in. Easy enough, right? Wrong.

I have two bridesmaids and one maid of honor. That’s only three girls. And yet, I seem to have chosen three ladies with the most polar opposite body types (although the one thing they all have in common is being quite, um, endowed in the chesticular region). Now, I know it’s quite fashionable to dress ‘em up in different gowns that are all similar but are different styles, but I really love the traditional coordinating dresses. I mean, I big puffy heart matching bridesmaids, and matching in general!

I also have it in my head that I want the dresses to be floor length gowns. I’m not saying that my gals hate this idea, but I do distinctly remember my sister saying something along the lines of, “It’s a good thing Mom and Dad are buying my dress ‘cause I know I’ll never wear a long dress like that again.” A bummer, but probably true.

Lastly, we have the issue of the Island Bridesmaid. It would be nice if the dress could be ordered online, since one of my best friends/bridesmaids will be in the middle of the Caribbean until February.

All these factors add to my hesitation to make a decision. I’ve already turned to Mr. Lemonade, my parents, and many lovely random residents of the Great State for advice… perhaps you could help?

I’ve narrowed the field down to three contenders. Two are from designers that are featured at the boutique where I purchased Jackie, and one is from J. Crew.

Exhibit A:

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I present to you the Siri Caterina gown. If we choose this style, we would be ordering it in a deep midnight blue dupioni silk. It’s got a full skirt (dancing ability unhindered? Check!), pockets (!!), and comes in gorgeous fabrics. It is the middle option in terms of price and it’s definitely a contender (did I mention it has POCKETS? Awesome!).

Exhibit B:

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These are Simple Silhouettes gowns. I absolutely ADORE their entire line of dresses. My ladies would be sporting a custom hybrid of a few styles that would have a mock wrap neckline, empire waist, full length skirt, and bow embellishment at the empire waist. As I’ve mentioned before, I love me some bows something fierce.  This hybrid dress would tie in with my dress, and Simple Silhouettes offers some killer fabrics as well (their interpretation of navy is MY kind of navy, a dark rich midnight blue).

Plus, through Simple Silhouettes, I could get a great send-off dress for myself and we’d all save 20% when ordering as a group, which would make these dresses our most affordable option.

Which brings us to our last choice, Exhibit C:

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This one is from J. Crew. Oh, J. Crew. I truly love the Crew. This particular dress is the “Sophia” long dress, and the most expensive ones we’re looking at. I know a lot of brides have relied on the Sophia, and she hasn’t let them down. Of course, there’s the a-freakin’-mazing coupon codes that J. Crew sends out frequently. A bonus for this dress is that my bridesmaids can simply log onto the internet and order this dress themselves. Easy peasy!

It’s so hard for me to decide!

Which dress do you like best? Any and all help on this monumental decision is greatly appreciated!

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52 Responses to “Playing Dress Up: The Bridesmaids”

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nyckim

Sophia! I’m doing Sophia short in black for my girls- and I own the Sophia short in navy myself. I have worn it to lots of weddings and I love it. The navy looks so great in the silk.

 
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Miss Sweet Tea (message)  461 posts, Helper bee

Wow - what great choices! Here’s my 2 cents: the Siri gown is very cool, but I think that for less slim ladies, the amount of fabric gathered on top and bottom may be less flattering than the model-y picture above. My vote is with Simple Silhouettes- if I had more than one BM, it would’ve been perfect to order from them! Love their styles, fabrics, colors, etc. And while the J. Crew is nice, it’s more expensive and a little less unique. SS is best ;)

 
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DCbrideinATL (message)  142 posts, Blushing bee

I think both Options 2 & 3 are beautiful…and are more likely to be worn again.

[A quick comment in that vein -- my best friend had a floor length bridesmaid dress altered to a super cute knee-length dress after the wedding that she's gotten a lot of wear out of...perhaps an option for your sister?]

 
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Laura

I had three bridesmaids all in navy too! Except that my wedding was back in July so looking for navy dresses in the spring time (on three very tight budgets) was less then easy peasy.

I love the Sophia dress, so pretty.

Good luck!

 
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MrsDavis (message)  251 posts, Helper bee

I vote for the Jcrew dress. very pretty

 
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Katie

I think the SS or Sophia have the most potential to be worn again, and are more appropriate for alterations like shortening, if that’s what your ladies want after the wedding. As for the SS - least expensive = good. You’re right about the J Crew sales though - my ivory Sophia (which is my wedding dress) cost me a cool $70!!!

 
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triciaj (message)  257 posts, Helper bee

I also second DC bride - why not shorten it to a cute cocktail (or if you’re daring, a mini) length after the wedding?

I totally love SS, so that’d be my vote!

 
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Shanna

I think the Sophia dress and the Simple Silhouette dresses look like they would be more flattering to a variety of body types than the first dress (as Sweet Tea has already stated). I say if you can hold out for a J Coupon then go with those because it would be very easy and they are beautiful.

 
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tea (message)  7,263 posts, Bee Keeper

i like the simple silhouettes dresses. i agree with miss st in that those dresses would look a bit more unique than the j. crew one.

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  7,730 posts, Bee Keeper

As a lady who is also well endowed in the chesticular region I would like to advise against the J Crew dresses - the first dress, I think, looks better on smaller chested woman b/c all that fabric is going to make a larger chested girl look bigger :-/ as for dress #3 - I would have to try it on, but J Crew in general doesn’t fit my chest, I would have to buy a least a size bigger and have the rest altered down.
I do however, really like option #2.
I hope you don’t think I’m being rude, I just thought I should share :)

 
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KS

Definitely the J. Crew Sophia. Empire waist dresses are really heard to wear without looking pregnant…and in my experience BM dress shopping, the SS dresses would require quite a bit of alteration for anyone who needs to order based on their chest size. Not to mention the fact that SS is a custom order, so if something goes awry with Island Bridesmaid you might have to order a whole other dress. Plus, you already know the Sophia looks great in a shorter length, so the old ’shorten it and wear it again’ line is actually true :) Just watch the J. Crew website for a good sale, and definitely utilize their bridal coordinator!

 
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rebecca (message)  1,315 posts, Bumble bee

The J Crew dress is beautiful, but can all of your bridesmaids sport that style? I’m skinny but have an hourglass figure, and if I wear something with that kind of waist, it makes my hips look HUGE. Just something to think about!

 
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hbowar (message)  547 posts, Busy bee

I would vote for 3. The girls could get it hemmed after the wedding into a shorter dress and possibly wear again!

 
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Mel

I have 7 bridesmaids and had them choose one of the JCrew dresses- they had to choose between the Sophia and the Rebecca in the color that I wanted (it’s a lime green that came out in the spring). That way they could decide what style worked best for their body. And even though online it says the dresses are only available in certain sizes, styles and colors, make sure your girls call directly because sometimes they have the color/style/size that you need but don’t have it posted on the website. All of my girls are very happy with their dresses and definitely want to wear them again!

 
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Nstar

I also think that Exhibit A would not be flattering on most (read: non-modely-thin) body types. The other two are lovely!

 
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tanya2s

I’ve heard that (as AliCherri says) J Crew dresses tend to only work for women who are not quite so… endowed, in the chest region. So if your bridesmaids are more than a B to C cup, the Sophia might not be their best option.

I’d go with the custom Silhouette dresses.

 
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ktdid23

I know this isn’t so much one of your choices, but my girls are in navy floor length gowns by Alfred Angelo and they love them! Perfect for ladies of all sizes (my girls - all 6 - vary in body sizes from a size 0 up to a size 14), it has gathers int he right places and fits everyone to a T! Its style number 6493. But of the 3 you chose, I do love exhibit B!

 
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Lucy

I wore a navy Simple Silhouettes dress for my stint as a bridesmaid and I loved it!

 
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AlliD

I like #2 and #3… but I’d have to say I love the waist on #3.

 
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Lena

My maids are wearing the long Sophia in black so that would be my choice! I noticed they upped the price of the dress in the last month or so though. Kind of a bummer.

 
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Mrs. Lemonade, Austin/San Antonio Age and Occupation: 28, Bureaucrat Fiance's Age and Occupation: 28, Music Management Engagement Date: December 21, 2007 Wedding Date: April, 2009 Blogging Since: August 22, 2008 Venue: Country Club ceremony, ballroom reception About Me: I’m a total wonkette who is lucky enough to be surrounded by her favorite things on a daily basis – awesome music, the great State of Texas and of course, Mr. Lemonade! I find any excuse I can to craft something and am completely infatuated with the 1950’s, all things Kennedy, and my furbaby Vida.

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