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Mrs. Avocado, Seattle Age and Occupation: 23, Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Consultant Engagement Date: July 27, 2008 Wedding Date: October, 2008 Blogging Since: June 30, 2008 Venue: LDS Seattle Temple & Hotel 1000 About Me: Somehow this little farm girl found herself a genuine Pole to fall in love and eventually move away to Poland with. I am an LDS bride attempting to plan a private religious ceremony, ring ceremony, seated reception for 100, and an open house while coordinating for guests flying in from across the United States and as far away as Poland. I try to avoid fads, excess waste, and saturated fat. I strongly endorse photography, DDR, calorie counting, rss feeds, cooking, and utilizing your resources.
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Stressarrhea

September 9th, 2008 @ 1:17 pm by Mrs. Avocado

We are 32 days away from our wedding. We have not sent out invitations yet. These two factors combined have created a chemical reaction in me known as:

Symptoms may include an uncontrollable desire to whine and complain, tension headaches, stress eating, and a poopy attitude about life in general. It is diagnosed by checking a person’s to-do list (in this case, the bride’s) and analyzing the number of overdue items. The more overdue items present on the list will increase the severity of Stressarrhea. If you suffer from this condition, don’t lose hope!

Treatment involves spending less time browsing wedding eye candy in the blog world, and spending more time tackling items on the aforementioned to-do list.

My treatment involves liberal doses of attempting to cut back on blog browsing. It also involves a bridal shower invitation.

The ladies in my hometown, specifically my mom’s group of best friends, are throwing me a bridal shower! Erm, I guess I should say, a Bridal Movie Shower.
Today I was running around the house half dressed, complaining about being called in to work on my day off, when my mom pointed out that there was a message written on the back of the ticket in my invitation. I stood in my room in my underwear and cried a little tear of joy when I read it.

Even though I know it should be one of the last things that we should be worrying about, gifts actually sit towards the top of our list. We are getting married in Washington, but will be living in Texas, and we have no plans to ever drive directly between Washington and Texas shortly after the wedding. Or ever, for that matter. I have been to enough weddings in my area to know that in my hometown, we are not cash and gift card people. People love to give tangible gifts, but as the poem indicates, moving all of those items would be really hard for us. It meant a lot to me that these ladies took our move into consideration, and helped us to spread the word to just a few more people.

I am still showing symptoms of Stressarrhea. This cute little card lightened the load considerably though. The wedding invitations still won’t be in the mail tomorrow, but I’m feeling at peace with that fact right now. All I can do is get up and tackle the items on our to-do list one day at a time.

What have you found to be the best treatment for your Stressarrhea?

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17 Responses to “Stressarrhea”

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rebecca (message)  1,316 posts, Bumble bee

That’s a great little poem — I wish I had come across this in June when my showers were held! FedEx made a boatload off of us. =/

 
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ErinMarieMack (message)  642 posts, Busy bee

Awww! I am sorry you are feeling stressed. I am sure that you will pull it all of in the end, one little detail at a time:)

 
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katie

I am battling a major case of Stressarrhea right now! The wedding is in ELEVEN days. And what do I get in the mail today??? A reply card saying “Yes - we will attend” ummm WHAT??? The RSVP date was August 22!!! It is SEPTEMBER NINTH!!! We just finished our seating chart last night. AHHHHHHHHHH
Time to go fill that prescription for Ativan the doctor gave me ;-)

 
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Becky

Just hang in there and take everything one day (or to-do list item) at a time - everything will fall into place!
:) becky

 
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livvie (message)  136 posts, Blushing bee

Did you send save-the-dates? If so, then at least people generally know when the wedding is. Do people need to make any kind of travel arrangements for the wedding? If so, I’d send them an email and explain the situation.

 
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katie r

I got married last August in Louisville, KY and we were living in Vegas. We shipped some stuff and managed to get a lot in luggage (when you could still have many suitcases) but people really were totally wonderful about gift cards. We are still spending pier 1, bed bath and beyond and macys cards. We ran through the target ones quickly :) but its been wonderful to have exactly what I want as I need it…. Don’t stress you’ll be amazed how perfectly everything works out… easier said than done :)

 
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jennred782 (message)  355 posts, Helper bee

That is such a cute shower idea, and I love how they put you would prefer gift cards without it sounding like you want cash very clever friends you have.

 
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Michelle

Are you going to send out invites at all?

Cute shower invites.

 
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PurpleLime

Just breathe, everything will be ok :) I just noticed the comment you made on my blog a while ago, thanks and I’m glad I provided some laughs!

Love that invite and poem…a movie shower is a great idea. You’ll have to let us know what you end up watching :)

 
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jackie

i just had the same situation…we live in TX, shower was in IA, and wedding will be in CA…my matron of honor put a little card in the invite saying “in consideration of travel, items may be shipped to the couple’s home address” Worked like a charm!

 
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Getmarried4Less/LadyT

oh! how cute!!! i was told by a bm the other week that i am bossy, so i will refain form forwarding this post to the bms as a strong hint for a “movie shower”…

what a cool idea!

girl, u know how i’m feeling with the invitations….hence i’ve been like a ghost around here….

 
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Miss Pomegranate (message)  956 posts, Busy bee

Uhm, those are some CUTE Bridal Shower invites!!! Kudos to your girls for coming up with THOSE! How fun! I’m excited to hear how it goes - sounds fun. :)

Stressarrhea? Bubble Baths. Lots of ‘em!

 
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Miss Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

@livvie: I finally did have to send out an email. I hope it was helpful. I couldn’t send them the wedding website link because it still wasn’t done though!

@Michelle: Yes! I have the prettiest invites just waiting to be stuffed and sent. I can’t wait to show them to all of you.

@Miss Pomegranate: I just put in a huge order from Lush today. I so need those bath bombs….

 
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Miss Sea Breeze (message)  912 posts, Busy bee

Oh honey! If you were nearby I’d drive over right NOW and help you stuff those gosh darn envelopes! Yes, baths help, but also back massages! Highly recommended.

 
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Shasha

Stressarrhea you say?? I dunked myself head first into sweet delish chips ahoy chocolate chip cookies this passed w/e.

While I don’t encouage such unbridely gorging…it felt SOOO good.

I say deep breathing. Eyes closed in a quite room for a few minutes when acute attacks strike and maybe…nibble on just one cookie. ONE I tell ya! Hehe

I’m off to fast for a few days. In the meantime good luck Miss Avo, everything will be just fine.

 
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Ambrosia

I’m feeling you… I’m getting married the day before you. My list is insane. I’ve got so much to do and I keep looking at eye candy on the web too. Such a hard thing for me to stick with the decisions I’ve already made…I feel your pain.

 
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Miss Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Sea Breeze: Sadly, no Mr. Avocado around to give me one!

@Ambrosia: Stop the blog stalking! It is good advice for both of us.

 


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