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Miss Fondue, Nashville Age and Occupation: 27, Technical Analyst Fiance's Age and Occupation: 25, Network Admin Student/Senior Game Advisor Engagement Date: December 25, 2007 Wedding Date: May 2009 Blogging Since: September 14, 2008 Venue: Ravenwood Golf Club About Me: I’m your average computer geek marrying a gaming geek and trying to find a good balance of elegance and geek chic in our wedding. I adore The Sims, Nintendo, cosplay, (good) music, TiVo, theme parks, and our two crazy felines.
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Damask Has Gotten Way Too Popular

October 18th, 2008 @ 1:55 pm by Ms Fondue

I always believed that having a theme or motif for your wedding helps you to not blow your budget. If you can only buy items that have a specific color/design on them, then that rules out a lot of stuff that doesn’t fit and so you never give it a second look.

However, every trip I make to Target, Wal-mart, or Hobby Lobby leaves me salivating over their newest black and white damask items. I find myself standing in the middle of the store, trying to come up with how I could possibly use a damask-print lampshade/crib set/paper plate/comforter/name-something-it-comes-in-damask in the wedding. I come up with all these insane ideas (clearly, the lampshade could be turned upside down and with a bowl inside could be used as a candy dish) before I finally snap back to reality and run out of the store screaming. I think this is why Mr. Fondue won’t come shopping with me.

The weirdest damask purchase I’ve made to date is a damask ballpoint pen. I reasoned that it could be used for the guestbook, purchased it, got home and then remembered what our guestbook plans were: black pages written on with white gel pens. However, I’m still positive that I can come up with something for this pen, so it remains, unopened, in my pile of wedding stuff.

So, you can imagine my glee when I was doing a (perfectly innocent) Google image search and came across….





Source: Tommy Bahama @ Zappos

Yes, damask bikini separates. No matter that I can’t wear them to the wedding. I can stay in theme for the honeymoon!

(Don’t worry. I haven’t actually bought a damask swimsuit. Yet.)

How has having a theme affected your budget?

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11 Responses to “Damask Has Gotten Way Too Popular”

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Miss Meatball (message)  613 posts, Busy bee

I love those swimsuits. Eff it - I say get one!

 
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Miss Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

Okay, I’ll admit that I was skimming your post and got to the swimsuit and thought, “She’s wearing a bikini for some part of her wedding?!! Wow! What a woman!” LOL

I think you should buy the swimsuit and return the pen. Call it net neutral and move on. :)

 
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StrawberryBaby (message)  296 posts, Helper bee

I just bought rubber rain boots that match my wedding colors!! Lol

 
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future grado

I just bought Damask rainboots from Naturalizer yesterday and today bought that very same swimsuit at the mall!! Damask is taking over my life too!!!! Helpppppp

 
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bellenga (message)  4,662 posts, Honey bee

I love it but…

what about TOILE! (giggle) Same pretty repeated patterns. I luvs me some toile!

In fact..I might not use the damask hat boxes I found b/c they have ones in toile too!

Vive la toile!

In fact, my guy’s guest bathroom in his home is done in toile! (the way the homebuilder designed it..he sure the heck didn’t do it! (giggle)

 
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Soon2BMrsElnels (message)  33 posts, Newbee

I have it as my background on friendsters…. and also considering it as our wedding theme I don’t know, there’s just something about it… as for the swimsuits, love them!

 
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VintageYu

Hullarious because I had a damask themed wedding in Aug and I felt the same way! Everything I saw I wanted to guy… pillows, glass votive holders, frames, everything… it did make me overbuy. But after awhile I just said heck… it’s one time in my life where I can splurge a little and I’m glad I will be able to look at the pattern forever and it give me fond memories of my wedding day.

 
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suzanno (message)  2,694 posts, Sugar bee

I think the point you want to aim for is somewhere between “nobody has thought of this before” - which makes it impossible to purchase anything that goes with your theme, even the materials to DIY, and “everybody and their dog is doing this” - which is the point at which it appears at Target. Seriously. I love Target, but the one thing you know when you buy something at Target is that a hundred million people are doing the exact same thing as you.

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

Those are so cute!!! :)
I have the damask dish set from Target, I love those dishes. I even bought the set for my MOH as a going away present!

 
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Amber

I am a sunflower fanatic anyway … so it only makes since that I would have sunflowers in my theme. I am definitely trying for the “less is more” though since too many sunflowers might be a little tacky.

 
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