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Mrs. Cookie, Denver Age and Occupation: 25, Nonprofit Fundraiser/Theatre Designer Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, Financial Analyst Engagement Date: September 2007 Wedding Date: September 2008 Blogging Since: May 8, 2008 Venue: Ten Mile Station About Me: With a degree in Theatre I never realized that planning a wedding was a lot like Theatre Management, until I started planning my own. I am a coffee addict, especially Starbucks' Grande Mochas, yummy! I love to cook (especially chocolate chip cookies for my honey), travel to exotic places, and be creative. As a couple, Mr. Cookie and I are extremely practical, down to earth, and children at heart. We live in a cozy abode with our adorable Pomeranian, and love to play board games and watch movies into the evening.
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At this point in the ceremony, the world had melted away. Truly, I was oblivious to all things—sans Mr. Cookie and our vows to each other.

In writing our ceremony we struggled with the type of vows we wanted to say: traditional vs. personal. There is something so timeless about the words, “I take you to be my husband. To have and to hold, for better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer, until we are parted by death,” and the fact that it has been spoken by a gazillion other couples, well, it just seemed right. On the other hand, those words don’t even begin to describe the deeply personal vows we wanted to make to one another. So, we did both.

Eye puffiness be damned, I cried my heart out as Mr. Cookie and I said our traditional vows to one another. I was a silly mess of emotion while I said mine. My voice cracked two or three times, and I barely got through, “until we are parted by death.” What can I say?! I love Mr. Cookie with all my heart and soul!

Mr. Cookie wasn’t done crying either from seeing me walk down the aisle. As I saw tears streaming down Mr. Cookie’s face, I reached to wipe them away.
Oh, but the waterworks didn’t stop there. I had an even rougher time holding back the tears with the personal vows. Mr. Cookie’s vows were elegant. He spoke from his heart, a place with boundless love. But more, his words struck me deep—deeper than I would have ever imagined. I had never felt more loved in my entire life.

Next was my turn, and time to inject a little humor into the ceremony. Mr. Cookie is by far the comedian in the relationship. He makes me laugh so hard sometimes I go into a I-can’t-breath-because-I-am-laughing-too-hard/cry mix. So, at the ceremony I took a moment to be the comedian.



My comedy routine lasted a whole two seconds, and I was right back to voice cracking. I could barely get through my vows because I was crying.
An exchange of rings…


…a kiss…

… I mean a dip!!!

Prior to the wedding, Mr. Cookie asked me how I would like to be kissed. My response: kiss me like the first time we kissed. Well, dipping me wasn’t exactly like the first time we kissed. Actually, the dip was a complete surprise to me. Instead, our kiss was a new first kiss. Our first kiss as husband and wife, and I would be lying if I didn’t say it swept me off my feet.


And there we were, the newlywed Mr. and Mrs. Cookie. The ceremony went fast. It really did. After months and hours of planning, this is what it was all about—getting married to my best friend in the entire world!

Next up, the Cookies make the deal legal, copious amounts of photos, and a lot more love!

All photography by IN Photography

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23 Responses to “Love Made Simple: Tears, Laughter, a Kiss, and Nothing But LOVE!”

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Mrs. Tiramisu (message)  877 posts, Busy bee

Love the dip, love the scenery, wow!

 
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Almostananderson (message)  140 posts, Blushing bee

Mrs. Cookie, I love, love, love, the picture of the ‘dip kiss’! It’s sooo romantic!

 
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gemasa7 (message)  2 posts, Wannabee

This is why we need to get a good Shooter…fast moments last a lot love your pics Cookie

 
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Bean

Those are such lovely pictures! The “dip kiss” is really, really cute!

Did I ever tell you how much I love your bouquet? It’s so pretty! :)

 
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Mrs. Penguin (message)  2,148 posts, Buzzing bee

What an incredible sky behind you! Love the cryface :) And the dip! Awesome! It showcases your dress so fantastically!

 
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Mrs. Emerald (message)  901 posts, Busy bee

love love LOVE everything!! *sigh*

 
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tina

Mrs. Cookie, I teared up many times reading this post! Well constructed and so touching. Also, so cute that the “C” on your aisle runner also stands for Cookie… C is for Cookie!

 
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hbowar (message)  545 posts, Busy bee

The far away dip picture is amazing!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,599 posts, Sugar bee

I love your recap posts, they are so sweet! The pictures look amazing, how wonderful to have these remind you of your ceremony! :)

 
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wendy

I, too, was torn between saying traditional and personal vows. So we decided to do both. I was wondering in what order to say them. It’s good to hear it worked well for you, both saying traditional vows first, then each saying personal vows.

 
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AbbieOinCO

I love that they were able to capture so many emotional shots. The mixing of traditional and personal vows is such a great idea. I like being able to make it your own. I’m afraid I’ll be a mess… and it doesn’t look pretty when I’m a mess. Red blotches everywhere. The wiping of the face and the dip are just too much! Love it.

 
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jules (message)  143 posts, Blushing bee

Fantastic pics! I love the dip picture too. Did you make the aisle runner yourself? It’s gorgeous. :)

 
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Mrs. Cookie (message)  784 posts, Busy bee

@jules: I did paint the aisle runner myself. It was a labor of love!

Ladies, thank you for indulging me as I stroll down memory lane and all your wonderful comments! Thank you!

 
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Mrs. Margarita (message)  369 posts, Helper bee

that was such a beautiful post. i honestly haven’t ever seen so much raw emotion. oh and i love the dip kiss :)

 
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Novemberguest

You consistently make me cry at work!

 
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Nicole

awwww… love the ceremony! You both are too adorable with your cry faces!

 
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RenaissanceTrophyWife

sigh… how romantic! love the dip kiss pics!

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,715 posts, Bumble bee

Those pictures captured the sentiments of the day so well already . . . but then you add beautiful captions. Loveliness overload!

 
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Jellybean77 (message)  77 posts, Worker bee

you look absolutely BEAUTIFUL! I teared up reading about your waterworks during your own vows. haha =)

that dip kiss is fantastic! hhaha

 
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dckatiebug

these turned out spectacular … like something out of a magazine!

 
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frenchbulldog (message)  6,063 posts, Bee Keeper

Awwww these made me tear up, so sweet!

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

That is quite the dip! I can’t believe you didn’t practice beforehand. Me? I’m NOT a good dipper.

 
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Mrs. Coconut (message)  337 posts, Helper bee

Okay, I just teared up at work. You’ve got to warn people before you do that! ;)

 


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