When we started planning, Mr. Fondue said he wanted two things: eight best men and a full bar. We’ve compromised a little on the bar due to budget constraints, but he definitely got his eight best men.
But he’s also had lots of input besides these two items. You may recall that he picked the flowers. He’s had lots of opinions on traditions. There was a lot of back and forth with our table names. He was involved in our music choices. He’s been in charge of contacting our venue (he’s spoken with them many times, I have only twice). And I think he’s more worried about having glassware than I am.
He gives me an honest opinion on every DIY project I come up with. He’s insanely proud of our invitations and shows them off to everyone. He thinks the coasters are silly. He completely vetoed the idea of personalized “Do Not Disturb” signs to put in our hotel welcome bags.
Some brides might find this annoying. Some might want to just be able to do whatever they want to carry out their dream wedding.
But I adore having his input. It’s his wedding too, and I’m happy to listen to his opinions and compromise when necessary. Reasons #249 and #250 of Why I Love Mr. Fondue? “You help me out with projects for our wedding” and, “You give your opinion when I ask for it, without sugar coating it.” He is truly what I am thankful for this Thanksgiving.
Is your significant other involved in your wedding planning as much as you’d like?
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