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Mrs. Cheese, Knoxville Age and Occupation: 29, Engineering Manager Fiance's Age and Occupation: 27, CAD Designer Engagement Date: July 31, 2008 Wedding Date: May, 2009 Blogging Since: October 16, 2008 Venue: Our home and the two acres it sits on About Me: I’m an emotional girl who loves sentimental things, parenthetical asides, and trying to do things herself. I can cook, sew, am a whiz at planning, terrible at delegating, and totally in love with my fiancé (who will be my second husband but first love of the rest of my life). For our home/ garden/ DIY wedding, we’ll be moonlighting as interior designers, home improvers, and gardeners with the help of our fabulous friends and neighbors. We can’t wait to be married, and are learning how fun getting married can be.
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Sssssh. I Have a Secret…

November 30th, 2008 @ 12:06 am by Mrs. Cheese

We bought my wedding ring today… and I may or may not be wearing mine while I type this (ssssh, the mister’s in the other room)!

I mean, I HAVE TO in order to blog about it, right? How else will I describe it to you with the accuracy and detail that you expect of me? I’M DOING IT FOR YOU. {That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.}

We took a break from renovating our bathroom (more on that later) to play hooky. We took a dance lesson (more on that later, too), stuffed ourselves with food, hit Best Buy and Sears… and while we wandering the mall to avoid coming home to more work, we stumbled into a jewelry store that was going out of business.

Take a moment to understand the significance here. Jewelry. Store. Clearance. 80%. Discount. Y’all know I’m thrifty (fine, fine, cheap) from the fact that I didn’t even want to pay David’s Bridal prices for a dress, so you have an inkling of the joy that filled my heart.

We looked at a plain gold band, a simple diamond band, an eternity band and a pave band with diamonds on all three sides (did I mention the 80% discount?), and we decided that the sparkly simple band looked best with my engagement ring.

While I wanted an eternity band, my desire for an engraved message (more on that later) won out. Also, I like the sparkliness of the band when I wear it alone, which I expect to do for the first little while after we have kids. And did I mention that it was on sale? Warms this cheese’s heart.

{Mr. Cheese just walked in and had a whole conversation with me — all while my hands were practically in his face resting on my laptop — and didn’t notice. Score. Um, except that now I’m tempted to see how long I can wear it before he notices. A little nutty? Maybe!}

It looks sort of like this (I can’t take a picture of it without totally blowing my secret, so I’ll have to do it when the mister isn’t here):

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We also started a registry at Williams-Sonoma, decided on our wedding party, and I made my first DIY project this weekend (more on all of that later).

{I thought I got caught with the ring when he looked over my shoulder at my screen and smiled, but he was making fun of me for being a blogging addict instead.}

Yippee! Anyone wanna bet on how long I can wear this thing before he notices? And c’mon, tell the truth: did you secretly wear your wedding ring before the big day? You did, didn’t you? C’mon, you can tell Miss Cheese.

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18 Responses to “Sssssh. I Have a Secret…”

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Tosha

8.0.%.off?! GREAT FIND!!

 
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lilythespitfire (message)  114 posts, Blushing bee

OMG…I have worn my eternity wedding band like five times already. I can’t get over having it on my hand and just seeing it as a set. Fiance knows and he just takes it in stride since I’m silly like that. He doesn’t even blink! I have a plain band too when I don’t want the bling…so yeah I can totally understand wearing it! Have fun with it!

 
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Miss Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

@lilythespitfire: LOL. Do you wear the plain band surreptitiously as well?

 
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Jess

We haven’t purchased our wedding bands yet, but I know I’ll wear mine before we get married….if he doesn’t hide mine! :D

 
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Em

We keep ours together in a box by the bed, and sometimes I insist we put them on together on weekend mornings :P

 
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Lillindy (message)  4,237 posts, Honey bee

The day we picked ours up from the jeweler (who is located in San Francisco) we wore them around while we were hanging out in the city to keep them safe…cuz ya know they are the safest on your finger. :D

 
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lilythespitfire (message)  114 posts, Blushing bee

@ Miss Cheese: Nope, fiance has confiscated the plain one. He has it and I’ve only ever gotten two tries for that one. *sniffs*

 
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NiceWedding

We haven’t bought mine yet, but Mr. Nice has been wearing HIS around everywhere - on his right hand, though. :-)

 
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Amanda71109

this is soo funny because It kills me not to wear my ring..sometimes I put it on and stare at it in the mirror..I just cant wait to wear it..but the MR said it has to be put away tell july..sigh

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

LOL, if we had ours I would do it all the time!!! We’ve picked them out but haven’t bought them just for that reason! Congrats on such a great find!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,598 posts, Sugar bee

It’s beautiful!!! My friend (the robot groom, did you see that post) began wearing his ring as soon as they got it, which was a few weeks before the wedding. I thought it was really cute!

 
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Miss Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

@Miss Taffy: Aw, that is sweet! Except, is it sweet bc he’s a guy (YES)? If it was the girl, we’d think she was… just like us! A little craa-azy! Ha.

 
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Miss Champagne (message)  1,068 posts, Bumble bee

Champ and I tried on our rings yesterday but he wouldn’t let me take them home for fear of this:( I wanted to give it a test drive!!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,598 posts, Sugar bee

@Miss Cheese: lol, didn’t mean it that way, but I can see what you mean! Ah, stereotypes.

 
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Jess

My Mister thinks he has hidden my band… well… he doesn’t hide very well. I try it on at least once a week! I love to see both of my rings together!! It makes me giddy!! :)

 
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Jasmine

LOL you’re crazy Miss Cheese! NO I’m not wearing mine until the day …it’s tucked away in my father’s closet :)

 
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Miss Cheese (message)  647 posts, Busy bee

@Jess: LOL! My kind of girl. I work from home, so I’ve come up with a thousand different good reasons to go put it on (don’t you think I need to “practice” wearing it and typing?) but so far I’ve held off.

Oh, and I did get caught. He noticed, but didn’t say anything. :)

 
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Starry-Eyed Barefoot Bride

Mine is being held hostage!! We ordered FI’s ring, and then found out that my ring, if ordered was going to be $100s more than the one in store because it’s price hadn’t been updated in more than a year!! And the one in store fit PERFECTLY - so i bought it. But FI wont let me bring it home until he has his - and then he’s going to hide it!! =( But meanwhile, the store is 1 block away from my office… so I visit my poor hostage ring on lunch break!! =)

 


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