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Mrs. Crab Cake, Columbus, GA Age and Occupation: 25, Registered Nurse Fiance's Age and Occupation: 31, Director of Education and Living History for a museum Engagement Date: April 6, 2008 Wedding Date: June, 2009 Blogging Since: November 26, 2008 Venue: Holy Family Catholic Church, reception: National Infantry Museum About Me: I'm a perfectionist trying to balance two jobs, motherhood, my craft obsession, and wedding planning. I am obsessed with all things wedding, especially creative ideas for saving money and DIY projects. A Southern Belle at heart, I love anything southern, especially sweet tea, grits, afternoon thunder storms, crab cakes, and good old Southern hospitality. Mr. Crab Cake and I are planning a vintage inspired wedding with tons of Southern flare (can y'all say that with a thick Southern drawl?).
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(Not) a Fashionista

December 26th, 2008 @ 2:19 pm by Mrs. Crab Cake

As if putting together the wedding day ensemble wasn’t difficult enough, we brides have to have two (sometimes three or four) well designed, classy outfits.

I am kinda lazy when it comes to fashion. I wear jeans and tennis shoes most days. T-shirts and cardigans. I’m just not that motivated to get up on my days off and get dressed up. Hey, at least I wear makeup and fix my hair on a regular basis!

So, aside from coordinating my wedding day ensemble, I am trying to put together a super cute rehearsal outfit.

I had originally decided to make my rehearsal dress. I simply had my heart set on the perfect design and didn’t want to stray. I even bought the fabric. But here we are, 6 months out and I haven’t made my muslin mock-up. And I have way too many other project to work on to toil with making my own dress. So, I re-purposed that gorgeous dupioni silk (more on that later) and went back to the drawing room.

But then I was back at square one. I don’t really care that much about looking “bridal.” I do want to be able to wear the dress again, and I know I won’t if it’s white/ivory. I’m not particularly interested in matching the color scheme. I have an image of what I would dress Mr. Crab Cake in if it were up to me (and I might pick out his clothes for him, but again, more on that later). And since we were going with the vintage theme, I thought it would be fun to wear a vintage dress.

This isn’t the first time I’ve shopped for vintage dresses, so I had a good idea of where to look first. I went straight to TrashyDiva. They have some really amazing vintage looks. Their prices leave a bit to be desired, but I can splurge this one time.

Some of my favorites:

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(Alexa in Heavy Weight Silk Crepe de Chine)

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(Carrie in Silk Georgette)

This one makes me think of Mrs. Avocado, I believe she would look fantastic in it and I think it matches LDS modesty standards.

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(Dottie in Toile, Cotton Voile)

I really love this dress, but I think my Aunt is going to be wearing it to the wedding, so I should probably pick something else.

I think I’ve narrow it down to these two dresses.

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(Ava in Black and White Dots, Cotton Voile)

I really love this style, but it’s white.

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(Avian in Navy Embroidered Eyelet Cotton Voile)

I am really in love with this dress, just not its price.

And while I’m not adverse to buying new shoes, I have these really cute vintage style flats that I’d love to wear.

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(Selena Flats from Target)

So what do you girls think? Which dress should I wear? Should I wear the yellow flats, or look for something else?

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25 Responses to “(Not) a Fashionista”

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MsUsUk (message)  108 posts, Blushing bee

yellow flats + blue dress = awesome!

perhaps a yellow hair flower to top off the look?

 
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Shanna

Ditto to MsUsUk love the blue dress with the yellow shoes.

 
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Wolff2Be (message)  171 posts, Blushing bee

@MsUsUk: I definitely agree!! :)

 
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Miss Glitter (message)  880 posts, Busy bee

I agree with MsUsUk and Wolff2Be!! Look at your vintage loveliness!! You’re gonna look amazing!

 
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MsUsUk (message)  108 posts, Blushing bee

Though I ADORE that navy dress and would get it if I could a afford it, this dress:

http://www.modcloth.com/store/ModCloth/Womens/Dresses/Lucky+Clover+Dress

is sort of like a hybrid of the two you like and is on sale.

 
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MissCricket

yellow flats and navy dress!

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

The best part about your guess that I would like the dress? I was moving my mouse to click over and take a look at the dress on the website before I even read what you wrote! I’m really really excited about this dress site. It’s really difficult to find dresses with sleeves, and I LOVE so many of these silhouettes. I was just exploring their website and their is a velvet dress on sale that would have been perfect for Mr. Avo’s company party. I’m sure I can think of another reason to buy one though :)

Thank you so much for introducing me to this website! Yay, I’m going to have so much fun window shopping! I’ll have to write a post up on my own blog as well, since a lot of my friends will be excited to look at some of these. Thanks Crab Cake!

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,407 posts, Bumble bee

Well I guess I could be helpful and leave some feedback for you :) I love the idea of the yellow flats and the navy dress. I almost wore the same color combo for my engagements!

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,715 posts, Bumble bee

I second, third, fourth, fifth the highest vote getter: yellow flats and the navy dress. Fab combo!!

 
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LatteLove

white polka dots with yellow flats all the way! WHo cares if you wear white…it’s white you could wear again. :-)

 
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Miss Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

You guys are so wonderful! I’ve been leaning towards that blue dress. It’s so stinking expensive. But I think y’all have me talked into it!

 
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Miss Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

@Mrs. Avocado: Oh, I am so glad you like that dress! I love that website, and they have some great blouses and shoes too! I’m completely unfamiliar with the LDS modesty standards, but I probably live by most of them (except the sleeve part, cause it’s way too hot in Ga to wear sleeves!). And I’m pretty sure you can find a reason to buy another dress, I always can!

 
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yelli

I have those yellow flats and wore then for my engagement photos….they are so cute and very comfy!

 
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Sara

Ms CrabCake you have picked a wonderful store. They are local here in New Orleans and i have been to the store a number of times. I just wanted to let you know that the dresses are so much more beautiful in person. If you decide on them you will not be dissapointed. The quality of the dresses are amazing. I bought a corset from Trashy Diva last year and it is awesome too! Oh and if I could pick your outfit it would totally be the blue dress and yellow flats.

 
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chichibee

Whatever you do - GET THE SHOES! I just wore them yesterday when my maids picked ordered their dresses and for the BM luncheon. They are so comfortable and stylish!

 
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Miss Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

@Sara: Are the dresses true to size? My bachelorette party is in NOLA in March and I was thinking about waiting until then to buy it so I could try it on. What do you think?

 
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sara

The size charts are really helpful. If you haven’t looked there yet check them out. there is a different chard for each dress and info on how they run and what would be the best fit. That helped me out a TON. also did you see the trixie2 dress is on sale in some colors for $35!!!!!!! I have no reason to get one but at $35 why not! I bet if you bought a dress and had it shipped to you and it didn’t fit you could return it when you went to the store. Let us know what you decide.

 
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Loralie

@Sara: I totally didn’t realize Trashy Diva was in NOLA until I read your post - then I realized I’ve actually been IN that store before and a friend of mine also got a corset from there that she LOVES! Thanks for the reminder - I may be making a stop there when I go for my next wedding dress fitting at the end of this month.

 
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Mrs. Bee (message)  3,261 posts, Sugar bee

i hope you don’t mind, but i bought that avian dress! it was too cute. ;)

 
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Miss Crab Cake (message)  818 posts, Busy bee

@Mrs. Bee: I don’t mind at all… but I do want some feed back when you get it. Is it true to size? How does the fabric feel (I’m a total fiber snob)? Etc…

 
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DIY Linen Flowers « Jennifer and Matt 6.20.2009

[...] Someone suggested a yellow hair flower, and I automatically thought of this tutorial I had bookmarked. [...]

 
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[...] Someone suggested a yellow hair flower, and I automatically thought of this tutorial I had bookmarked. [...]

 
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[...] of course I’m stressing about what I will wear. I purchased this blue dress after seeing it these posts by Miss Crab Cake. Source It fits great, but because I’m short (5′2″) I [...]

 
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Informative and entertaining. I’ve added your blog to my “reading material.” Keep me updated!

 
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