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Mrs. Avocado, Seattle Age and Occupation: 23, Student Fiance's Age and Occupation: 26, Consultant Engagement Date: July 27, 2008 Wedding Date: October, 2008 Blogging Since: June 30, 2008 Venue: LDS Seattle Temple & Hotel 1000 About Me: Somehow this little farm girl found herself a genuine Pole to fall in love and eventually move away to Poland with. I am an LDS bride attempting to plan a private religious ceremony, ring ceremony, seated reception for 100, and an open house while coordinating for guests flying in from across the United States and as far away as Poland. I try to avoid fads, excess waste, and saturated fat. I strongly endorse photography, DDR, calorie counting, rss feeds, cooking, and utilizing your resources.
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Finally we had arrived at the photo shoot I was most looking forward to that day! My bridesmaids were looking hot in their non-matching dresses and mini veils, with their cocktail rings and black and gold shoes. The weather was cooperating and we only had to walk one block down to find a nice deserted street with all kinds of nooks and crannies with wonderful lighting.

You would think that my Roman bridal shoot would have prepared me for photos with a crowd of people gathered around, but I did feel oddly self conscious.

I love how the slightly pink tone of this wall really helps my dress pop.

One of my favorite photography “tricks” is when the photog asks the subjects to all look in different directions. When repeated two or three times in a row it can lead to some great shots (plus it really helps people loosen up instead of staring straight into the camera and smiling). Click to enlarge the photo below to see what I mean.

I wanted to get a photo with just my bridesmaids (no juniors or bridesman) and so my sister and I sat down on the big trunk together in front. I thought it seemed natural for us to hold hands like this…

but holding hands isn’t something we ever actually do together so she felt really silly. I love her!

Want to see another one of my photo tips? Whenever I’m “posing”, I move my head, eyes, and mouth around to different positions for each shot to help me relax and capture different angles. I tend to scrunch my eyes up and let my mouth get tight when I stare straight into the camera and smile for a long time. You will feel silly, and people will make fun of you, but I guarantee you’ll start getting better shots because of it.

While in Rome, my mom and I attended an antique fair and I fell in love with these gigantic and over-the-top cocktail rings. It was a fun surprise for them, and I did my best to try to match each girl’s personality with the ring she received.

Mine now sits on the ring holder in my kitchen. It’s so big I still haven’t found an event fantastic enough for me to justify wearing it.

Photo by me

We packed up our suitcases and walked down the street a little further to see if we could spot another good location. I promise I didn’t ask Bridesman Trevy to tag along just so he could schlep the bags for us, but it does look like that in this photo, doesn’t it?

I wish you all could meet my bridesman. He is definitely the coolest person I have ever met and I’m so glad I asked him to fly all the way out and be in my bridal party (my traditional family got such a kick out of asking a guy to be in the bridal party instead of asking him to be a groomsman).

We settled on a set of stairs, arranged ourselves, and scattered the suitcases for this awesomely vogue shot. Unfortunately we didn’t take into account that people would be walking up and down to get to and from Pikes Place market. It just meant we had to move over every once in a while to let streams of families through. I had budgeted a lot of time for these photos so we were able to get all the pictures we wanted even with the extra accommodations we had to make.

The three girls on the left in this photo are my double cousins! My parents got married, and then my mom’s sister and my dad’s brother decided to get married as well! Luckily all of their kids are our favorite cousins because we see them at every single family activity we attend, no matter which side of the family it is.

These are my college roommates for the last 4 years. Three of us met our freshman year of college, the 4th joined a year later, and we haven’t split up since (well until the marriage thing took two of us out of the game).

The purse my grandma knit for me worked great for keeping my hands off of my hips in every single pose. Don’t you love BM Meggie’s super long sash?

I was taking individual shots with each of the bridal party members, when I ran into a particular problem with Bridesman Trevy that I hadn’t encountered with the others. No matter what kind of pose we put ourselves in, he looked like a groom! We tried back to back…

arm in arm…

and a pose I definitely did with Mr. Avo earlier that day…

and so we finally decided that standing on the opposite sides of the stairs like we didn’t even like each other was the key. :)

I love this shot (hey, I’m not afraid to be the center of attention, okay?) but I’m not sure I love the ad for Dos Equis XX Imported Beer in the background. LOL. Ignoring that, it has really nice symmetry, and I like that it helps everyone look like they are about the same height.

I’d been keeping a watchful eye on the time, and all of the sudden it was time for me to get out of there. I’d promised Mr. Avocado I would be back at least 30 minutes before the ring ceremony so we could get some last minute things squared away.

As I was rushing up the stairs all Cinderella-like, I called over my shoulder, “Make sure and get a shot of all the bridesmaids together without me!”

Kelli Nicole follows orders really well.

Previously:

That Wedding: Bridesmaid Party!
That Wedding: Whole Foods (Rehearsal-ish) Luncheon
That Wedding: Harbor Sailing
That Wedding: Putting My Face On
That Wedding: The Gift Exchange
That Wedding: Dressing The Bride
That Wedding: Bridal Details
That Wedding: The First Look
That Wedding: Into The Woods
That Wedding: Woodsy Family Portraits
That Wedding: To Wed! To Wed!
That Wedding: Showered With Love, Coins, and Hugs
That Wedding: Group Shots With a Little Spice
That Wedding: Those Groomsmen
That Wedding: The Whole Party

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29 Responses to “That Wedding: Me and My Maids (+ Manmaid)”

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Stephanie

You look great in all of the pictures. I love the last shot of your girls!

My brother and I had the same problem when taking pictures together - our photographer kept posing us together like we were a couple!

That Dos Equis sign would be really easy to clone out in photoshop. Your photographer would probably be happy to do that if you ask. :)

 
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phruphru

You have such attractive friends and family — seriously! Beautiful photos and I love your posing tips! I am so weird in front of the camera, so I may try those tips.

 
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Miss Velvet Cake (message)  19 posts, Newbee

You’re such an inspiration, these photos are great! Did you buy the vintage suitcases?

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,411 posts, Bumble bee

@Miss Velvet Cake: My mom has been collecting them at antique and thrift stores and such since May. The largest one is one that I found at a seconhand shop for $10. My mom plans on using them on her own photo shoots now!

 
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Christine

i love these pictures… they’re so unique. i also like it that it’s a ladies-only (and manmaid)photoshoot :)

 
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Miss Peep Toe (message)  1,636 posts, Bumble bee

Once again. Love your pics. Love the one with everyone on the stairs and you out in front. So great!!

 
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Miss Taffy (message)  2,605 posts, Sugar bee

Lovely! I love all of the different black dresses, and the vintage suitcases! :)

 
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Mrs. Green Tea (message)  705 posts, Busy bee

the bridesmen i wanted all rejected me with the same excuse ‘you know i’d do anything for you GT but i just won’t be able to walk with my head up as a bridesmaid…’ even my own brother turned me down, and we share the same blood!

 
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Little Miss DIY (message)  4 posts, Wannabee

Those pictures are beautiful! What a great idea!

 
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Miss Spring Roll (message)  718 posts, Busy bee

You all look so wonderful :)

 
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Mrs. Sea Breeze (message)  913 posts, Busy bee

The cocktail rings rock! And you have to frame that b/w shot of you guys on the stairs. You just HAVE to.

 
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Miss Hot Cocoa (message)  1,721 posts, Bumble bee

I love love love the group shots on the stairs.

 
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Loaf

Oh Mrs. Avo, you steal my heart every time! I am just loving these recaps. Kelli Nicole is really something special. I think you can tell that she knew you (and that she’s a great photog!) because there’s something extra special in her photos of your wedding.

Or maybe I’m just hoping that’s the way it is since we’re having a friend photograph our wedding, too!

I love the suitcases and non-identical dresses! And the bridesman! My brother will be mine.

 
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D

Mrs. Avo, your wedding pictures are definitely my favorite!! There have been many bees who’s photos have been awesome as well, but yours have such clarity, simplicity, and are just so darn cute! Also the best part — you have SO MANY!! I love having tons of pictures :)

 
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Authentically U Bride

Those are beautiful, creative shots!!!

 
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mrsroth (message)  74 posts, Worker bee

Beautiful! One of my favorite pictures of my fiance and I were taken on those very Pike Place steps!

http://photos-c.ak.fbcdn.net/photos-ak-snc1/v274/100/75/10724313/n10724313_39103394_3829.jpg

 
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Lillindy (message)  4,275 posts, Honey bee

Seriously, you have some of the best wedding photos, you are so lucky! I wish I knew about Kelli Nicole before my wedding, but since I didn’t I plan on telling everyone I know about her!

 
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EDB

I hadn’t thought about that issue with bridesmen…maybe a shot of high-fiving or terrorist fist-bumping would work out for future brides and their bridesmen? Or of course a playful noogie…I bet brides love that.

 
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Mrs. Pinot Noir (message)  772 posts, Busy bee

These all turned out great!! I love the shots with the suitcases and the stair case makes an awesome back drop!

 
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Mrs. Avocado (message)  1,411 posts, Bumble bee

@D: It is SOOO nice to hear that someone else likes looking at all my pictures (I obviously love doing so). It makes writing these posts worthwhile.

@mrsroth: That picture is hot! And I love the angle on it.

@Lillindy: I’m doing my best to make her world famous. Thanks for helping out with the cause!

 
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Miss Quiche (message)  2,186 posts, Buzzing bee

Oh Mrs. Avo…simply gorgeous pictures, as usual!! :)

 
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Gidgett

Your photos are absolutely awesome!! They’re such fun, unique shots. I can see so much personality just bustin’ out of them! :)

 
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Mrs. Emerald (message)  901 posts, Busy bee

Oh Avo, I <3 you, you are awesome, hehe

 
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Miss Latte (message)  646 posts, Busy bee

Gorgeous pictures! Love the suitcases, love the rings, love it all! Keep ‘em coming!

On a side note, I practiced some of your posing tips in front of the mirror this morning…I am doomed and have a LOT more practicing to do.

 
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Mrs. Espresso (message)  1,064 posts, Bumble bee

These are amazing Avo. ALL OF THEM. You know what- I’m gonna scroll up and look at them again

 
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